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I totally agree that if the girl starts scouting when she's with me, and I've had a history with her and compensate her well, I will drop her like a hot potato.

But this was not the case. This guy jumped my favorita when I was not there, and menaced her with his body language and she got scared. I've seen this guy do this. I am a late nite owl and on one occasion I saw him doing this to two different girls at the same time; they were both trying to leave and told me later they were afraid they couldn't get a taxi. I helped them, but he physically stood in their way and acted like a complete jerk.

So do I believe her? The evidence points to her being truthful.

I'm not easily riled, but if you walk up to a girl I'm with, she says Go Away (pierdete!) and so do I, and you persist, then yes I will get riled. Probably just to the point of telling you off verbally, but if you persist, I will push back when pushed.

Ah, now you also seen this guy do it to others. Let's just say he some problems. Good thing I have never stayed at SL.

Dean

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my first wingman sent me this, how true

" most of the girls down here, lie as a self defense mechanism and to not have to face the truth, thinking most men couldn't accept them knowing the whole truth. Simpler, they may just want men to think they are as perfect as they want to appear to them, trying to hide what they consider to be the ugly truth about themselves. And I may be reading more into it than is there, but I do believe they consider the basis of the lies to be justified."

Reversing the situation a tad bit:

I'm sitting in the Amistad lobby at 3:45am waiting for my 4:30am InterBus shuttle ride to SJO. I'm making some toast and tea and drinking the last of my OJ. Into the hotel comes some swabby with my little girl who I had ummm.....seen.....a couple of times while there. She looked at me....I looked at her....we made eye contact.....I smiled.....she smiled....I said nothing.....she walked by me with her fella.....and just prior to walking up the stairs, turned around and hails me by the name I had given her.....what is a guy to do? I was mortified. Not for me....but for the guy she was with......What did I do next?!

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"Actual happiness always looks pretty squalid in comparison with the over-compensations for misery. And, of course, stability isn't nearly so spectacular as instability. And being contented has none of the glamour of a good fight against misfortune, none of the picturesqueness of a struggle with temptation, or a fatal overthrow by passion or doubt. Happiness is never grand."
- Aldous Huxley, Brave New World, Ch. 16

Say your Goodbyes, get her Phone number make an apology/excuse gesture to the mate and send her back ...that"s what i would do...

sorry about that... she was hot !!!

I have to agree, bad taste. I would never try to talk with a girl if she was with another dude, maybe a head nod in acknowledgement but nothing more ever. Now talking to the dude on the other hand I feel is acceptable, maybe a quick hey buddy you got the hottest piece of ass in this place congrats I find more than fine. I have never had a guy come up and start talking to the girl I was leaving with so I don't know if I would be turned off a ton or not, I'm sure it would matter more on how hot the girl made me. There are some guys that just don't get common curtesy, I lost a really good friend this year because he just didn't get rules when it came to dealing with other guys women and after enough times breaking the unwritten man rules it is time to cut off "friends" like those. Stay hard brotha!

Was that you? I hope you didn't kiss her goodbye after she left my room. I don't think she brushed her teeth.

Dean

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my first wingman sent me this, how true

" most of the girls down here, lie as a self defense mechanism and to not have to face the truth, thinking most men couldn't accept them knowing the whole truth. Simpler, they may just want men to think they are as perfect as they want to appear to them, trying to hide what they consider to be the ugly truth about themselves. And I may be reading more into it than is there, but I do believe they consider the basis of the lies to be justified."

Hmmm...I had a kind of similar experience on my last trip. Met up with a hot little Nica in the DR. She saw a guy come in whose friend was interested in one of her friends. The guy was interested in my Nica, but she asked me to say that she was leaving with me, even if it turned out that I didn't want to take her back to my hotel. She did not want to go with this guy because of the illegal activities he was involved in (& wanted to involve her in). At one point, I had to flag down a bartender at the other end of the bar & ended up having to go to that end. The Nica begged me not to leave her alone, because she felt sure this guy would start pressuring her & she didn't even want to talk to him. I told her I was only going to be about 15 feet away. Sure enough, as soon as I left, he was calling her over. She went over & told him we were leaving together, even though we hadn't negotiated anything at that point. She said that if he was me, he wouldn't appreciate someone trying to interfere & he finally just let her come back. She was really scared of this guy, I underestimated it when I left her....some guys really have no clue & this guy was one of them.

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I fart in your general direction. Your mother was a hamster, and your father smelled of elderberries. Now go away, or I shall taunt you a second time!

While I certainly agree that approaching a girl who's on the way out with another guy is Outa Line...Sometimes, it's the girl who wants some intervention.

New Years Eve at DR...I'm talking with a tall brunette named Melisa (Big boobs and braces)...Her friend Valerie (also brunette with braces) is trying to avoid an aggressive drunk...but she keeps accepting the drinks he's buying for her. Melisa says that Valerie wants to go with us...I mention the other guy and point out the fresh drink in front of Valerie.

But before Melisa can respond, Valerie leans into the other guy says something to him and leaves the bar...Melisa's phone rings a minute later, she tells me that Valerie is waiting for us outside in a taxi.

I feel bad for the guy at the bar...he looks a bit confused by these recent developments...but before he can make sense of it all, another cute girl sits next to him...and life is good again.

I'm not too crazy about the tactics these two use...but it was New Years Eve...About 11:30...And I needed to get back to the Freebird to ring in the New Year.

So...The drunk guy at DR gets a girl who is probably a better fit for him...Melisa and Valerie get to spend the New Year together which is what they really wanted to do...And I got to say adios to 2009 and hola to 2010 with two sex crazed ladies...Winners all the way around!

Moral of my story...I think...even though it's not cool to hit on another guy's target...sometimes, it's the girls who create this kind of drama. Just because we sit next to a girl in a place like DR, doesn't automatically make her ours. I believe these girls also have a say in the matter.

I have learned that in Costa Rica...never take anything personally.

Naroc,
-sport

I haven't been to costa yet but my sense is that, no matter what, your a trick to these hoes. I'm sure there is always an exception to the rule, as with anything. Of course being a gentlemen is always the best bet, but fellas lets not forget, if not for the money, these little hotties wouldn't give us the time of day. Go gets some snoop dog tapes, the dog pound, and dr dre. Listen to bitches aint shit and It aint no fun if the homies don't have none. All the stories I've read so far on the site indicate that there is Pu55Y galore In costa. If a ho3 wants to disrespect and flake. Then she will be doing me a favor as that indicates shes prolly a flakey lay aswell. i dunno just my 2 cents

this. still gets old but part of the scene. would be worse if no one hit on her or looked her direction.
but i get the OPs point. still even though many i have met are truly gentlemen there is that percentage of guys that just never learned how to behave and can't help themselves. can't teach class so its better to just ignore it.

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riding the crest of a wave breaking just west of hollywood

My take on Brother 67Supersport's tale is that sometimes you just don't know how an encounter is going to play out. In this case it was win/win all around. He was an observer, not an instigator. There's lots of Chicas to approach/ sit with a solo man (how's that for understatement?). And New Year's Eve is a special time, no doubt. Under other circumstances--"Rage in the Cage" time. You just have to have a feel for these things.

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"A man accustomed to hear only the echo of his own sentiments, soon bars all the common avenues of delight, and has no part in the general gratification of mankind"--Dr. Johnson
"Amen, brother"-ED

I haven't seen to much blocking in my time at CR, actually I've seen more chica's block then guy's blocking. I think a short exchange should be made between guys so the blocker is clear that she is temporarily unavailable...


Cujo

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"Pain is the fuel that fans the flames of my pyre. A battle plan is only as good as the general carrying it out on the field. This is my war son, and I have the biggest bombs and the smallest conscience"...

Maybe we can have a tag around their neck. Green is open chica, yellow is currently negotiating please respect your fellow monger, and red is deal done don't be a c-blocker.

Dean

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my first wingman sent me this, how true

" most of the girls down here, lie as a self defense mechanism and to not have to face the truth, thinking most men couldn't accept them knowing the whole truth. Simpler, they may just want men to think they are as perfect as they want to appear to them, trying to hide what they consider to be the ugly truth about themselves. And I may be reading more into it than is there, but I do believe they consider the basis of the lies to be justified."

Actually a few years ago at the anniversary party, Bill had system exactly like that but with wristbands..

Cujo

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"Pain is the fuel that fans the flames of my pyre. A battle plan is only as good as the general carrying it out on the field. This is my war son, and I have the biggest bombs and the smallest conscience"...