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Author:	King Costa [ Mon Oct 16, 2006 2:41 pm ]
Post subject:	Costa Rica - A chance to reinvent yourself
I would like to dedicate this post to the hundreds or perhaps thousands of Gringos over 40 out there frustrated with their lives in the U.S. I've met countless Gringos in Costa Rica and I can easily spot those guys here in the States with their shoulders hunced, head down and just waiting for death. In fact, I have met several of these guys in Costa Rica. I remember one guy over 70 that lost 3 wifes to cancer and had all but thrown in the towel. Yes, he was in the DR and I saw him 3 days later with a swagger in his step and whole new sense of confidence and hope for the future. Forget all this BS about cien chicas etc. How do you put a price on regaining your confidence and a will to enjoy what is left in your life? Who cares what he spent? Yes, I was also one of these Gringos before Costa Rica. Frustrated with the wife and vocationally as well. I took a chance and bought a couple of houses for rental. Needless to say, things went well and now I will be embarking on a new venture in Costa Rica. Yes, I reinvented myself. A 50 year old has been is now reliving his youth in CR. I am over 50 and I can't remember the last time I was so excited about the future. Great GF, buddies in CR, professional Tico friends, and a new purpose for living. With a little experience and education this could be you as well. So the next time you are feeling sorry for yourself get your ass to Costa Rica and embrace the experience. Remember, you only go around once in life. I will never forgot what ole Flander said to Philly Rookie, Willy SP and myself on his last trip to CR before he departed to the DR in heaven. I would rather be a has been than a never was. That says it all dudes. God Bless King Costa

Author:	FMR [ Mon Oct 16, 2006 2:46 pm ]
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Amen to that!!!!!

Author:	Mucho Gusto [ Mon Oct 16, 2006 3:04 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Costa Rica - A chance to reinvent yourself
King Costa wrote: ....How do you put a price on regaining your confidence, and a will to enjoy what is left in your life? KC, Although I'm not quite 50 yet, I think you've nailed it! IMHO, it's all about our "quality of life". Whether you're single, married, divorced or widowed, we're only on this earth for a short time. And no matter which category you fall into, why shouldn't we enjoy the many pleasures in life? It's been said before, that CR provides the "fountain of youth" to many. Phuckin' A, I agree! I feel that those of us (who've found the multitude of pleasures in CR, or other mongering destinations) are very lucky. And we're a very small percentage. Like everyone else, I know many, many guys who don't have a clue, and they'll probably never travel outside of the U.S. They're simply stuck in a mundane existence, going through the motions, day to day, and just waiting until their number is called. They don't know about all the different options out there, and they have no idea how to improve their overall "quality of life". And it makes no difference as to what income bracket you fall into. We all know the importance of maintaining good health. But how about good "mental" health? For me, this is what I've found in CR. I know that it sucks every time you have to get on that big bird, and fly back home to the "real world", but personally, I go home with a clearer head, and a better overall attitude. Plus, my trips to CR give me a sense of new, and enable me to appreciate the balance between both worlds.... the real world in the U.S., and the fantasy world in CR. Life is short, so smoke 'em if ya got 'em! Again, great post King Costa! Pura Vida Gentlemen, MG

Author:	GetRhythm [ Mon Oct 16, 2006 3:52 pm ]
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KC, This is just the kind of thing I needed to see right now, as I've been contemplating taking the big risk for some time. I'm more than ready to throw in the towel as far as life in the States goes, and I'm hoping that the same sense of renewal, confidence and vitality I always feel when I'm visiting CR will carry over when living there. And though it's great to have the mongering options available (actually, there are many better mongering destinations - if that's all you truly want), my primary reasons for doing this are as you say "to reinvent oneself" - to really see what sort of possibilities life has to offer. Anyways, every time I feel depressed about how things currently are here, I keep reminding myself to just "keep your eye on the prize" - which hopefully I can bring to fruition sometime early next year. Gracias, amigo. GR

Author:	King Costa [ Mon Oct 16, 2006 4:14 pm ]
Post subject:	life in CR
GR Maybe this will help you a little. IMHO there are 3 things that you need to have in CR to be happy. 1. Female Companionship 2. Buddies 3. A purpose to life. This could be a lot of things. ie. your hobbies, interests, a business, volunteer work. Anything to get you going when you get up. Life could get real boring with nothing to do. 4. The balls (cojones) to make the decision. I expect to be down there most of time within the next 6 months. What a life!!!! Stay well King Costa

Author:	Madhatter [ Mon Oct 16, 2006 4:19 pm ]
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It's would seem a few of us are contemplating "pulling the trigger" in the near future. I myself am working towards moving there the beginning of next year. Maybe it would be smart or a good idea for those of us planning a move soon to get together as a group and see what we could do to help each other out. Maybe we could even save some money doing something together. I know, it's unlikely we all have the same ideas about things, but, you never know. PM me if interested and we'll go from there. Madhatter

Author:	King Costa [ Mon Oct 16, 2006 4:24 pm ]
Post subject:	Life in CR
Madhatter You don't need to do anything together. There are always CRT guys around. In fact, it's easier to make friends in Costa Rica than in the U.S! Just remember that living in CR is about the simple things in life. No one gives a phuck about how much money you have or your phuckin social status. We just help each other out just like the Ticos. Pura Vida See ya in CR.... yahoo.... King Costa

Author:	Madhatter [ Mon Oct 16, 2006 4:44 pm ]
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King Costa, Err it's wasn't really writing about making friends or how much money anyone has. I got's plenty freinds there, but they are already there and settled. There are plenty of ways for "like minded" guy's who are moving from one country to another to reduce their move costs and/or purchase costs. That's what interested me, if a few are planning the move at the same or about the same time, there's money to be saved as well as the sharing of ideas and knowledge. Respectfully, Madhatter

Author:	Zippy [ Mon Oct 16, 2006 4:52 pm ]
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King check this link out it says it all ! https://costaricaticas.com/vip/root.php?cat=8&ini=0 It is the 9th picture down title Retirement Options ! MG Quote: We all know the importance of maintaining good health. But how about good "mental" health? For me, this is what I've found in CR. I agree MG CR makes living in the USA a much better experience, lets me tolerate all the BS much easier knowing I have a fix for it anytime I want to take a break . What is funny even the hot Gringas I work with like me better after these trips since they see I have more life about me go figure !

Author:	Santas Bro [ Mon Oct 16, 2006 7:39 pm ]
Post subject:	The good life....
My first visit to CR will begin next week. I am envious of the many vet's that feel that CR is making their life more positive. I trust that mine will be enhanced by the experience. I have been blessed all my life. Good just seems to follow me. About six years ago I took a journey that has changed my life. I was initiated into the New Warriors. One weekend, and I have never been the same. One of the many things that I have learned is, "when I am thinking a thought that does not serve my highest goal for myself, I can change that thought immediately." It is not easy, for my ego likes the the safety of the comfort zone that I have created for it. Think about the best day (time) of our your life. Would your life be the same if you placed yourself in that state at every moment of every second? That is my goal, to put myself in that place even when my ego is calling me to a place I have created that is safe, but not good for me. I now use trigger mech's to know sooner when I am heading towards that place knowing it will not serve me well. This works at any time, at any place when I choose to use it. Hold your head high for you are just one thought from being a king. Again, thanks for the many posts that have given me information to make my first trip to CR a great vacation. Party hardy, and pure vida. Health, happiness and prosperity to all........... Santas Bro

Author:	Circus [ Mon Oct 16, 2006 7:45 pm ]
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YO K.C. First of all, friends from this site are perhaps the biggest advantage in living in CR at this time....that is if you have networked through this site and others. Unfortunately, a number of fellows on this stie may not have takened advantage of it. I do agree with you entirely about the friend advantage....yet it does remain unresolved as to the quality of these so called friends and if that relationship is just one of being a "part time wingman." In my opinion. I agree with most of what you present but CR is certainly not the answer to a number of gringos and other nationalities that have lived there and traveled there over the years. Up until four or five years ago my attitude would be much closer to yours but with the rapid influx of of crime and the uncertainy of monetary problems that have grown in the last few years, I for one decided not to move there. Yes, a number of gentlemen on this site seem to be comfortable living there but I have had a number of friends that have left and never plan on returning to live there again. There are a number of places outside the U.S. that are certainly more desirable to live economically and chica wise. As with anything it's a matter of personal preference to one's lifestyle. Also, as an older ex-pat moves beyond that magical 60 yr. old age the disadvantages out weigh the advantages as far as investments or business in CR......or any latin country for that matter. A senior citizen had better have it before he moves there. There are many obstacles to making a living in CR or even adding to one's set income. What is that old saying that's floated around CR for the last ten years or so: "If you want to make a million dollars in CR then bring two million." Perhaps it's because I've seen a number of people completely wash out there. And I've seen a number that let bad knocks in life wash them out no matter where they lived. And yes, I know individuals that have prospered well but only a few. Unfortunately, I do not know one senior citizen that went there with just enough to live on and expanded his fortune.....wish I did. The cold hard reality, again in my opinion, is that age is possibly the telling factor. K.C., you are 50 and you were in your 40's when you blazed the trail to invest and began to set up your possible future life in CR. Also, you have a very lovely and respectful lady at your side which certainly adds to your being comfortable in CR. I envy your situation but not everyone has that well earned position. In closing, let me say that I am not one to dampen anyone's dreams of living in CR and being content with their lives. Nothing is impossible when a person sets their goals high and works dilligently to succeed. For us older farts it's a different circumstance. I do employ the younger guys to give it a try. Hell, at least you will get laid regurally.....which is more than old Circus can say.

Author:	King Costa [ Mon Oct 16, 2006 8:29 pm ]
Post subject:	life in CR
Yo Circus Sure, there are a lot of people that wash out in CR and also probably washed out in the U.S. as well. Success is not an automatic anywhere and this includes Costa Rica. Sure, crime is a problem in Costa Rica. But, ask those innocent Amish people that had their Kds in an Amish schoolhouse if they thought were safe. You do need to be in a gated community in Costa Rica. But the bottom line is if you have $3,000 a month residual income you will* live well in Costa Rica by normal standards. If you have more and some investment and business savy, you may well do better. I would not recommend betting the farm on an investment in Costa Rica. However, many guys have enough equity that they don't need to anyway. I don't really think age (over 60) is an issue. However, having a nice solid guaranteed monthly income is real nice. Also, I think that there is still plenty of upside for Costa Rica. Stay well Bro.... King Costa

Author:	LVSteve [ Tue Oct 17, 2006 9:56 am ]
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KC; two and a half years and NO regrets. I do agree with Circus on employment and making money here. Don't come if you aren't financially set. IF you can get work and thats a big if, the pay is much less than you would expect. If you think you can start or buy a business, talk to those who have. Retire here and fun but don't come here thinking you'll strike it rich. LVSteve

Author:	VegasBob [ Tue Oct 17, 2006 10:28 am ]
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KC.....Cut the shit my friend. Please stop telling all these Gringos to move down here. The pot-holed streets are too crowded already.Restaurants that used to be empty are now full. Fun chicas that used to be readily available are now busy AND ABLE TO CHARGE MORE. Other than that,I can tell you first hand after living here for 3 years...you may have solved the age-old querry of "The meaning of life" Well done my friend.

Author:	King Costa [ Tue Oct 17, 2006 10:50 am ]
Post subject:	life in CR
LV I could not agree with you more about already having finances in place before you come down. However, I believe you will easily learn to live with less material things as you become more integrated into the culture. I saw this firsthand at Xmas time. The Ticos have a blast enjoying the holiday without spending a ton of money. VB: What can I say? I guess we should keep this a secret and more old farts like us and become depressed about prospects of hapiness in the United States. Why would anyone want to put up with Women that treat you like Gods (thanks Margie Davis), good cheap food, friendly respectful people in general, and a perfect climate. Bob: you are right. Stay home Gringos and leave all of the fun to VB and I! Shit, I think I just talked myself into staying in the United States and working till I die.

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