"Hell hath no fury as a woman spurned"...we all need to remember that and plan for that whatever our circumstances may be. OBviously the courts and legal system in the USA are going overboard on these settlement issues. I think they would be wasting the money trying to come to CR to depose people about your actions here. It would be difficult to prove unless they find one of your "novias"...or have photos (watch out for that one if youre married). If one of my exs tried suing for back "travel expenses", I would go after their clothes, beauty care, travel and other expenses in return. They would end up owing ME money in my past marriages.
Of course, the best way is to see this coming before it 'Happens", have cash stashed offshore where it cant be traced or reached (easy enough to do if you are traveling to this region anyways), and talk to them before they talk to their lawyers. Pre-educating my ex on the costs of fighting in courts and making a "pre settlement" (unless you already are smart enough to have an enforceable prenupt) saved me a LOT of attorney fees and cashing out of stocks I didnt want to liquidate. Probably doesnt work with ALL women, but worth a shot to be nice, rational, but firm on what you will do if they Phuck with you. My approach was, do this fairly my way...or I will find a way to give everything or lose everything before YOU see it. Again...all done nicely, honestly, and at the right time. NOT in the middle of a spat or emotional high tide point. And finally, YOUR lawyer has to be smarter and tougher than HERs.
VB points out the risks of not being careful here if you are married. Lets learn from this guys experience...
