Fuzebox wrote:
Shrug, maybe I misinterpreted, maybe I didn't. All I know is, almost every post in this thread I've read of yours seemed unrealistic and uninformed. This poor guy just got kidnapped and robbed by the police and all you can to is criticize the amount of money in his wallet.
You're allowed to share your opinion, I'm allowed to share mine

Maybe you misinterpreted, maybe you didn't, but with all my zillions of lines of writing you sure missed a lot if all you got was my criticizing the amount of money in his wallet. Sure that was part of it, but I also commented about how:
he could have pointedly noted the cops' ID's or police car number before just letting them force him into their car.
once he was in the car and driven to a remote and dangerous area it was understandably more difficult for him to stand up to their pressure.
I couldn't be sure I would have handled being trapped in such a high pressure situation any differently (locked in the back of a cop car under the threat of being released to by mugged).
even if he did do something that increased the likelihood of his being shaken down to this degree, that didn't mean he deserved what happened to him or that the COPS weren't the ones primarily responsible.
and my comments covered much more than any of the above, but I'm not going to repeat myself any further
I agree that you're allowed to share your opinion, I'm allowed to share mine. But that goes both ways. I've been expressing my opinion which differs from yours and I've been criticizing some of the actions under discussion. But I've never said anything to indicate that others didn't have a right to express an opinion different from mine. Instead I've been saying things like "I would NOT be the one to say one approach was definitively right or wrong." or "I was just offering my own thoughts on what you should have done. Everyone else is free to agree or disagree." While some others seem to be questioning not only my conclusions (their right) but even my basic right to express any opinion even slightly critical of the victim.
I'm sorry that this poor guy just got kidnapped and robbed by the police and nothing justifies the cops actions but that doesn't mean that the victim didn't also make some mistakes or that, given that this thread was intended to serve as some sort of lesson, we ALL can't discuss our different views however critical they might be. ICSA "gets it" - "So what's the point of this whole thread ? If anyone doesn't want comments and or suggestions, then there in no point in starting a thread topic. " Its unfortunate that more of the rest of you don't seem to want to allow that and just don't seem to get it. But if you don't get it by now, you probably never will, so this will be my last attempt to try and clarify what I've been trying to say or in trying to defend myself on the matter.