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I like Pops attitude. I also am 68. I have a 22 yo novia who I met when she was 19. When the door closes when she leaves my apt I put her out of my mind. What she does until the next time she visits is her business, and What I do is mine. Pura Vida.

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I am NOT a Cien Boy!!

This is my attitude also.

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In exile in pu*sy prison

Hats off to Pops for making it work. Certainly didn't for me...but there were a lot of reasons... as discussed elsewhere in this thread... and my own self as well. I think the odds are about 1 in 500 can make it work, and Pops is the only one to my knowledge that has. Not saying I know 500 others...but I probably have heard the stories of 500 more or less.

That these don't work out very often is predictable when you look at what each party wants out of the relationship. Or needs out of the relationship. We think that love can overcome all of the differences...but it usually doesn't. Our fantasies and the fantasies of the working girls are never aligned... and to get them in alignment even enough for a stable relationship, let alone an ideal relationship, is not going to happen.

I still think there are some fundamental life experiences that work against 1st world/3rd world relationships. One of them is real hunger...really not having money or food at some or many points in your life. Even more intense...not being able to provide food for your Ch*ldren. If you will sell your body for that you will likely do almost anything else for that too. Most of these girls did not start in the business because they wanted to have sex with gringos...or anyone for that matter. Sure, a few of them may have started out enjoying sex and thinking whey not do it for money. But not many in the third world.

So...they do it out of a very deep need for security ie. the next meal for my Ch*ldren. And because they know that most of these "relationships" break down they want as much as they can as soon as they can. This is then in conflict with the values, fantasies, etc. of the 1st world male who fantasizes about supporting a girlfriend he can drop in on regularly, or even occasionally... and will only demand a modest amount to supplement her job at whatever.

And on it goes...lots of other deal breakers as well...but that's enough from me for now..lol

i had an incredible 8+ year love affair w a working girl
a lot of people know the story and i appreciate the privacy mostly for her sake at this point
my purpose in saying anything here is to maybe resonate w anyone in a similar position although i somehow doubt many guys took this route
we actually built a little business and small life together in the time we knew each other
i think the reason it lasted as long as it did was the fact that neither of us was asking questions about what was going on everyday in each others lives
it was based on good intentions and a sort of friendship/magnetism that was there without fail every couple of months when i visited
we really enjoyed each other and would talk of our dreams and our lives
i think at some point we were like therapy for each other and it just worked
it was like a honeymoon every trip and we usually only left the room for food
did i ever go to western junior? yeah i did but it was chump change when things were slow and it was my apartment as well when i was in town and not a monthly thing
i knew guys sending up to 3k a month to girls and i maybe sent that much over 8 years
i am not counting what i invested in the business but that was sweat mostly on her part and mine
i challenged her to work and save money and she actually did to an extent
many many times guys would want to tell me what a good girl she was (so she turned you down lol) or i saw this or that and my answer was always the same...did i ask you to report back to me?
no one that knows me ever heard me ask them if they would keep an eye on her or what they thought
i always knew there were guys offering lots of money and some guys maybe she just wanted to Phuck
she was and probably still is a smoking hot sexual latina creature and it was never my job to cage her
all the time we were together i had gfs in LA and we both just didn't put it in each others face
the businesses i ran at the time had me surrounded by attractive women and they knew about her because my heart was with her and i never even tried to hide that
and she knew about them as well
it led to some pretty interesting relationships w women here because it was just up front an honest
but when i got on that plane i was leaving the hustle in LA and going to this incredibly warm and loving place with a woman that dropped everything in her life to be with me
usually it was 7 to 12 days and we used to laugh about how that was enough
if she had regulars they had to wait because we were both where we wanted to be
and she would always tell me i was the only one
if she persisted i would just ask her how it was that i knew all sorts of things about all sorts of girls(she told me) and she was the one virgin amongst them
i mean if the price is right we all know the drill and its just a matter of wanting to know, which i preferred not to
i enjoyed it all from the sex in cabs leaving the airport to the beaches, pools and crazy things we did together
i will never forget those diversions and that time in my life
its been a couple of years almost and i haven't found the need to monger beyond a one off trip w friends to medellin
been dating a sweet filipina and a sexy thai girl that live here and its nice
i think i feel totally comfortable and understood in no small part because of what i learned in my relationship w her
i feel lucky for having had the experience and i think we were really there for each other and that it was supposed to happen or meant to be kind of thing
and i like to think both of us are better people for knowing each other
so in summation was my novia a prostitute? yes and i would do it all again knowing what i know
she was also a great person and taught me things about myself i didn't know
just wish the moron thats probably reading this would stop stalking my facebook and texting my phone.
leave me the Phuck alone you aren't fooling anyone mensa

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riding the crest of a wave breaking just west of hollywood

When you meet a cute young Latina that likes to kiss suck and Phuck, talks about future plans with you, is not always seen at del Rey or cocal, it can feel real and is to an extent, but I will never try to fix or change them , they are looking for a nice guy with money to burn, I will spend a few nights with favorites but will never again get surprised if they find someone willing to pay more.

Just remember, for us, it's all about the pu*sy. For them, it's all about the dollar.

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Pops - Why marry her and take on her K*ds in the first place? Sounds like part of you wants to be "Captain Save a Ho!" Just pay her to leave and move on to the next one. She's laughing all the way to the Bank!

rwelker66 from your post I surmise that you are too young to understand Pops.
Of course not having met you I could be dead wrong.

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Why marry her? I lived with her for 8 years without marrying her. I had to push her into marrying me. I can replace her in minutes if I wish. I was with her when our 10 year old son was born. I spent the day yesterday taking my two sons with her and a niece to the beach. They are beautiful Ch*ldren. I have two adult sons. My oldest son who is 40 got to spend the day with his little brothers. It was a fantastic day for all of us.

I grew up with a father who had enough problems in life that he never was a father to me. All K*ds need fathers. Many people were role models for me as I grew up. They did things for me they didn't have to do and effected my life in ways they never knew. I appreciate having them in my life. Most of them are long dead and I never got a chance to tell them how much they meant to me. I can only show my appreciation by giving something back. By marrying Adriana I am able to provide some security to the K*ds. A portion of my retirement goes to my wife at my death for the rest of her life if she remains unmarried.

You don't have to donate sperm to be a father. You just have to love them and do the best you can to take care of them. My wife isn't laughing her way to the bank. She does her share. Just as women can be a pain in the ass at times, so can I. She deals with life the best way she can. I could care less if she makes money to provide for her family. How she does it is her concern. I don't separate Hoes and good girls. They are all people with real feelings and problems. These girls work as sex providers. It is a service. It is what they do not who they are. If you think you are better than they are you need to look in the mirror. You have serious problems. If you have ever done work that you did not like simply because you needed the money then you prostituted yourself. Sold yourself for the money. You think plumbers like to stick their hands in your shit. You think doctors like looking at assholes, dicks, sagging tits. Wake up, look in the mirror and see if you like the person looking back at you. Yes, vacationing here is a frat house party. You can get as rowdy as you like but don't expect other people's motives to be the same as yours.

A friend was here a few years ago and we walked through the Del Rey on the way to the Colonial. He is not into our hobby. He commented that he felt sorry for all the young girls being groped by pathetic old men. I told him I didn't feel sorry for these girls, I feel sorry for their ugly sisters who have never eaten at a restaurant the quality of a Chilli's, never been on a vacation, many have never seen the beach or Arenal, bought a new dress, stayed in a hotel.

Costa Rica is an opportunity to meet beautiful women. What you do with the opportunity depends on you. You build relationships not buy them. It is a place that should remind you how fortunate you are to have been born in a country where you had opportunity.

This says it all:

"You build relationships not buy them."

Regards, 911 Driver

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Sounds great...wish mine had worked out like that. It was sort of what I wanted...but she was not the person above...nor was I the like LaDiablo I guess. 3 grand was good for about 2 weeks when mine got on a roll. Yes..you don't have to tell me I'm an idiot. I already know that.

Funny shite right there

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Sounds great...wish mine had worked out like that. It was sort of what I wanted...but she was not the person above...nor was I the like LaDiablo I guess. 3 grand was good for about 2 weeks when mine got on a roll. Yes..you don't have to tell me I'm an idiot. I already know that.[/quote]


there were rough patches believe me thats an understatement
it was like neither one of us wanted to imagine the end and it should have ended a couple of years before it did
but for a while it was incredible and its a crazy story
still i watch things like 90 day finacee lol and it amazes me how stupid the guys are
they are sending money without ever meeting the girls and whether or not you spent too much is your thing
at least you were getting the goods so to say
imo if you aren't ruined monetarily or mentally and can still enjoy your life you came out ahead
hope you aren't angry about it cause it happens
of course i don't think i ever really had any intentions of it going on forever because she wanted things like family and Ch*ldren and i was never going to be that guy and she was very aware of that
in the end i could have fought for her but i didn't and don't regret that either
one day she's going to have an incredible life i know it and that would make me happy

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Isra123 - I'm 51 Retired and live in Pattaya Thailand.

Pops - My whole point with you is - IF you don't care if your wife sleeps with other guys why marry her in the first place? Great you want to take care of HER K*ds. You have your place and she has her place don't see much point in getting married. Just a piece of paper it means nothing!

Although our lives are relatively short (compared to what??), there will always be people who mainly think about only themselves... It doesn't take an English Professor to comprehend that what Pops is really talking about is the 'give and take aspects of life' (please correct me, 'mi Maestro' if I am wrong). When we finally take that last breath (right before we croak), do we really want to be (not) remembered as a dude that fu*ked a lot of women..? Or would we maybe feel a little better being remembered as a person who actually cared about other people? Especially little k*ds. I truly believe that you are on the right track Pops.. and I somehow absolutely know that you know it too! All of the best to you y tu Familia!! j99