Is she into me?

Nandout · **Joined:** Wed Jan 18, 2006 9:18 am **Posts:** 168

I recently had a discussion with an old friend that stated he stopped asking for contact information from women(pros). This he said, decreased his number of contacts but increased his good experiences and GFE's. While I usually ask for contact info, just wondering how many of the membership use this tactic? I plan to sart using this approach on my next monger run to Rio in a month or so. For whatever reason if she volunteers her info,she wants to $ee you again and increases the outcome of the next encounter.

Hmmm...no matter how good she looks I can't ask for her contact information.........not sure if I can pull this one off but........

Have fun with it and if this poll has been created in the past, I apologize.

Enjoy!

Zippy · **Joined:** Wed Oct 06, 2004 10:04 pm **Posts:** 2667

I usually have a good time with a Latina & let it go at that. I do find most ask me if I want to see them again, if I want their # etc.? What is a guy to say especially when what I look for are the newbies

?? I take this as a good sign. They must see you as a clean decent guy (WITH ENOUGH $$) to do this since they have plenty of options.

I am not looking for anyone to get in my way of variety so most of the Latinas # just end up in the waist can with the spent condoms. Everyone should do what is right for them. You can find some nice Party friends from time to time but to EVER try to make more out of it than this I think is very foolish & doesnâ€™t speak well for us. Enjoy the good parts without getting sucked into all the crap they try to feed us has worked well for me.

Most guys I see canâ€™t quite leave well enough alone. :lol:

After all they "had a special connection" that they could just FEEL!

TimBones · **Posted:** Sat May 03, 2008 11:40 am

Nope, no good can come of it.

Pacifica55 · **Posted:** Sat May 03, 2008 1:04 pm

Nandout wrote:

I recently had a discussion with an old friend that stated he stopped asking for contact information from women(pros). This he said, decreased his number of contacts but increased his good experiences and GFE's.

I don't understand the logic (or lack thereof...). Usually, an exchange of info occurs after the session. How would not asking for contact info improve GFE's?

Is he saying that only contacting girls who offer their info is some kind of "she likes me" guarantee? I find this doubtful because their are a lot of reasons why she would or would not give her info besides "she likes me".

If the goal is to find out whether or not she likes him, I would suggest learning to read body language. Her lips may lie but the responses that she shows through body language are largely unconscious and therefor much more truthful, whether she wants to reveal her feelings or not.

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Nope, no good can come of it.

Again, I don't understand the logic here: No good can come of exchanging contact info? I find that girls who pass the body language test and perform well the first time only get better on subsequent meetings. Logistically, if I have her contact info, I can have her meet me somewhere rather than hoping I run into her. How can I do this without contact info?

Timbones - If you are saying that RFMs come soon after contact info is exchanged, so what? Requests for money are not bills that must be paid. II consider them to be the chica's little fishing expeditions: She just wants to know if this "fish" is a sucker who will bite. When I politely let them know that I am not going to give them money I find that they drop the request with no hard feelings. If she persists (none have) I would jsut drop her. Upside: I can contact her when I want to see her. Downside: I occasionally have to demonstrate that I can say "no" and mean it without being hostile. Where is the "no good can come of it"?

Since I don't understand the question, I did not vote in the poll.

Hank · **Joined:** Mon Dec 29, 2003 11:20 am **Posts:** 2700

Pacifica55 wrote:

Timbones - If you are saying that RFMs come soon after contact info is exchanged, so what? Requests for money are not bills that must be paid.

Please be advised that refusal to send money for RFM's can reflect negatively on your credit score and result in financial judgements against you in a court of law

Zippy · **Joined:** Wed Oct 06, 2004 10:04 pm **Posts:** 2667

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I would suggest learning to read body language. Her lips may lie but the responses that she shows through body language are largely unconscious and therefor much more truthful, whether she wants to reveal her feelings or not.

This is the key to the whole show IMHO that & how well you honestly read & interpret this. IMHO this just allows you to get more of a good performance out of her for at least awhile, while she hopes you will take notice.

Pacifica55 from what I read of your posts you have tweaked this game well. I would bet you get a lot of mileage out of your style.

Pacifica55 · **Posted:** Sat May 03, 2008 2:43 pm

Zippy, my way works well for me. So much of "success" is dependent on what it is you are trying to do. If your goal is to have a good weekend, hit as many willing holes as possible and spend a "reasonable" amount of money then my way is too much work, takes too much time and costs too much money. Your mileage may vary.

I still don't understand the original premise.

Western · **Posted:** Sat May 03, 2008 2:59 pm

My $0.02...

Some chicas you may want to see again. Having their contact info can facilitate. :wink:

Other chicas, mas por menos. Even if they offer their info you will probably just toss it. :roll:

I just got an email yesterday from a favorita that I stay in touch with. She remembered that I am going to CR next week and said that she is "waiting" for my return. She has even managed to get a cell phone (with no RFM!) so she gave me her number. I will definately be giving her a call when I hit town!

I had a chica that I didn't know leave her name & number at my hotel. Someone named Tatia. I never recalled meeting her (no idea how she got my name & room #) & saw no need to return a "cold call". Her name & number were tossed.

I think that ervery encounter is unique & it is impossible to generalize that you should never ask for contact info or never accept contact info. But, as usual, YMMV!

Puravidatransport · **Posted:** Sat May 03, 2008 5:27 pm

Is she really into me???
LOL...NEVER

Nandout · **Joined:** Wed Jan 18, 2006 9:18 am **Posts:** 168

Well gents, actually I was puzzled by my buddies logic also. This mainly applies to first encounters, sort of a gauge he described. When he meets a woman in a club,terma,MP etc.,no matter how good the initial conversation or sexual encounter (if one happens),he will not have contact with them again unless she volunteers her info without him asking for it. If they provide their info first, he will supply a way for her to contact him. If they merely ask for his info without giving theirs first, he doesn't give it or creates an excuse...hmmm. I kinda take it for what it's worth, P4P nothing more and if we meet by chance again, so be it. Every once in a while, I'am sure we all like a good GFE. His strategy is suppose to increase the number of overall GFE's and good encounters vs. the average/bad...so he tells me.

I wanted to get some thoughts on this and if anyone now does this. I will put it to the test a few times and see what happens. The points raised are interesting.

Enjoy!

Pacifica55 · **Posted:** Sat May 03, 2008 9:33 pm

I think there are better gauges than whether or not she is quick with her digits. :wink:

VegasBob · **Posted:** Sun May 04, 2008 10:32 am

Your "value" to a chica (working) is in direct proportion to how many weeks/year you spend here in CR. This question should be broken down into 2 catagories..... those who come here a couple of times a year, and those who live here or it just seems that they do since they are always around. Personally I like to keep a rotation of around 5-6 chicas that are fun and not hardcore. For the most part I have stopped taking numbers on the first date,but instead I give them my number if I like them, and if they call me I guess they are showing interest. There is nothing worse and more degrading than chasing a hooker and having her avoid you.

J0sie · **Posted:** Sun May 04, 2008 11:38 am

The way the question was presented gives the wrong idea. The level/intensity of how a chica is into me is relative at the amount of money that I am willing to spend. They are experts are estimating how much you can afford or they can take out of you. Nothing else matters and to assume anything else is just an illusion. Enjoy it for what it is.

Pacifica55 · **Posted:** Sun May 04, 2008 12:56 pm

That's right, JOsie, they are all heartless mercenary clones, devoid of any shred of emotion: The empty husks of what used to be women, forever doomed to wander the night searching for the souls of hapless mongerers like some forgotten scene from Night of the Living Dead.

...or...

They are women, just like other women. They do what they do because they have no other skills that will pay 1/4 what they can make in the gulch. Yes, they will take advantage of the weak, the timid and especially the gelded.

But they do not generally rob their victims. Instead, they hold out their hand and wait for the weak to fill it with cash. Of course, the weak then feel very foolish, once their erection has diminished, and blame the chica for being a heartless 'ho. It is much easier to denigrate the working girl rather than placing the blame where it belongs. :roll:

Tman · **Posted:** Sun May 04, 2008 1:24 pm

VBob said

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There is nothing worse and more degrading than chasing a hooker and having her avoid you.

That line cracked me up Bob. In addition to that reason for not becoming phone pals with these chicas are...when you call you spend the first 5 minutes trying to remind them who you are. OR...you get a monotone voice calling you "baby" or "mi amor"...and even 5 minutes after reminding them of your name...they still dont remember it.

With these chicas gentlemen...you are a NUMBER. Preferable starting with "Cien". :wink:

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