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TW,

Me too. Sure, the chicas will take anyone's dinero, but your "eligibility" factor can and often does influence the QUALITY of session you end up getting.

Put yourself in their shoes. Say you had to screw some overweight, 60-year old woman with bad hygiene. Then along comes some 30-year old hard body who's really hot in the sack. Which session are you going to put more effort into?

Ok, that sounded a little harsh, but I still believe it the case 99% of the time. As I said before, I think they really appreciate good hygeine. Who can blame them? But as for looks I don't think they really care all that much. Think about it, even the guys on the board that come down a lot and play a lot. The chicas are doing it day in, day out. Year in, year out. I think it's all a blur to them. It's cool to me. I just want the ones that can pretend really well for the duration of the time I'm with them. And by pretend I don't mean anything bad. Just good at their job of making the client feel good for that amount of time.

Well, it's important to note that the BM girls do not HAVE to go with anyone, like the MP girls do. I know girls for a fact who will not go with certain types of people, period.

I also am firmly convinced that quality of sessions do vary. I have stayed at several of the puta's homes with them, complete with all the free sex you could want, and I doubt that they are doing that day in, day out as you say.

There is a reason the term YMMV came into being, and I know mine certainly does.

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A wonderful girl I was with on my last night told me that if a guy did not at least make an attempt at some conversation, did not give her time to get a feel for his personality and just wanted to vamos immediately, she would not go with him. She said that she could not bring herself to do it with a guy who did not seem to have a good heart.

Granted this girl is maybe one of the most beautiful girls I have seen anywhere in CR, classic tica look, flaca, long black hair, perfect olive skin, beautiful smile and eyes, so she can afford to be picky.

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Yes, you don't necessarily have to look like George Clooney to get a good session. Age also isn't that critical - many older gentlemen I know do quite well for themselves, thank you. But it never hurts to take care of yourself and keep fit - it makes for better sex too!

More often, it's the attitude and confidence you convey, and the care you show for the girl, that establishes the right rapport and gets you the hot session. Treat them like ladies and most will respond in kind.

Must agree en todo with GetRhythm.
Sex for women happens as much in their heads as between their legs. Even hardened putas are still women and can't escape that totally. If you help them "pretend" by making a nice atmosphere and treating them with some care and kindness, it seems to me that more often than not you'll be making a good "investment."
Of course, none of this matters for me anyway, since I'm often mistaken for George Clooney.

Thing is this is all just speculation. I don't give a sh*t. I try to be nice, respectful, and corteous to the ladies, but this sh*t about whether they really like me or not doesn't matter. Otherwise, wouldn't be playing this game. IT IS SEX for me. As long as I'm a nice guy I don't get into the psycology and don't care if they love me or not. End of story.

haha I do actually know an exception. But it's a case of be careful what you ask for. I have a friend who hooked up with a BM girl and she won't leave him alone. He had a good time one night, didn't think that much of it, and gave a girl his email address. Now she emails constantly but not asking for anything. Just begging to see him again.

Let me see....
I'm 57, fat, bald....
and she is 21, a hardbody, and gorgeous....

Yep, it must be love.
It can't be my financial advantage.

It must be that they would do it for free to meet us.
Obviously they love their work.

And I think we should do the same with those ladies who want to "vamos" after the third question: "where are you staying at?" If they are in a hurry to leave the bar, they'll be in a hurry to go back (mostly).

Last time I was there, I stopped at the BM on my way to ZB. There I saw a girl I had been with in my second trip and who gave me a good GFE. After a kiss and a few words she was like "let's go". Well, I really wanted to go to ZB but at the end I gave in. Once in the room, she didn't even want me to take a shower! To make a short story shorter, once we finished (it was a lousy one), she was ready to go back to the BM for the next trick, which she started to work at, seating besides me at the BM!

Later that night I hooked up with a lady who came and introduced herself. She never asked me if I wanted company, we just talked for a (long) while. Without discussing money and/or service, she ended up staying with me my whole trip. We went together everywhere. It was too damn nice. And I don't want to talk about the "s" word part, because that was perfect She was a real GFE. By the way, she's not in CR anymore, she went back to her country.

So, IMHO, getting to know each other could lead to a very pleasing experience!

Life's good!
Valentino
P.S.: Am I OT here!?

Valentino,

That is an ABSOLUTE FACT! My best sessions have always been with the ones I took my time with in getting to know them and feeling them out for compatability and chemistry.

Ruffnutz

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Looks to me like this thread and El Ciego's threads about monger ethics are sort of growing together.
And are most if not all of us closer to the same views than it may appear?
I haven't heard anybody say it pays to be abusive to any chica.
Everybody thinks being realistic about the CR mongering scene is smart, and that "love" aside from the sex is nothing but professional theater on the chicas part (but fun sometimes), and that any man who lets those kinds of emotions get cranking down there is a fool.
At the same time, treating the chicas as well as possible pays dividends - short term, if not long term.
In that way, no matter how old, fat, & bald we may be, at least some of the chicas will be able to hang on to Get Rhythm's category #2 instead of landing in category #3 and at least some of them will do a much better job of professional pretending for us, making it more fun for us.
Of course, for Clooney look-alikes like me, all the chicas stay in category #1. And they love my vibrant personality, and that I'm such a great dancer, too!

I HAVE to work on my dancing skills for next time, most of them REALLY love it!

In my job here at home I have many people I work with on a professional basis, contractors, vendors etc.

Some of these folks have become my friends, some I know would be less friendly if I changed vendors, some would not care.

I have been trying to keep the chicas in a similar place in my head/heart. They are service providers, I am a customer. I won't go back if I am unsatisfied, I'll happily return for great service. Sometimes we can become friends, I'll enjoy it but keep my head clear of illusions.

It's business, nothing personal

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Well, truth be told, I couldn't dance my way out of a paper bag.
But I do look like George Clooney!
At least that what my mother sez.

Hello CRT members...
I am new to the forum and have yet to go to CR yet, though I have 2 trips planned this year...
I am a full-blown newbie, but thought I might give my 2 colones about whether the girls enjoy their work....
Ask yourself this: If the girl had an opportunity to make the same money elsewhere or otherwise leave the business without financial dropoff, would they?
Surely, some of them would. They hate the risk, the smelly bad-hygiene guys, and the guilt-type feelings, and would jump at a nice escape.
Others, will not stop, no matter what kind of alternatives present themselves, because they get something from it besides money, such as: feeling of power or control, self-esteem (feeling desirable) even acceptance amongst a certain peer group, the other working girls. There would certainly be other factors as well.
I would speculate that most of the girls go through stages of all #1 #2 and #3, at some point or another. It stands to reason, also, that they have good and bad days at 'work' as we all do. Sometimes I love my job, sometimes I hate it. In fact most jobs, even for us, are a form of prostitution. We have to do things we don't want to do, be nice to people we don't like, send time and energy in ways we don't want to , etc.
Being in real estate, I understand this exceptionally well.
Unfortunately, I think for the girls, they lack reasons or motivation to make a change, or simply lack hope that things will ever change, and resign themselves to their fate. I would imagine that even a semi-pro or normal girl may come to feel that men are liars and can't be trusted, so the idea of a knight in shining armor is a joke, and they become jaded. this would certainly bring about other behavior, like developing razor sharp lying skills, stealing, etc.
Lest we forget, these girls are in the service industry, and the ones who understand that ought to do all they can to make us feel good, not just physically, btu the whole GFE, to create repeat / referral business. Any decent businessman knows that. However, they are not businessmen, and many don't get it.
I would speculate that when these girls were little, they did not dream of ending up where they are now. But hey, welcome to life 101 folks.
If those dreams came true, my life would look pretty damn different too!
I would be very interested to hear from any of you in this thread or PM, if you have any thoughts.
I also just concluded a fiery 2 month 'relationship' with a unbelievable young girl from Panama. It certainly relates to many threads here, like how much Latinas lie, etc. And not getting caught up in their web.
I will post again soon, and hope to see as many of you as possible in CR in July. It will be my birthday, and no doubt will surpass any prior celebration!
Thanks guys,
King Solomon

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