www.CostaRicaTicas.com

I don't know if any of you listen to Howard Stern in the mornings, but this morning he had on a guy who arranges trips to Mexico for guys who can't get, don't want, or have gotten tired of gringas. He calls himself "Cowboy del Amor". He charges a guy like $3,000 and takes him down to Mexico for 4-5 days and introduces him to a bunch of Mexican chicks looking for husbands. The problem is that he has no pics, no videos, and it sounded kind of disorganized. He says there are no 9's or 10's, but lots of 7's and 8's. Sounds like Del Rey, but with Mexican chicks. It's basically hit or miss.

This guy himself married a Mexican and "after 9 years she became Americanized" and left him per his own words.

It doesn't take long before they turn into gringas...

While we're on this subject, there is an interesting article in the April issue of GQ (I borrowed it) regarding a guy who brought a girl from Barranquilla, Colombia back to NYC.
I couldn't find it in the online edition.

This guy is 36 and the girl was about 22. He is a super model photographer so of course he was looking for a super model type. He got much more than he bargained for, unfortunately not what he expected.

While his story is a little extreme it does illustrate that you just never know what you're going to get.

As for searching for love in other countries, there are 100s of websites that will "hook you up" for a lot less than $3000. They also usually provide photos, biographies, hotels, introductions and translation services.

Sounds very similar to "Spanish Eyes". They do the same thing in Costa Rica. The girls are supposedly non working but some have been recognized as BM part timers.

http://www.spanisheyescostarica.com/

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Hey Wit...for only $2000...I'll find you a wife here in Panama City. "til death do us part" even. I'll refund half if she outlives you ...

Tman,
That sounds great!
But I wouldn't want a $2000 wife. What have you got for say $2500?

It seems that the only way this ever happens anymore is if one kills the other.

Sounds a little like "A FOREIGN AFFAIR" that used to arrange matchmaking parties at the Hotel Castillo a little while back. I stayed at the Castillo during some of those parties, although I was not a participant. Most of the gringo participants were staying at the Castillo and I met a lot of them. Most reported a fair amount of success with it and seemed pleased. It was funny though, seeing these gringos who came down to CR only for A FOREIGN AFFAIR..... most had no idea of the "rent 'em buy the hour...as opposed to buying 'em" that myself and the fellow mongers at the Castillo were engaging in. Many of the Foreign Affair guests were picking our brains for info and soon they were doing the same thing as us, and making plans to return to CR for more of it.

Zebra

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More often than not, it's the woman who leaves the man. Ever wonder why? And sometimes it looks like the man leaves, but it was by design on her part; bitching, nagging, threatening to leave, until he does instead. Mostly people stop trying because, frankly, staying together for a millenium is unnatural. Want to be lied to? Believe in monogomy.

This bi girl I've been fooling around with hit it on the nose. She said monogomy is a myth and when it happens, one look at the people's faces usually says it all. She also said it's cool with her and her lover if they bone guys or even other women., and that she's never been lonely or jealous.

I thought about that statement; "..never been lonely or jealous." Now that's a person you want to hang out with. But is it a person you want to marry? Only if you've never been lonely or jealous, I guess.

But on the issue of who leaves who and why, women need a little "good guy", "bad guy", and "challenging guy". Men, on the other hand, need a nurturing woman, but also a slut. Roommates/best friends doesn't cut it. Whoever stops providing the above items first, wins, because then they're free to phuck around.

It's all very simple.

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"...and if men didn't have this unquenchable desire to have sex with women, then they wouldn't have anything to do with women at all. I certainly wouldn't..."

you can find the link to the GQ article on goodwife.com and read it in full man it is an eye opener

Here is a good discussion about the GQ article. Especially good is the last post on page one by Jamie. He works for the agency this guy used. Includes some background info and his letter to the editor of GQ questioning some of the liberties the magazine took in writing the article.

He also explained to the guy that they suspected this girl had "issues" but he didn't want to listen to them.

http://goodwife.com/forums/viewtopic.php?t=307

From what I have seen the whole foreign issue of finding a wife can be a huge trap. Look at the whole picture it is easy to see why.
#1 all people base too much on looks than substance.
#2 many men have a big communication barrier with the language & have to base too much on guess work & really don't know whats going on inside her head & just try to power thru it (BIG MISTAKE).
#3 women from other countries that men go after are young & beautiful but very childd like. Men get use to getting what they want the way they want it on the chase but upon the capture this may change & lead to big problems. And of course the childd like ways of these foreign women naturally creates a vacuum action to your wallet because they want to send money back to their loved ones & seem to forget the meaning of the word NO in this area.

Most guys just concentrate on what they want to see the young beauty everyone at home would die for & the hot sex they are having & they don't seem to want to look at the trouble that is usually just around the curve or over the hill.

It all can work depends on the 2 players. It is no different than any good relationship in the USA it has to be thought out in depth or you simply pay the price.

I think the pro mongerers understand this all to well & accept it for what it is & use all this to their advantage with a steady stream of beauties always ready to try their own luck with him for love or mainly money. Believe this game of mongering is better left to the pros as the non pros that are weak will get hurt at some point but this is all just my thoughts & I have been known to be WRONG!

Remember one thing is most women will do things on the chase that they stop doing after being captured so I like the chase better. Also if you think you can really cage or control one of these women with your finances you are in for a surprise. They are a human being like everybody else & eventually that Free Spirit comes out! Best way to control one is the environment she lives in this she understands all to well & it keeps the sugar plumbs from running WILD!

PS Maybe we should get a better handle on our own SUGAR PLUMBS that start dancing around in our little heads??

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Great song/lyric about marriage - Jimi Hendrix, "51st Anniversary" (you can google the lyrics). Jimi was not the marryin' kind!

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Wit...I found the link in the forum, but it was broken.

Any chance someeone could paste the article here, or provide another link?

In looking for the GQ article I found another that I thought might be of interest to readers of this thread.

http://www.nerve.com/Dispatches/Tanaka/mailorder/main.asp

dating a girl is one thing

banging a girl is a another thing

MARRYING A GIRL is completely different. Marrying a girl to get sex is like buying a huge airplane just to get the little free peanuts. you wouldn't do that, so why marry for sex? Men do it everyday.

and men get stuck a lot because they don't realize that marriage is so different from the first two, they think its a natural transition... and that things will be roughly the same, just continue for longer... they are grossly mistaken, and when either the guy or girl realizes that marriage isnt everything they thought or expected... surely it must be the spouse's fault that all their fantasies about marriage didnt come immediately true.
then the trouble comes...

never lonely or jealous.... takes someone with a lot of inner strength to be like that, something I admire anyway...

and most times it really is the woman leaving... either directly, or by rejecting the guy in every possible way until he finally does leave... that definitely happened to me... you just can't please them, you can't be all things to one woman, bad boy, nice guy, excitement... women like a challenge, no question, and by that statement, they don't actually want the marriage, like they THINK they do...

stupid girls. Damn I think sometimes their brains are broken.

and by the way, I don't think monogamy is impossible, or unnatural. Some like it better than others...IMHO
BUT married folks spend so many years offending each other, and disappointing each other, that over time, that "look on their faces" is understandable. Most folks don't have enough relationship skills to deal with that shit, and enough realistic expectations to see what marriage really is before they think they want it... I think if you have 2 people who prefer monogamy, and have the skills and understanding to manage the ups and downs, I think it can be rewarding for them. YMMV

For me, I think I will just buy the damn peanuts, and skip the airplane.

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