www.CostaRicaTicas.com

Yeah, there's nothing like coming home from SJO, trading e-mails with one of the chicas and feeling like you've got a connection with her. Then check out the picture gallery and there is your novia with comments from 3 or 4 CRT who have also been with her

I love this game! It's freakin' addictive!

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"With foxes, we must play the fox." ~ Thomas Fuller

I am like Shawn in that I love the game or dance as I like to say. I have been going to P$P since I popped my cherry.

But I also want to touch on the subject of who is better? The John or the puta? If you are playing ball does it matter who is catching or pitching?

Do any of us tell our mothers about this game we play? Why not? Do we tell our daughters? Why not? Do we tell our girlfreinds? Why not?

Well we have to look at ourselfs for those answers. But I do not tell them because I know it is emotionless sex. I know I do not want my daughters to do it. I know all religions frown on it. I know in my state it is ileagal. I allso know that it is a good way to catch many deceases. Some that can kill you. And I know that if I tell women I do this they will only have sex after dating for 6 months and then waiting for the test to come back. I allso know once the straight girls in CR find out you go to the DEL RAY they look at you differently. And when you do meet non working girls who know you have been to the del ray, they will only have sex with a condom even after the test.

What I am trying to say is I do not think I am in any way better than anybody else in the del ray. We all have reasons why we are there. Some are happy there and some are sad. So feel shame and some feel free. We all feel some guilt.

Who am I to tell a man or woman what they can do with their body. Who am I to tell a woman or man what they can do with their money. I feel pain when I watch people hurt themselfs or the ones who care for them.

I stole my mothers tv off her night stand. I am still ashamed of that. And will die that way. Any one who takes up with me will have to deal with the shame I carry over some of the things I have done.

When I was young and reading Louie L'moure books it was common knowledge that puta's made the best wife's. And guys like me were the kind there mothers told them to stay away from.

I love the West Virginia Bill of Rights. Damm ain't liberty and freedom of expression grand and worth dieing for?

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Take a walk on the wild side.

Some one needs to repost that one story of the guy who bought a house and then quit claimed it to his girlfriend, he gave her everything and then she kicked him out two months later and now he works back in the states for 10 dollars an hour for the guy he sold his business to so he could "retire".
Can anybody repost that post: it should be reposted every three days to protect both the newbies and remind experienced elders not to lose their way.

Lee has posted it on page 5 of this thread...
Here's another with much worse consequences... https://costaricaticas.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=14652

Jump on me for this post, but who cares!! Phuck em if they are that stupid. They deserve to have to work out the rest of their life.

You probably will get jumped on for not caring. I get jumped on all the time because I do care. I care enough to treat the girls with respect and I care enough to point out to my fellow travelers what is obvious to everyone but them.


Lee

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PS: DO NOT SEND MONEY!

That story is just pure evil in its rawest form.
I'm sure some of the DR chicas and columbianas would get logistical and strategic and analyze that situation and say.... crazy brazilian she should have done it this way and this way and she would not have got caught.
In fact Im sure they have already had a forum on this titled "things we can learn from others mistakes south of the equator" you can see the chalk board and pointer, probably even powerpoint presentations including animations and how to diagrams. Excel sheets with ROIs, IRRs, Net present values and ROCs, based on FICA scores, age, job class, heart condition and geographic location of the gringos.

I think this thread I started a while back need to be tossed out there for some you you first time guys in SJO. Remember... It's always about the money.

Berk....

Tim Bones,

Your post is an instant classic.

I was laughing my arse off.

How do I differentiate between the guys who will become the poor dumb saps and the guys who will have a great time for years too come with very minimal chances of ever becoming one of the PDS you described?

The difference between the saps and the non saps are one set of guys completey opens themselves up to this stuff by providing WAYYYYYYYYYY to much info. He seems to almost invite being played as a sucker.

He is the guy who almost immediately gives out his email address, his home phone, cell number, address and lord knows what else. He leaves the door wide open to be a target for a chica too come into his life, shake him down and get him for all she can on HER terms. She will be able to dictate her every move to him because he enabled her too.

The other type of guy is the guy who DOESN'T give out his personal info.

He might play the boyfriend/girlfriend game but HE GETS HER PERSONAL INFO FOR FUTURE CONTACTS. He does things with the chica how and when HE desires too.

He DOESN'T leave a trail of breadcrumbs for her to track him down.
HE CAN cut the communication cord whenever he sees fit. HE will always be the more difficult (thou not impossible) target for a chica to rake thru the coals and him taking these simple steps will usually suffice to eliminate the potential headaches these chicas can bring....because these chicas will ALWAYS take the path of least resistance to get to their prey and their are TOO many guys who open up WAYYYYY to easily with WAY to much information.

The guys who give up all the info will always be the PDS in the posts you described.

When I talk with guys down in CR or listen to them on these boards thats the fork in the road that I watch for between PDS vs nonPDS..... who GIVES the info vs. who GETS the info.


One guy plays the boyfriend/girlfriend game and future contact game by giving out HIS information to the chica and opens himself up. (PDS)

The other guy plays the boyfriend/girlfriend game by always getting THE CHICAS information, contacting her on his terms and being cautious about giving out WAY too much information. (HAPPY MONGER!!!)

(I know I was more than redundant ...so be it)

Really funny stuff but sad it is true for so many men. You can see why so many men are so vulnerable since we all want to believe we are 'special'. Sorry to say it just isn’t real life & this even goes for so called normal dating situations.

How many of our old flames do we know now or want to know for that matter? These were of course non p4p gringas we dated & spent so much time money & effort on. I have to laugh because generally either way when it is over it is over for any type of woman p4p or non p4p. It gets down to how much damage you caused yourself that is so important when the music is over! It seems foolish to every go overboard on spending much $$ on any non p4p woman unless you truly have someone you are able to keep. Sending $$ to working girls .

I have to agree with ticalover about the men that give info verses the ones that collect info. My God we are directly PAYING for them so why not stay in TOTAL control! They do respect you more for this & you appear to be less of a wimp too me. I know to each his own but what price some men pay when we all get the same except some of us pay far less & don’t get used by them.

One of the best things about playing with Putas for me is I know there is no chance of anything real going to happen as we PLAY the game other than the sex. I like playing the ROLE of the dumb sap since I never give more than the going rate, it serves me well . The poor dumb saps help the better players get more BANG for their buck.

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"Run silent, run deep"
Spunk glazed Chicas are the building blocks of the universe!

I had fordotten about thisw thread, The most intresting thing however is that on Wed. Nov. 29, 2006 NFlorida was working on the trip report from his maiden trip.

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its the land of hoodoo , voodoo & all kinds of wierd shit.

Come on Boudmon. That was back in November, 2006. He's made 327 trips to CR since then. Let's go. Get in the game here!!!!
MG

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You ALWAYS have an option ....... "NEXT" !!!

I'm a little late catching up with this thread - and I don't have the time or energy to read through all seven pages - but I just want to add a few comments, and I apologize in advance if anything I say here is redundant.

First, as to definitions - of course it's anyone's prerogative to call the chica they're involved with whatever the hell they want.

But the definition of "novia" that applies for me is somewhat analogous to "serious girlfriend" in our culture. Which implies a monogamous relationship with a deep level of mutual affection and care and concern by each for the welfare of the other party - "love", if you will. And I refuse to give into the cynical mode of thinking that no matter the circumstances we're always paying for it in one way or another - that's a pretty bleak view of humanity in my book.

Personally, I would never consider anyone I met through a PFP scenario a "novia". When the whole "relationship" starts out as a business transaction, a certain precedent has been established which is always going to linger in the background no matter where things evolves to from there.

So to go back to Berk's original post, I'm inclined to agree. When you call your PFP chica a "novia", you're only fooling yourself.

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This is too funny. Americanos- especially gringos have two favorite past times. Shooting the messenger and judging others. Often not in any particular order. It is hard being a "ho" out here. But wait am I talking about them or we. Check that three favorite pastimes. ROFL