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so even the senior seasoned CR mongers have been "taken" in the past by lying, scheming, women......now I don't feel so bad about my past lessons learned the hard way....... thanks guys

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I know I have been accused of being a liar but in my experience as an attorney when it comes to immigration... 18 days is highly unlikely.

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Yes NavyJim58 there has always been the learning curve. I just don't know why young guys don't shorten this curve by learning from the ones that have been there & done that. So many are so hell bend on mine is different but time proves over & over again 99% of them are pretty close to the same when push comes to shove.

I wish RT the best & hope he is the less than 1% that it all goes well but with 3 K*ds you have to be more than crazy unless you enjoy being a turd polisher. These K*ds they have change EVERYTHING. Most are pretty good mothers by nature from what I have seen & that is where their love & devotion should be since they know most men will not be there for them like the Ch*ld will be. VB might have had a different out come in his case if the Chica did not have the Ch*ld to care about. But then again if she didn't have the Ch*ld she might not of had the need to even meet any Gringos.

Most the Ticas from good families that would never even think about P4P from my experience have been very thankful & respectful of any help a Gringo has offered them with travel to the USA. Quality does have its reward this way but you might not be able to have everything your way in the bedroom with this type. I would think it should be very obvious what will happen if you bring a less than safisticated Chica to the USA

I believe most of all of us become like this over-time. Time shows us how we all work & that most relationships end up pretty close to the same outcome in the end. Harding experience but best to roll with the tide & not let it harden or sour our attitude. I know I view them as another human I treat with equal respect but I do see them as a sex object . Seeing them (P4P) as a serious love object is the beginning of a long painful road of misery IMHO. Mongering has always been fun for me if never taken out of context or taken seriously, which would even take the sport right out of the phucking.

It is so far fetched to believe RT's deal is #1 is true & #2 that it would ever really work for very long. I just don't understand why men fall for such tainted goods with all the man chowder to deal with when you can find better? Why put yourself thru hell & back? Some call this love but it should be called stupidity or desperation. I just don't see any women out there that are worth phucking up your basic life & finances. Hormones do weird shit to the mind. We surely thought much more logical when we were pre-puberty. The second Ch*ld hood soon to come may not be so bad after all .

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Spunk glazed Chicas are the building blocks of the universe!

All good points. I wasn't even looking for a relationship. I just wanted a sexy tica in my house for a few weeks. She turned quickly into a nightmare. Night one - she got smashed at a bar, wanted to stay out alllll night long and was flirting with every other guy in the bar.

Even non-P4P gals are hard to deal with. Due to their different upbringings and obvious other querks, you have to either find 1 in a million or learn to get along with an immature, ignorant, lazy and often un-educated partner. This frustrates the hell out of me. I hate to generalize people from any culture, but I keep seeing this again and again in CR. Their parents (if they have them) don't teach them much beyond survival skills. They don't have parent to Ch*ld discussions like most of us had.

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I paid a chica from Cali (whom I have known for 5 years) plane ticket to the US. She stayed with me for 2 weeks. Fortunately I pay the $5 a month for international calling which has a 22 cent a minute rate from US to Colombia. She must of called 7 or 8 times a day back home to her son. My bill for all of this was only about $30 Yeah these chicas sure like to use the phone. BTW I paid for her ticket to New Jersey(one way) to go visit her sister. She was supposed to return to Dallas to see me again before she returned to Colombia, but SHE CHANGED HER TICKET and went through Houston instead. These chicas are sweet BUT BEWARE OF THEIR TRUE INTENTIONS

She explained that I did not call her enough when she was in New Jersey so the decided not to return to see me. I would call her on Saturday night about 11 pm and the little girl who answered would say that she will not return until Sunday morning at 9 or 10 am. Later I would ask her where she was and the reply was shopping with my sister and she would quickly change the subject. Enjoy these chicas but DO NOT BELIEVE WHAT THEY TELL YOU.

I've pretty much stopped maintaining any sort of e-mail contact with favoritas between trips. Really serves no purpose. Trust me, if they're available when you get into town, all it takes is a phone call to "rekindle the flames"...

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