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If anybody on crt, in San Jose or in Las Vegas want to refer to me by 1 of these terms I wouldn't be offended at all. As said above they're technically correct, ie: true. For me, it's ok to call a spade a spade!

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"There are other reasons to monger. Many enjoy mongering for the opportunity it gives to get even with women. Nothing works better to get even with women than to treat them like whores. See how cheap you can get it for. The better they look, the better feeling you get when she proves she is a slut. The contract gives you the chance to rub her nose in the dirt. These guys get their fantasies fulfilled same as I do. They pay for the service. The girl gets what she wants. His money. Everybody is happy."

Amen Pop-eye, this one of the big reasons I absolutely luv it!!

" Live never to be ashamed if anything you do or say is published around the world -- even if what is published is not true." Richard Bach Illusions

SinCity, Having read your posts, I know we have similar feelings about life. Calling a spade a spade does not make it appropriate. I too could care less about what someone else calls me. The only thing that matters in life is not what others think of you but what you think of yourself.

Unrelated to CR and this post but jus got back from a wonderful 4 night visit to SOCAL where I partaked in Tijuana Zona de Tolerencia as much I could physically take it. 4 sessions/5 nut busts; the first two with the same chica (a 23 y/o non druggie SW) mid week who totally rocked my world. Is why I keep doing I it again and again and again and again.

My next 4 night trip to Bogota where I can comer [eat] the freshest sweetest juicy candy poosy for just $20!!!!!

Oh I wanna comer her vagina como lomo de res LOL!!!

I used to monger because I love sex and I found it rewarding every time I caused a woman to have an orgasm. It is one of the most personal things you can do for another person to give them that kind of intimate satisfaction. My youngest memory of a sexual encounter happened before I was even in Kindergarden and it involved a neighbor girl that was the same age and both of us getting undressed and touching each other. I was caught by my mother and I remember having to go to the girls house later that day with my mom and the little girl and having a talk about proper behavior. Well after that it only got worse and I learned to not get caught. Then by 3rd grade a group of us the neighbor K*ds started playing Truth or Dare which actually should have just been called Dare because no one ever took a truth. It started with touching fingering then by 5th grade it was going all the way. I had gotten a reputation in school that I could do things that made the girls crazy so I was constantly approached by other girls I did not know to meet up with them and play. Life was great until I moved my freshman year of high school. Having to make new friends and living in a desolate area really sucked. Then I met an older woman that really taught me what to do. I got married to a nympho and had a great life up till the point that she wanted K*ds and I did not. We got divorced then I met a wonderful woman that had intimacy issues but I thought I could help her work though them but when she got pregnant the fix was over and no more sex. I stayed with her because other than the sex we got along great and I did not want someone raising my daughter. Then I found Costa Rica, oh my god what a playground. At this point my marriage was over and I was just waiting for my daughter to turn 18 but I was not going to wait anymore and dove in with both feet.

I don't know if you could call it a perversion or not but it was like I was on a mission to see how many times I could get them off. For me being with a woman that has been with thousands of other men and to be able to see them enjoy themselves and having multiple orgasms was an incredible rush. Most of these women were used to just letting the men use them for their different orifices and then go on their way with the money they were paid that my wanting to pay them to see them get off, turned most of them on in a way I cannot explain. I had 5 or 6 different girls squirt for the first time in CR because of what I was doing. In a sick kind of way it made me feel God like as I had achieved something that no other guy had ever been able to do for them. As a benefit a lot of these women would see me when I came back and ask me if I would be with them while I was in town and that it would be just for fun and no charge. It was a great time for all and I have tons of great memories in the last few years.

Now I am engaged to an amazing woman, and no longer do I have the desire to be with anyone else so my mongering days are over. We still like to go out and drink as the monger bars and we will probably end up over in the DR or Thailand together but neither one of us will share the other and it will be strictly to enjoy the atmosphere and see the sights. This is probably the most honest relationship I have ever been in and the most open as well. She knows all of my past good and bad, and I know the trials and tribulations that she has gone through. Both of us have found something that we never knew existed and if I go to my grave tomorrow I will do so knowing that I lived a life filled with many tears of happiness and sorrow, but giving the gift of multiple orgasms to over a thousand women is an accomplishment that few will ever achieve.

This may be the number one cause for the chicas getting a hardened attitude after being with a few guys like this. Perhaps the guys could first seek counselling to work out their "Mommie Hate Issues" and "Sexual Hangups" without forcing their emotional problems upon young Latina women, just trying to feed their Babi*s. Is there no room for human kindness and respect? Do you feel that your behavior causes no distress to the women you are with?

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Is low self esteem a prerequisite for being a good Ho or is it a result? ;-)

I agree with what Lenny and Puro Party wrote. A number of years ago there was a real good thread on the board describing the different types of mongers and there reasons for being that way. Certainly in this hobby one size does not fit all as the types of guys I have run into in the almost 10 years I have been in the hobby vary a lot and pretty much run the gamut.

Speaking to Lenny's question : "Is there no room for human kindness and respect?" For most of the people there is room for kindness and respect but for a few it will never happen. For example, take the little situation where a few of guys raised some money for the employees of Scores who got screwed over by the dirtbag owner. There were a number of PW's (Post Whores) on this board who didn't give a penny. It just shows you where their heart is. It is the same way when dealing with a chica.

I have always thought there was segment of this board who want to bring a woman to their lowest financial denominator when negotiating price. In other words they derive as much pleasure beating a woman down in price as they do the actual sessions they are involved in. You can see it in their post when all they talk about is how cheap they got a woman for. Barely any comment about what kind of a session they had only how cheap it was.

I have commented on other threads about some of the PW's on this board who are trying to accomplish on CRT what they did not, or have not, accomplished in their lives. Being an anonymous big shot matters to them or why would they post thousands and thousands of times? At the end of the day I guess it is just different strokes...different strokes or TEHO. No matter what I , or anyone else post , it will never change it's just the way it is.

ps. I also go to the DR a lot and it's the same way on the boards that deal with the DR.

Haven't read the responses but the answer for 98% should be to get laid..straight up.



Cujo

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that was my sig which is typically song lyrics i enjoy
but i understand why you are upset w me and i blame the curvature of Bills bar and possibly the lack of hats as well as blue light
it used to be a lot easier to pull off a four man reach around back in the day

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riding the crest of a wave breaking just west of hollywood

In Spanish, I presume.

It would take a psychiatrist to answer that question for me probably, but in general I agree with most of the sentiments expressed here, except of course for some need to punish women or whatever.

I just absolutely love being with a gorgeous woman, I like everything about them (well, the immaturity of some is a turnoff) and whoever said youth is beauty knew what he was talking about.

Back home I date women in their mid to late 30's and I find them attractive, but they want to get married asap, so that just doesn't work for me.

But I am really not attracted to women in my age group (50s). No idea why, but just isn't going to happen. Maybe when I'm 70 they'll look good?

Couple of good friends had horrendous divorces that wiped them out, so that just reinforces my desire to stay single.

And we pretty much all agree this lifestyle is a hell of a lot cheaper than being in any kind of steady relationship, especially marriage.

I might even be subconsciously doing my own little protest about the unfair situation married men face in NA, and the entitled attitude of women there.

There's no question some of my married buddies wives are very wary when the topic of conversation turns to my travels in SA. Those conversations get shut down pretty quickly, lol.

As for the guys who refer to women in what I consider derogatory terms, I think it shows some kind of insecurity or some issue that I don't get, but I don't have any time for that bs, so I tend not to fraternize too much, I've just met too many of these guys.
It's a shame because I could sure use a few wingmen, as the worst part of this lifestyle imo is still trying to fend off the overweight, overly made up, gaudy, hardcore, aggressive types who seem to have a thing for me, lol.

Ok Pops now you are quoting illusions?
Argue for your limitations and sure enough they are yours.

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The most idiotic thing I have read on this site. Someone has real issues if this is why they choose a woman to session with!

Having spent thousands of hours talking with hundreds of newbies, there are some people who come here to monger who have issues. The issues can run from being terrified of women to actually hating them. Pay close attention to what people post on the board and you begin to see anger issues. I investigated sexual assaults on women and Ch*ldren in Atlanta for over five years. Not a few cases, hundreds of incidents. Believe me there are crazy people out there.

Pops, you make it sound like you could do all the stuff you do in the Cr back up in the states. The fact is, if someone could just hit on the hottest & youngest chick in a bar or where ever he is in the states, & pull her for a 4 hour session for only $200, he would have no need to go to the CR! The fact that you are even mongering in CR leads me to believe that you are not in this group. I am not either, which is why I go to CR.

I, like many on here, am in my mid 50s, divorced with K*ds, had 2 engagements that went south (Thank You Baby Jesus!!) & am tired of every gringa I show interest in wanting to get married, financially support her K*ds, financially support her.......and then start bitching & then get fat.



This is a great thread Pops & a great question!
Thanks,
CostaReeker