Dapanz1 wrote:
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i would like to know if this guy is really her husband or not? the lady she was with? and yes I would like to know if she is acually a lawyer , I do have doubts also like some of you . And how many K*ds she acually have? any other boyfriends in her life ? you know what I mean don't you?
Here is some real advice. No name calling, no nothing. I'll even excuse your abuse of my post in another thread. This should be really simple advice and it has kept my sanity at times.
IF YOU DON'T TRUST HER, WHY IN THE HELL WOULD YOU THROW AWAY YOUR LIFE IN THE USA FOR SOMEONE YOU CAN'T EVEN TRUST TO TELL YOU BASIC TRUTHS????? Forget about the private investigators, forget about the old lady (accomplis) and forget about the 30 something man (accomplis #2 most likely) forget about the drug addicted teenager (accomplis #3 most likely). It's really, really simple. If you can't trust, you can't love. If you can't love you don't need to marry. You are wasting valuable time and money for what? Nothing. Do what you want. But, I will make one request. If you would like to redeem yourself to the good guys on this board, please join as a VIP. Yes, I understand, you have to give up private information. Most likely that is your biggest hang up. We are a very forgiving group. Take this for what it's worth. I'm sure you have great qualities and insights that you can share when in the right frame of mind. And this, in my opinion, should be the last post to the thread.
dapanz1
well thanks Dapanz and sorry if I offended you in anyway, it is just a bunch of guys got on my case and I went off , but if you get to know me , I am really a nice guy and helpful in many ways. I have helped lots of fellow tourists with translations , Spanish to English and vice versa , I used myself as a guide for some of them . That's how I am , if I can help someone I won't hesitate and I don't expect anything in return , as long as I can make someone happy I am happy.
Now to get back to ur quote above , well I can't join VIP now after all this , I have too many enemies going for my head right now , I wait till the water gets calm. You are right about the trust issue , but since I am being serious about having her as a future wife and yes I am in love with her, I thought little investment of my time and money will pay off for the future.
But then she maybe lying to me I don't know . She tells me she loves me and wants to marry me.I thought if I do some background check on her , I'll know something about her character and whether she has a history of lying , cheating etc... , now some of you may think wow she had already cheated on her husband with me how can she be trusted? I know I know , maybe she wants a way out to get rid of the abusive husband and she found me as someone she can trust.
chupa