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PostPosted: Mon Oct 19, 2009 11:50 pm 
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My question- Will staying away from CR normalize me again or will I have significant withdrawal????


You realize that you are asking a bunch of addicts on advice on how to quit? Good Luck!!!!



Now that is funny!!! Good point...

I should have been a little more specific. When I say normalize, I'm talking about the whole sexual experience here in the states. Let's face it, being with 2 girls here is not like being with 2 girls in CR. When you have 2 sets of eyes and sometimes 3 looking up at you smiling, its pretty unforgetable. Then you come back to the states and you're with just one girl...and she's just not varsity...It makes you wonder. Is she not good because you are used to 2 girls smokin yer pole or is she not good cuz she's just not good?

Not tooting my horn, I'm trying to paint the picture. I was also with a girl here in the states 2 weeks after returning from CR. She was on top, I was on top, did her from behind, standing, and several gymnist positions but couldn't finish. At some point the girl asked me, "Am I doing something wrong?" Nope, my mind was actually thinkin about the last 3some in CR.

Am I ruined?

CR is complete freedom but I recognize the change in my behavior and have started asking the question is it all good.

Ya know what. I'm thinkin too much. It's like what Pacino said in Scent of a Woman. When he was saying good bye to his cat. He said, "Remember. When in doubt...Phuck."

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Is she not good because you are used to 2 girls smokin yer pole or is she not good cuz she's just not good?


She's just not good. There's def nothing like a hot gringa 3some, that's for sure. Being in a nice 3some in CR shouldn't take away from a gringa who knows how to Phuck.

Gringa or latina or any female, if you canfuck then you canfuck...


Perhaps you can push the envelope a bit more with girls in the states i.e. gaping, ATM, swapping, etc... :wink:

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I agree with Cujo, a good phuck will get you off everytime.

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What a fASSinating Thread!

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I think that real life sucks because there is ono place like Del rey or Sportsman's that you can go and party and have fun with hot women who are seriously trying to get with you. And you can perhaps duplicate that with strip clubs and at certain times night clubs but I haven't been really been able to copy that.

It's that big trade off .. fidelity for availability. A serious relationship or a different woman every day ... at least that's what the simple deduction should boil down to. It's usually not like that when you are talking about fidelity, usually it is about her excess baggage as well, and all the other drama you have to put up with. If CR is turning all of us into sexual connoiseurs then so be it. We will just have to take longer to settle for something we want exclusively. or maybe this is the bourbon talking., I don't know.

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you're scaring me.

will CR scar me against normal day-to-day living? I read the 'warning' thread in the newbie section, and took a few days before booking the SL and Dunns and becoming a VIP just to think about that.

I figure it's all about compartmentalizing... but I've never been good at that.

To focus on work once I'll have memories of compliant latina lovelies.. rough seas are ahead.


Withdrawal can be ok if you pace yourself down there and also see other countries. Yeah CR is great but I there as well as Medellin I always have a few days just getting use to the higher altitude (I live in the lowlands of SOFLA) so my energy nivel not as great as I would like at least intially.

I'm sure I will be back soon to feed again. :D

"Doesn't help when the temperature's dropping fast in our neck of the woods, either, K-man." = Yeah excellent winter SOFLA weather definetely helps temper the poos cravings. Cold, dreary anywhere else must suck big time. :cry:


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What a fASSinating Thread!


Toucan play that that game!!


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I have fun with girls and push the envelope already. The one change that is noticeable and nice is that I get the girl in bed sooner. Probably because I don't put the poosie on a pedastal as much as I used to.

The girl's performance in bed could possibly just be in my head but I think a good woman in La Cama is more rare when you are dealing with civilians. Let's face it, you have a bad experience with a girl in CR then you can have a GREAT experience in an hour with a totally different girl.

After driving an hour for work I think I have clarity on the situation. I'm bitter that I have to put as much work as I do for any girl. Keep in mind, I don't put forth that much effort. But any work you do in the real world is divided by 10 when it comes to CR.

The girl that I banged a week or two after the last CR trip I took out to dinner and drinks. She was thankful and nice and "ok" in bed. I go to CR and within an hour ate a great dinner talkin to some cool fellas, laughed my ass off, had several drinks, and then topped it with an incredible 3 some (with women you sickos). Money isn't an issue but the time spent and the $200 spent are COMPLETELY different in these 2 cases.

I think I'm a little bitter at the courting of normal girls and I feel guilty for being like that. My solution was to stay away, but after reading a little perhaps I should reconsider my course of action.

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Probably because I don't put the poosie on a pedastal as much as I used to.


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In discussions with various women, they seem to like the challenge. I just like hiding the salami. Even for working girls, the challenge is getting the money versus the other girls. I am glad you had that 1 hr ride bcs I thought we might have lost you, not!

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"I think I'm a little bitter at the courting of normal girls and I feel guilty for being like that. My solution was to stay away, but after reading a little perhaps I should reconsider my course of action."


I think it's possible to have the best of both worlds. But it's not easy, and you can't have it with just anybody. Basically, your steady - phuck, girlfriend, wife - has to be willing to allow you time to be alone. If she needs more info, then she ain't the girl. The advantage once you have this is you can also have a real relationship, somebody to be with you when life jumps out and bites.

When you have a good relationship with a highly sexual girl - for me, it had to be a Latina - you become less addicted to the rush of mongering. It never goes away, but it's decidely less. And when you do get away for a week, you don't feel the need to line them up, three per day. The other way, of course, is an open marriage or the swing thing. For me, that was never appealing.

The choice does not have to be between lonliness and contention. You can have a real relationship - with all the best parts of companionship - and still get away. But it takes the right girl. Simply put, she has to be hot, nuturing, interesting, reasonable, but also accept you for the modified dog you've become.

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MD doesn't just stand for Medical Doctor anymore--now it's "Modified Dog". I like that and grant it to a bunch of y'all (you know who you are--no shout outs here). Great in the pocket post Brother JM.

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I have been Mongering for about 8 years. Things have changed for me. At first I still dated around in the States. Now I think it is way to much pain in the ass for a relationship. I am a easy going person that always tried to please my mates. Now I dont kiss their asses any more. I dont put up with any spit from any woman. And damit if they dont like you better.

I work on the road as a field supervisor so I fly around the US and Canada. I am on a plane almost weekly. So I get to meet a wide range of Ladies. ALMOST every Lady I meet is a ball buster. The 40 somethings are after me on the road. I enjoy tell them,sorry not interrested/ I like younger women.You should see the reactions. As a general rule. American women think that poosy is made of Gold.

I started just hanging in the room and saving money for my trips to Rio and Costa. I dont go out too much. Finnally in my life I am comfortable in my own skin.

The only bad thing about this hobby is. I am always seaching for the Holy Grail. Once I think I have found .I come to think it is just a mirage. I fall in Love several times a day in Rio and Costa. That is good enough for me.

Last week I had this young K*D working with me. We saw a hottie. She was a Gringa a solid 9. The K*D said what would it be like to be with that. I said I been with much hotter. We left like that. I could not explain to the K*D what a Terma in Rio was like. Its a Monger thing he would not understand.


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I think the real answer is that I'm allergic to bull$hit. I know what the chicas in CR are after & they know what I'm after. It's great not to have to deal with the b.s. 8)

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Dale Ray and EL OR two very good posts.I will only add that after returning from CR its much easier to deal with gringas.


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El Ornitorrinco wrote:
I think the real answer is that I'm allergic to bull$hit. I know what the chicas in CR are after & they know what I'm after. It's great not to have to deal with the b.s. 8)


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