Cujo'S wrote:
And I don't think you are clear on the responses to your post. Understand that if you do not have the option of simply hooking up or you arent young or know spanish, your opinion on this is severely watered down, when concerning that aspect of CR. I understand guys like you really get caught up in this p4p thing and almost blind to human nature or a more normal way of approaching things.
Now I'm not saying you need any of those things to be a monger in CR as evidence shows, but if you don't (really) know anything other than being a monger or being looked at as a monger in CR, then it falls on deaf ears.. That's why the whole country knows the score when you are somebody with a lot of opinions and you don't even know Spanish.
I'm not for right or wrongs and I appreciate you explaining where your coming from but your line of thinking (regardless of how experienced you think you are) is riddled with monger fallacies.... But when the dust settles, monger on man..
Cujo
Self deprecation aside, I have the option of simply hooking up, I am not old (well, not ancient!), and I speak Spanish, so by your measure, I think I am well qualified to have an informed opinion on this topic (and that is what it is - an opinion). Believe me, I hear what you are saying in that there can be more to P4P than just cold-hearted banging as evidenced by a few horror stories - and some successes - that are best left to another discussion. But none of that really changes my views as expressed in my original post.
You are right, though, that we all have a different outlook when it comes to mongering. There really is no "right" way to approach the hobby. Some see P4P as a means to connect with exotic women at a higher level than just merely sex. Others see it as procuring a commodity that satisfies a very specific need. I've had my share of "higher level" experiences, but my default approach to P4P definitely is of the "bucks for nuts" school of thought.