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Just yesterday I got a call from my special friend in Costa Rica... those that know me or her or have seen us together are aware of how good things are between us.

It seems someone from the board approached her and told her that I have been posting things about her on this forum, bad things like if I was bragging about my sexual exploits with her on the board. He told her that the things I wrote about her were degrading and of a sexual braggart nature.

Well, my friend, whoever you are, I hope you accomplished whatever it is that you wanted to accomplish by making comments on something you have absolutely no business commenting on.

And I challenge anyone.... ANYONE to find a post where I have EVER wrote anything negative or remotely degrading or even sexual in nature regarding my relationship with my special friend from C.R.

Whomever you may be who did this, here's my message to you. You are pathetic, sir, and the desperate measures you have gone to in order to 'win points' really puts you in your own level of low. Count your blessings that places like Costa Rica exist and that you have the money to pay to get laid, because people with your sad way of being probably have been lonely the large majority of your life and will most likely die in such form, because your level of values obviously rests at a point where most people, both males and females, most likely tend to avoid you once they get to know you.

My relation is tarnished due to this, and I just want to let this person know that if your intent was to put a wedge in our relationship, then mission accomplished...

If anyone has any knowledge on who did this or know anything of this matter, please pm me, as I'd like to have a nice face-to-face conversation with this fine gentleman who lurks among us.

I will continue to work on the thread regarding the Sexy Bitches Tour in May, but short of that, I am immediately withdrawing my active participation of this board... it's just become too much of a hassle to see some of the nonesense that a few bad apples have caused among the good ones among us, and moreso, I just can't afford to have to do damage control where no damage was ever done in the first place. It's a shame, as truly GREAT writers on this board, such as Johnny Black to name just one, wind up having to withdraw from such a great and fun forum because of the one or two pathetic assholes that lurk among us.

What gets me the most is... With so so SO much pu*sy in Costa Rica, why is there always that one guy who becomes get dead-set to try to move in on the one or two girls that are in good and healthy relationships with a fellow member, I mean, GAWDDAMN, what was it?? Was there just nothing else for you to move in on in all of San Jose that night??

I look forward to seeing all the goodfellaz in May, and again, if someone knows anything on this matter, please pm me and I'll be eternally grateful... or atleast grateful enough to feed you jager-bombs all night on our next encounter in paradise.


Be excellent to each other.

Ruffnutz out!

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EVERYONE'S A ROCK STAR IN C.R.!!
"Just when I thought I was out... They pull me back in." -- Ruffnutz on trying to quit CRT

That sucks! But it just shows us with greater numbers comes more likelihood of betrayal. Just shows you have to be careful, even more so than you think you are. For instance, I've got a couple of special chicas that I have never described or named. Not a relationship like yours, but because I have the utmost respect for them. If she knew in the beginning what you were doing here, and accepted it anyway, just tell her the truth that your only posts recently have been to talk about how you aren't doing this anymore. buena suerte

Ruff,

I can not believe how truly PATHETIC some people can be male or female. I just don't understand these MOTIVES?? This is why I tend to monger alone just less people to throw a monkey wrench into your life. Why do some people enjoy causing others grief especially in CR why waste your time & who has that time when there are so many Hot Chicas to play with. Usually I find the motive is over jealousy or trying to win brownie points but hell this is just a waste of time in CR. We really have some losers around here to do this & it has been a repeated problem here for many.

What goes around comes around it is just when but these type of minds repeat their same mistakes & that is why they live in such a PATHETIC STATE!!

I know- I know people will be people but my god shouldn't this whole forum be about getting the most out of this short life without phucking each other over?? We all get more out of this life with a smile & helping each other but some people are just born ass holes & phuck ups?

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Spunk glazed Chicas are the building blocks of the universe!

I'm very sorry to hear that Ruff, both about the damage to your relationship and about you pulling away from the board.

It's just amazing how short-sighted and selfish some people can be. I don't trust myself to say much more than that, as I am trying to be a gentleman on a gentleman's board. It's a shame that some others can't extend the same consideration. As you say, it's big pond, and there's lots of room for everyone to fish together. Hope you can mend the fences.

This makes absolutely no sense to me. What can be accomplished by this betrayal? Does this person think that the girl in question will go running into his arms now and they will live happily ever after? NO, he's already shown what kind of a Jackass he is. I hope you find out who he is and have him banned from the board or better yet let everyone know who it was so he can be ostracized by all. Phuckin Jerk!


Good luck in your hunt Ruff!

X

Ruffnutz,
I am sorry you had to be the recipient of the obsession of some loose cannon. It will not get him anywhere and certainly harmed you in a significant way.
I had a situation locally where I became the target of such a person who eventually found out where I work and contacted the president of my company and spread some vicious lies that caused me much stress and heartburn. Fortunately I still have my job but there were months of losing sleep and worrying what the outcome might be and I don't see how the person could have reaped any reward from what he did on the board. All I can figure is he was scorned by some lady and tried to take it out on whomever he could get access to to vent his obsessive urges. He also tried to hit some others on this local forum but they were self employed and basically told where to stick it.
Hang in there RN. Better days are ahead.

dph55

Its very difficult to start as a board member (Monger) Go the M-Man route and not have bumps in the road because of it. Our pasts follow us with us...

I believe you wrote in a past thread that she knew what you were like before and accepted you for who you were. If you have a good speakng relationship and everything is fine, then she should be able to identiy who this person was. I am sure we would all like to know. She should believe you over anybody else as if she doesn't well what does that say in her trust in you or how she will trust you in the future.

Everyone once in awhile there as some real Rotten apples no matter where you go... CRT or any board it doesn't matter, some A-Hole thinking he can make himself a bigger person in some chicas eyes, we deal with it and move on...

I hope you can resolve whatever differences you have with your lady, she should trust you a bit more and also help locate this A-hole.

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Ruff...sorry to hear about this. Yep...there are some "sickies" among us. I had some mystery person on CRT also phucking around with my GF...for over a YEAR! Calls to her when I wasnt home from some girl saying I was meeting her or "wanting her to have my baby" and BS like that. At first I thought it would just go away, but it was amazing how persistant the asshole was. At first it caused a lot of pain, tears and communication until we could file the situation for what it was...someone trying to break us up so they MIGHT have a chance. Fortunately it didnt work and our relationship grew from the situation instead.

All this to say...you're not the only one this has happened to...and if our friend is reasonable, she will understand what happend in time. BUT, I dont blame CRT nor plan to let this mytery person control my life in any way or the relationships I have here.

Ruff - Really sorry this happened. I do hope you reconsider and find a way to continue contributing to this board, I have always enjoyed your posts.

Sadly, I am not the least bit surprised. had a similar situation occur almost 20 years ago, except the guy involved was a buddy (I thought). Fortunatley another friend overheard the guy badmouthing me to my girlfriend at a bar and filled me in. I called him the guy out on it later, in front of the girl , and he had no support for any of the things he said (similar to your situation). We still run in the same large crowd, but several of us lost respect for him at that time and it has never returned (you either have character and class, or you do not). I don't know what he was thinking, he got nothing out of it and lost the respect of most of his friends at the time. As you guessed about your jerk, this guy has proven to be a big talker and big loser in life. He can not keep a girl, job or anything else worthwhile.


Again, I hope you stick around. Sorry I missed you in DC.

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Ruff sorry to hear about your situation.

Ya know this is why I don't like to write trip reports. I am worried about something coming back on me because of some No Game Havin D!@Kless A$$hole, that has to put down another to make himself sound so fantastic.

Hey looser, if you can't sell yourself without putting down others or lying you a$$ off because you a piece of $H!T, do us all a favor and go crawl in and hole. Where not in middle school grow up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ruff,
I'm truly sorry to hear about this whole incident. My feelings on this subject mirror what many have already written. I wish you and your girl much luck, and sincerely hope it all works out for you.

I'm going down to CR in 6 days (Thurs 4/6), staying at the SL. If there's anything that I can do for you, send me a PM and let me know.
ANYTHING !!!!!

Hopefully someone can identify this pr*ck, and then we can deal with him.

Hang in there mi hermano.
Mucho Gusto

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Obviously, this is probably a board member that you have met in the past.

Did you get a physical description of him?

I'm also very sorry to hear that Ruff. Unfortunately, there will always be a few bad apples among us. A real piss off

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Another sad example:

"Payment of dues does not make one a member of the group ! "


Sorry you have to put up with this shit Ruff


PIDD

Ruff;
Very sorry that this kind of thing exists. Its senseless and dosen't accomplish a thing except for screwing up your perfectly good relationship. Thanks to your post, I will be very leary of this board.
LVSteve

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