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Sounds good P55, but personally, if it was to be considered a real "relationship", I'm just too naturally jealous and posessive to allow my partner to be able to see whomever and do whatever she wants to.

But she indeed would have to be a very special breed of kitten. One who understands mens' naturally "safado" nature and normal biological urges and is mature enough and trusts me enough to not require more than my emotional fidelity - understanding the difference between that and my physical desires. That doesn't mean I would be out every night of the week phucking every chica in sight. But a night out with the boys every so often with a bit of fooling around would be tolerated, as long as I kept it on a somewhat discreet level.

A double standard, I suppose? Yeap, but that's what works for me...

Tman has posted a number of times about having something along this model, and I envy him for it.

I had one who started as a friend and drinking buddy. She was 25 and I was 35 and recently divorced. She loved to drink and dance and we would go out and pick up couples and other girls. She was Liv Tyler likes in looks and had an over the top outgoing personality. We used to do long weekends all over the US especially in Vegas. She always had her pick of guys and girls anywhere we went and always made sure that I had a stunner as well as our own time together.

We both agreed to not get married again and just hang out doing whatever the hell we liked. Three years later I slipped up and fell in love iwht the second Mrs. Tuna and had to end the relationship. Hardest and one of the worst decisions I ever made.

She is the only gringa I know who could come to CR, hang wiht the guys and give Pamela a run for her money.


BKTUNA
I am sometimes not very bright

In my opinion, our very own Circus had the perfect relationship. It was with miss Huggy. She never said a word and was always available for whatever that misfit monger wanted.
LVSteve

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Just an old horney, fat gambler.

Until she just up and disappeared without so much as a good bye kiss

Typical woman.

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Alex Levine

My gringa and I have fooled around in the swingers' scene a few times over the past few years. At one point I posted a profile (as a single male) on adultfriendfinder.com, trying to hook up with ladies who needed more attention. There are a lot of fake ads on there but I also had a lot of communications with girls who were sincere. Most of them would say that they were looking for no-strings sex play but in my experience most of them still wanted to have the option of a LTR. In my 30s, decent looking and average physique, I found that had I been single there would have been many options of liberal girls to get with, but too many of them cooled off as soon as I told them I was married - even if I offered for them to meet the wife. Many of these girls were also bi-curious but were afraid to explore with other girls on their own - they want a man involved to help spread out the awkwardness.

Anyway my point is that I think you could find a chick who wants to explore with girls, would let you have your way with others from time to time, and who wouldn't be opposed to you spreading your fun out a little.

I for one have the wife who doesn't want to behave like I do but she has been to the DR and ZB with me and has no problem with me taking my upcoming third and fourth trips to CR this year.

good luck. Having enjoyed this marriage and its flexability, if for some reason I ended up single again I would NEVER be able to have another LTR unless the new girl was as understanding as the current (which I do intent to keep) Right now I have the best of both worlds and my best advice to the single but LTR motivated monger is to find the relationship that allows your hobby or don't even consider it.

-CCR

I guess I want what CCR or Dave have...

A woman who understands my needs, and is not only tolerant, but encouraging of them...