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That's what happened to me.

dapanz1

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Paradise= Sitting outside the Bodega in Panama City about 1 am. Drinking cool Balboas with cool friends and blazin' hot Colombianas. I want to be there..RIGHT NOW!

Guilty as charged; I'm a GFE guy.
When I used to come back and forth from the states, I was in the "other" camp but now that I live here, I've definatly become a GFE guy. It didn't happen overnight. In the begining, I went to all the usuall places and just had a good time. As a repeat customer, I got to know two or three and would have them over to my place once a week each. Well, one moved, one stole from me and now I'm down to one.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not in love or anything. I just enjoy her company and I trust her. She has moved on and now has a legit job and has learned a great deal of english in the last year (just as I have learned a great deal of Espanol).
One last thing is what I call the "comfort zone". She knows what I like and delivers time and again. I don't have to explain anything.
Bottom line? I'm very happy being a GFE guy.
LVSteve

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Just an old horney, fat gambler.

Wow. A thread that has lasted almost a year, and is still commented on. Admins: Is this a record?

Perhaps most of life is an act.

I thought an early comment was right on the mark. I can be a GFE guy there because the airport is only 30 minutes away. I live in a town of about 100k. People know me here. If I'm at my best charming self, I run the risk of a local bar girl showing up at my house without warning. Its happened. Way too many times. If I'm at my worst a-hole self, word gets around. ie: I have to live here. I'm in business. I have to be essentially neutral on my home turf. That's my local act. When in San Jose, I can temporarilly be anything I wish to be. I choose the illusion of the girlfriend/boyfriend... without being under any illusion. The temporary fantasy is worth the small price of admission to me. My part of the hobby is playing my part well, and seeking out the other side of the game who plays her part equally well.

The danger in the game is when one side forgets that it is an acting role. A fantasy.

It's true even among the Gringas. The old saying, "Men give of what they have for sex and women give sex to get what they want." Whether it's marrage, a Ch*ld, a job or money, women of the World for many years have exchanged sex (or the implied promise of sex) to attract the attention of men.

My new saying; "The difference between a hooker and a gold digger is that the gold digger is lazier and the hooker is more honest." If you have ever spent time with an elegant hooker and an elegant gold digger, you will trust the hooker more than the gold digger.

In America, we have women who view their profession as "wife" which means the successful ones attract a guy with wealth and view alimony as severance pay until they land their next job as "wife". If you notice, each time she lands another job as wife, it's with a guy who has more wealth than the previous guy. These women are more educated, more plotting and more cunning than any woman you will meet in the DR.

Those of us who serve others in our profession or job, have to admit that if we had extended the extra effort to do a good job for one of our customers at a reduced price expecting a longer relationship and then later saw that customer using our competition's services it would hurt our feelings. If it happened to us often with many different customers, we too would become hardened and unable to extend that extra effort to provide "excellent" or GFE service. Some of us would know that it's time to quit, but many would be financially unable to quit and then we too would become hardened with sad eyes. I know that you have met lawyers, accountants, engineers or doctors who fit this description.

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Slut Puppy in Training

Is low self esteem a prerequisite for being a good Ho or is it a result? ;-)