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No I'm not poking fun at the novia guys, this is a real topic and any input from novios would be appreciated...

Another member recently invited me to la playa saying "bring your novia or favorita" (I've never even met him personally- aren't CRT guys great?) Anyway I responded that I had a few favoritas but would have to decide which one would be the "least pain in the ass" for a weekend trip. After thinking about this I realized a few things:
1) I'd consider them all a pain in the ass for that long-term of a relationship. (2 days)
2) Am I really missing out on something by not having a regular novia?
3) How can I possibly have been with 100+ chicas and not know at least one I'd like to spend a weekend with? What's wrong with me, am I loco, afraid of commitment, wanting to avoid any complications beyond just sex for cash, or just a horny dog? I see all sorts of guys on here talking about their novias, sending them valentines, dinero, phone calls, etc... To me some of these situations seem similar to how Angelina Jolie made adopting refugee Babi*s "hip" now a gringo supporting a 3rd world novia is hip, oops sorry- let me get back on track.

I had a Colombiana a couple yrs. back that got kind of close, she even invited me to spend a week at her apartment and I was seriously considering it until she said "pero no otra chicas" well phuck that senorita I'm not in CR to be monogamous I don't care how good your pu*sy is- so I stayed in my usual hotel and the sexo with her quickly cooled off.
I had another favorita for a while that said she loved la playa and would go for free if I took her but I got sick that trip, she had a visa and bugged me for a long time to fly her up for a visit but I'd rather fly there and do them all than be stuck here with just her and the hassles of having to keep her entertained. So I've passed up on a couple chances for novia-hood but oddly still consider myself a GFE guy, I really like to get to know some of them and see them every trip but the desire to do many supercedes any desire to focus on just one. I wouldn't mind a novia to take to la playa or do some normal stuff with but am damn sure going to still want to screw otra chicas and have fun with the guys in the gulch when I feel like it (like maybe every day and night).

So seriously are your novias all working girls? Do you novio-guys do other women while down there? If so does she know it or do you have to sneak around (like Latinoheat does during the day to MPs) to get some strange? Sure it looks nice to have a regular girl on your lap every night to party with, take to dinner, kiss in public and do you at a discount rate but it looks to me there is another price to pay- freedom. And the gulch is no place I can imagine being tied down to one woman but maybe it wouldn't be so bad if the details fit my agenda and she got what she wanted. We all have our own style and plan of action in the gulch and am wondering if maybe it's time to fine-tune mine or try something different.
Gracias novios.

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YO Paco:

I can feel your pain. No problema. Just ask your bud, Latinoheat, to release one from his stable. You know the fine quality chicas he keeps just looking for a young well to do hombre like yourself to come whisk them out of his dominant grasp. Damn, at least you would wine and dine them instead of that bale of hay he feeds them.

Sorry, Heat. I didn't mean to rob you of your nest of fine fillies but this is a sharing organization. Paco needs love and commitment. It's the proper thing to do.

Don't thank me Paco. Friends always look out for one another.

Circus

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Paco,

Your post had me laughing at first. Oh boy.... Here we go again....

Seriously, I don't think you will be able to hitch a non-puta for that short period of time. Especially, if you are a tourist and will only be in town for a weekend.

I do have several chicas (putas) I'd recommend for a 2 day trip. These girls will most likely NOT be a pain in the ass as long as you have a good agreement with them. They are fun gals. They are cool. They are good in the sack. But, as everyone knows, your mileage always varies.

Which beach are you going to? If it is Jaco or Hermosa, this will be easy.

I know a gal from Puntarenas who is great. She is incredible in bed and absolutely will worship you. If I call her, and give a recommendation, she will meet you anywhere. She is a guaranteed great service provider. She also is NOT a thief. PM me for details.

I know another gal who is great. She lives in Tibas, but has a second HQ in Jaco. She doesn't do the BB anymore and only relies on steady repeat customers. This gal is CRAZY fun and GREAT in bed too. Also... a proven non-thief... which is important for the longer sessions.

Both of these gals used to be rated about a 9. They are now in their mid to late 20's. Don't get me wrong. They are definitely between a 6 and 8. In fact, Jessica gained a little weight last time I saw her and now swears she lost it all. I'll inquire about her weight status, if you want. They both are good lookin gals and pretty much gave up on the bullshit at the DR and the BB. It would be hard to find them unless you know them.

Most of the other gals I know are ALL ABOUT THE MONEY. Da me. Da me. Da me.... until you're broke.

Again, PM me and I'll try to hook you up.

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Dear, dear PacoLoco there truly is NO HOPE for you is there now ?????? Really many guys are in this position I feel. Who wants to go to CR to only be with “ONE”??? NOT I!!

Sounds like so many I know. I feel this might be different with the quality we have in our on backyard with the given options we have here. Try both & learn from thoughs that have done this .

Yes this would be nice but look how much work it takes to keep one happy & your loss of freedom. Have to find a special one to pull this off & that means looking & finding a “unaffected one” outside the Gulchery trechary !

Hey don’t fault Latinoheat he may very well know what he is doing! Paco there is always a price to be paid for one privilege or another. Is it worth it? I feel it depends on what you want & value more. You can have both but it is a lot of work & you have to be “cool & logical” to balance this & pull it off. At least it can be done & one can enjoy the best of both worlds as long as your inter soul can deal with it.

True & the good thing is you can fine tune it one way or the other. At least it all exists there & we have so many advantages there than here to do as we wish .

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Pacoloco, don't change your standard operating procedures!!!

My wingmans novia wanted to set me up with her roomate but I was always too busy drinking and having fun with several chicas on my first trip. On my second trip she sends a driver to pick us up and drop us off at their place for a house party. After the party ends we jump into a car and hit El Pueblo. I ended up hooking up with the roomate that night, the following day and day after as well. The deal was since we didn't meet as Puta/Client that no money would be exchanged.

On the fourth day we all went to the mall in a large group. As we're walking around window shopping the chica wants to hold my hand ever time I looked at other chicas. After about an hour of hanging out at the mall and checking out all the beautiful chicas I pulled my wingman aside and told him I didn't like the situation and wanted to hit the Del Rey. I told the chica that I had a good time with her but needed to take care of some business with these gringos back at HDR. The chicas were all pissed off at me but I knew I was wasting valuable time. Off I went to the HDR were I was met by one of my favoritas. We had a few drinks at the bar before my wingman walks into the DR with the chicas in tow. I felt bad about the whole thing but what the Phuck!! It's Costa Rica baby!! And there are lots of chicas to meet. I ended up having to run around HDR/KL to avoid the chica after several other available chicas made themselves unavailable to me because they said that I was the chicas novio and they didn't want problems.

I had the novia, non-pro (pro), along with a couple of favortias. In the end all were a pain in the ass to keep happy. This takes work and the truth is I'm on vacation and I need to relax. The best times I had was with one of my favoritas who I never hung out with outside of HDR and my room. This kept things simple and never caused me any problems whatsoever until some cocksucker crt member informed her i posted pics of her in the VIP section.

In the end all these experiences made me a better monger in the long run. I'm all'z grownz up Pacoloco!!! For whatever reason, every thing I've learned in life I've learned the hard way. For me, it seems to be the only way.

Anyways, keep your freedom and sample as many women as you can during your stay. Why bother being tied down to one puta when there are alot of other putas that need to make money?

Remember, which is to say don't forget that it's PUTA VIDA!!
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PacoLoco:

Do not have one, do not want one but cannot understand why you would have trouble finding one. You're a decent man with not too many bad habits and most girls would not be ashamed to be seen with you. You're learning the language and know your way around so I do not understand why you would have trouble finding a novia. After all this is Gringo Gulch in San Jose were all things come with a price tag. Do some interviews get the word out let them know what you're looking for and what you're willing to pay for it.

I just know you're not looking for love. We are talking about a paid performance here aren't we? This is not that envy thing coming to the surface again is it?

Lee

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Lee,

I have to agree with you... I don't have one & I don't want one. I do have a friend though that is a working girl, but that is it. We talk every once in awhile thru email, but a novia is isn't.

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Now, I am back in the game!

I have what feels like the flu coming on so I cannot be responsible for whatever I might write. I would venture to say that 90% or more of all the novias we hear about on here are pay-for-play. So the concept of novia/working chica is a joke if one defines said relationship by American standards or even Latin American standards. It's all one big make believe fairy tale. Here's what I mean.

I get off the phone with my good Colombian amiga in San Jose who is a P4P employee 10 munites ago. I don't "do" this chica, but we became good friends 1 1/2 years ago. I don't send her money... blah, blah, blah. I ask her how many novios she has in the US. She says many and is laughing. She tells me MANY chicas in the DR have gringo novios while at the same time they have Tico bf's and even husbands. I'm laughing about how stupid these gringos are and that the entire novio/novia thing is fake. She agreed. All this fits in with the RFM/Western Union thing. She, mi amiga, sends me this email and tells me she couldn't write last night because the chicas in the KL were all on the computers for the longest time sending Western Union requests...... Jajajaja..... as she put it.

The point being.... friendships can work, but there can't be any exchange of dinero for anything. If there's $$$ involved then..... you get the point.

Berk.....

How many trips back was it that you had the real estate chica Pamela in your room as often as possible. You were not looking over deeds or title policies if I remember correctly. Until the tat on the lower back you had a NOVIA. You can't fool me. I was there!

Berk.......

Yes Berk I think Lee would have taken her away to the beach in a heartbeat, (remember him talking about "DelRey love"?) and eventually she would have sold him a condo so that tattoo that "ruined her" for him probably saved him $180k U.S.

Thanks Circus,
Latinoheat said I could have one of his old heifers that he's put out to pasture since she's put on about 50 lbs. but she really doesn't do much for me.
Yes Zip & TP it seems there would definitely be some trade-offs for having a novia, TP wasn't that you that got kicked out of the HDR one trip because of a novia going ballistic in there?
I was talking to another member-con-novia in the BM last trip while ogling the hot spinners and his novia walked up behind him, spotted us and quickly walked away. I think she was spying on him so I told him she was in there, it was funny since he was considering "cheating" on her. And that cheap bastard LH gets his novias cheaper than anyone I know since they all fall in love with him- 30k for TLNs, but the downside is he has a date every night and can't hunt with the big dogs and has to go to bed early. Until he eventually dumps her for ordering an expensive drink or breaks her heart when something cheaper comes along.

Chi_trekker thanks for the offer but it looks like I'll have to postpone my trip a week or 2 due to work and probably won't make the playa trip. I'm sure if I came down a couple days beforehand I could easily find a good candidate for a beach trip, it was just strange that with all the chicas I know there's really not a favorita that comes to mind I'd like to spend a weekend with. Felt like I was missing out on something but if that something comes with drama, maintenance, complications and having to sneak around it wouldn't be worth the hassle for me.
But I am still seriously curious about the guys with novias and the arrangements they have- do the novias expect you to be only with them while you're in town? Do you have to sneak around on her? Or are you actually monogamous in a place loaded with hot, available women? And since (I assume) most of these novias are working girls doesn't it bother you that she's banging other gringos when you aren't there? Unless of course she's being paid not to work which I wouldn't do, but I have been offered the deal a couple times. VB probably remembers the hot newbie Tica that needed me to give her only 2 grand for school so she wouldn't have to work anymore. Another missed novia opportunity I guess but I can't afford those prices or want one that bad.

I guess the real question here might be: Is it possible to have a novia that won't cost a fortune & drive you nuts and still bang all the chicas you want and hang with your perverted buds at the HDR? If so how do I find THAT novia?

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The simple answer: yeap. I've had that the last two trips with someone I originally hooked up with back in May of last year. She knows what I'm all about and has no illusions about it, and I'm not in love with her. Very affectionate and accommodating, sleeps over every night at a very reasonable rate, gives me some "alone time" during the day to do my thing, and even helps set up 3-somes if that's my whim.

How do I do it? Just a sexy bitch, I guess....

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Its quite simple. If your "novia" is a prostitute, TELL HER YOU WANT TO PHUCK OTHER CHICAS. She should react in a cool manner and recommend her amigas. If she becomes bitchy at that, then tell her to go phuck all. If you partake in other chicas, she may put a dramatic spin on shit and then try to flaunt her next john in your face. WHO PHUCKING CARES!!!!

Guys... get over relationship bullshit with putas!!!!

If she isn't a puta, then its a little more complicated, but not much. I'm phucking tired... i've been flying a lot and drinking... and will write more on this topic later....

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Paco,your answer lies in the fact that NONE of the MMen have even bothered to respond to your sincere question. Is it that that know they are being stupid dreamers? Is it that they know they will be torn apart by the more savy mongers that post here? Is it that they have NOTHING GOOD to say about their situation? Is it that they find it difficult to reconsile the fact that they have this "special" novia but sneak off to bang an MP as often as they can get away with it? (sounds like me when I was unhappily married) Is it that they can't think of anything good to say about their situation other than they are getting the most expensive kind of sex available here in CR.... FREE SEX? As I've said many times before,I'm not against having a special chica (or whatever you want to call her) in fact I always have 4-5 of them at any given moment. Paco,you knew the answer to your question when you first asked it...just keep doing what you are doing. If it ain't broke..don't fix it.

IMHO...a Novia is a good thing. But if you go that route both my have certain expectation. Make sure you define the relationship. Enjoy the ride or pass.....it's your experience and your choice.

As far as finding a Novia.....If you want a non-working girl you better learn some spanish. There are plenty of them out there willling to be the novia of a gringo. Yes, they love our dollars....but don't all women? Most are happy being able to travel, going to resturants and doing other things they normally do not get to do. Mine really likes traveling in the my rent-a-car instead of the Autobus!!!!!

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Who cares if I have a date every night, that's what I am there for, I'm not there not to sit in some ass breaking wood chair for six hours consuming over priced drinks and having an anxiety attack wondering if the waitress is going to bring my change back to the table. "Big Dogs" where???? Like it's a real challenge to get laid. I get enough variety to keep me satisfied, some girls last a few trips some girls last one trip it all depends on me...not them.

I think you may need to get out and grab a beer somewhere, being at home in Shitsville on a Saturday night starring at your white walls is starting to take it's toll. Holy shit I just looked at my calendar and my next trip is 12 days away, how the time flies. Don't worry I'll give you daily updates on all my conquest and tell you how I wish you were here.