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This is true & I agree but what I see in life leads me to believe far to many thoughtful people in the P4P arena are far too soft of people to be there for there own good & therefore they in up in bed with the lowest common denominator P4P types & start believing that shit smells GOOD. In other words they use themselves because they have such low self esteem they refuse to face reality. Paying for it makes perfect sense too me but getting a relationship with it of anything deeper than an acquaintance is insanity. You can try 16 ways from Sunday to try too justify a real relationship with P4P while calling them Ladies & you are only pulling your own chain into a disaster while the Native Ticos laugh at how truly dumb we are going after their rejects or defects when they know we could do so much better. ( notice I am using the CRT political correct term for the W or P word) Just my view.

( I treat them nice as any woman but I don't see them as true Ladies get real, I don't call them ugly names unless clowning with men or using the word to try to make a point of reality with men that should understand the point)

For me I love thoughtful people they are the best on the planet but again for me there is a time & a place to be thoughtful & the Gulch is borderline at best because it is Fantasy land & the more you treat it like it is real the more real it becomes to the point you get sucked in & get used. Don't get mad be glad I beat this dead horse at least I am being honest & care.

I have a feeling this thread is going to turn out very,very valuable to those than can read between the lines.

Yes some good comments and thanks for supporting the "gentlemen" concept, gentlemen. Sorry, I gotta jump on the soapbox for a few more minutes...
I guess there's always the few guys that come along with the preconcieved notion that "there just whores, I'll do what I want, phuck them and phuck you guys too for telling me how I should behave," and that's to be expected. Some may never change or understand what we're getting at but we should try anyway in a civil manner and show them by our personal behavior while in the gulch. To be honest I didn't understand at first and got a kick out of you cocky hobbyists calling yourselves "gentlemen", but I am now grateful for the veteran members that showed me the ropes first hand and taught me the right way to enjoy this hobby, with some dignity, respect and how to have some "good clean fun". It became crystal clear to me upon my first trip that many of these sweet chicas were more than just "whores" and most of the CRT members much more than just horny, drunken, immoral pigs. And it's not imposing morals upon anyone to simply state what most members believe to be the best way to conduct ourselves, although some may see it that way at first.

I mentioned that the unwritten code had (IMO) a lot to do with the success of this site and the bond of the members which can lead to some life-long friendships. But where do the Admins stand on this important issue? They have rules for the forum but what about the preferred behavior of its' members? Yes, there's some old posts on it and of course they can't police behavior but suggestions can certainly be made, for instance where are they in a thread like this, wouldn't a little more agressive moderation concerning certain types of behavior from members, and just a simple statement of where CRT stands benefit us all? Most of us know where they stand, but apparently many newer members do not and a little more exposure and leadership on this issue(being gentlemen) wouldn't hurt IMO.

You know, I said I was gonna be done with this thread, but some people just can't leave well enough alone. It's sad sometimes, humoring these kind of folks... but CRT needs some entertainment value here and then.



It's funny how some people just choose to read what they want, and then discard the rest... From the beginning, it's been made clear by myself and MANY other posts from others that this has nothing to do with morals... To put it as Prolijo best put it, it has to do with a basic rule of thumb, "Do unto others..."

Join the Red Cross, eh? What one has to do with the other or how this sentence makes any REAL sense will forever be a mystery... Here's where an argument becomes irrational and one just resorts to silly attempts at insults that end up just making the poster look more and more... like an ignoramus. (Is ignoramus a step up from asshole?) You must know Chupanalga, his writing style is similar when he gets mad...



No I'm not going to tell you that. But I CAN tell you this... look at all the pics taken, did you notice that all the chicas either looked directly into the camera or were consequently aware of the camera when the pic was taken? Hmmmm. They ALLOWED the pics to be taken (i.e. they CONSENTED to having the pics taken), and if you want to compare apples to apples, then that's the only point you should take home with you when comparing the pics to the secret videotaping, where the chica is a VICTIM, not having given her consent to being flimed and having her basic rights to privacy VIOLATED... THAT, my friend, is WRONG.



Ouch that hurt. Really, was that the best you can do... Man this was childish and pathetic... It's funny how when someone gets overly defensive, their comments and arguments become less and less rational... And I wonder, Chi-Town... Why you so mad and defensive about this subject?... Really, I'm curious. Why does this thread have your panties in such a bunch?...

Anyways, for the record, anything posted publicly, I will address publicly. Anything pm'd to me will receive the utmost of my respect and will remain off the forum, so please keep them pm's coming, guys...


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Are we ready to put an end to this thread yet? I think we've beat a dead horse enough already. Let it rest guys.....

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I would like to see this thread end on a good note not a sour one. Lets applaud all the participants here it takes some balls too start this type of thread & like Dwayne to play the part of the advocate. Lets use these exchanges for healthy growth & exchange of ideas & not to harbor hate & animosity towards each other for something as silly as all this which too me is unwise & unhealthy for all of us . We need to learn from the REAL TICOS Don't worry be Happy & just be good Earthy real people that have common sense with respecting other people in a foreign land.

For some reason I just don't picture Ticos getting up tight about all this. Think we are dragging our Gringos ways around with us

Thanks for Sharing your thoughts everybody let’s not forget that we are all in this together to have a great escape from the realities we live in, lets try to leave the place in the same condition we found it.

Don't I sound like a Seedy Politician!

Due to the oh 2 dozen PM's I've received regarding this thread asking that it be locked and since we have covered every possible ground there is to cover.. We will end this on one note....

NOBODY can tell anyone what to do.. Everyone has their own ideas of what is right or wrong and I will leave it at that.... This has gotten to the pont that there is no more to discuss here.. so I will leave you with this....

We ask that you act and conduct yourself as gentlemen. It may be a simple statement but its the truth....... It can be with a sponsor, it can be with a working girl, it can be with another crt member it does not matter. We try to create an atmosphere of "GENTLEMEN"... we strive for that & hope we at leat touch everyone on some level that makes you think twice about something you normally would not due regardless of the situation.

SO let us end this on a calm and Gentlemenly Note! You are part of a brotherhood so I will give you some food for thought!

I WILL LEAVE YOU WITH THIS THOUGHT!!!! When you are about to do something that you have to think about that might be questionable... Think about how your CRT brothers would receive the action and what would their reaction be... I would think that if you thought along those lines you might be surprised how often you will re-think your postion...

Maybe I'm overstating, but I hope I am not....

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