Justanotherdude1 wrote:
At my age In my 40s and retired with no K*ds and no alimony, I am a walking atm for every woman (95%of them) as they have no financial means (USA women and around the world) as they have had men take care of them.
My ex works for a state government and has a pension-but she took out 8 years of earnings to buy a house and of course never paid it back and actually refinanced it to enhance her lifestyle to the tune of 760$ a month for 20 years. And has no other savings or retirement plans. So is essentially broke but still living and spending at the level she was when we combined incomes for 12 years.
She is dead broke and in the hole forever. I actually have a shi t ton of money now since I don’t pay for 75% of her lifestyle. Since we broke up I have had 1-2-4 weeks a month in San Jose and now on my second 2 week trip in a month to angeles Philippines.
If I meet a woman in the USA I am going to support her lifestyle until she finds a better deal.
So I am getting my moneys worth ( younger -skinnier -wants to ph uck- ) I can usually find one I can wife up for a few days each trip here(angeles) and I wifed up mostly my last several trips in San Jose.
Overall I get better lifestyle results than growing old with someone who is using you for a wallet,under the guise of a “relationship/love” . She loves the image of the lifestyle not the image of you as a couple.
watch out for those Filipinas they know how to treat a man
have dated a lady here in LA for the last four years that's just happy as hell to be w me
she is full of pride and works hard for her lifestyle
sure I help her but not much and she never asks
at 43 she looks like 30 and gets approached consistently when I'm with her by guys and girls
it was the first time I dated a girl from the Philippines and I must say I like it
I think its in their DNA to be a good woman to a man
I don't even worry about her cheating on me, then again I never really worry about any woman doing that cause honestly what's the point?
I get guys being cynical but imo its all about the overall experience and not forever
if you're up front about not being interested in marrying and supporting someone it brings honesty about that much
wanting to see someone else succeed in life is the best thing I've ever experienced personally