www.CostaRicaTicas.com

I find it hard to believe the courts won’t hold anything against Mikeys wife knowing she got pregnant by another guy. I would go to court and expose that as much as possible then buy a ticket to CR and try to drown myself in some hot young pus$y! lmao That is my free advice my friend.

_________________

i do believe the laws in the us were written before there was even the thought of dna.. laws were written to protect the wife and kiddies,so i believe there would still assume he is the father.. remember dna is relatively new....

_________________
I know nothing, nothing!

Mikey- sorry to hear of your predicament bro. As many others have said, get yourself competent counsel in domestic relations and make sure your boys are provided for. As for the bun in the oven, I believe there is a presumption that a husband is the father of his wife's Ch*ld, however, you had a vasectomy and she admitted to the act so I would think you could fight it. Of course, state laws vary.
Having looked at your earlier thread about ways to avoid your family knowing you were in the gulch, despite all your elaborate planning and schemes, I can't help but think your wife at least once tried to call your hotel in NYC, Seattle, or Phoenix. In the "information age" I dare say it is impossible to keep things on the dl.
Best of luck to ya.

Prepare your ASSets. If you are a person of means,hide as much as you can....as fast as you can. Otherwise she will take everything she can on advice of her Attorney who will make her hate you so as to extract as much fees as possible. Of course,since you have 4 Ch*ldren who are your responsibility,she will get most of it anyways. In the meantime,get youe ass to cR and have a few laughs.....You are going to need it. Good luck

VB,

I can't help but to think that for all the married guys who routinely sneak off down to CR (or any other mongering mecca) for a little action "on the side" that in the back of their minds they must have to be constantly worrying & wondering about when they will finally be found out.
In the case of MS I would think that when his wife joins forces with a hungry and aggressive divorce attorney the question of his time away on business trips will be brought up. Financial records and credit card statements can be subpeonad easily and the truth can be found out.
If this event comes to pass for MS I can't help but to think that he will really be doing some soul searching and wondering if CR was really worth it. However for many guys once you have tasted the mongering lifestyle it is very hard to give it up. This has been the case for me. Far better for a married guy who wants half a chance of a successful marriage to never begin mongering in the first place which is why I would personally never introduce any of my married friends to mongering.

_________________
Rainman3

I voted yes because of the goose gander thang. since she seems comfomtable with her choices is there any way of you guys having another sit down for an amicable split without the lawyers involved.

quick aside I am losing my long time wingman because he doesnt want to risk his marriage for CR

_________________
But mama, that's where the fun is

//\\\\\\\\\\\\\\/////

i did the "i would rather give you a little extra and we can avoid the bloodletting of the attorneys" and she agreed, that way i only had to give her 52% of my stuff. But no K*ds involved so if i were you i would get a bloodthirsty lawyer asap.. Women seem to go into a blind rage when they get divorced even when it is their idea.. Good luck again, and remember anything she does as far as being vindictive if she wants to take back at a latter day, she will just say "it must of been my hormones".. by the way she got to keep 100% of her stuff....

_________________
I know nothing, nothing!

That's the last thing he needs to do right now for so many reasons.

Good luck with all this MS.

as an attorney who does divorce work, each state has different laws, here the reason for the split has nothing to do with the division of property. they are split 50/50 of what was acquired during the marriage.

i do believe attorneys make a living by bleeding someone dry.. could be different in your state.. but i don't think so...

_________________
I know nothing, nothing!

Cariden.............Play nice!

That could be said for several occupations. It is just that attorneys seem to be really good at it, just IMHO. However in my last divorce I kept the house and was awarded custody of my son. Family courts are doing much better than they used to do for men in general.

_________________
Rainman3

this thing of ours is not for everyone,married or single it is easy to lose your frame of sanity. In a divorce action the court looks at what is in the best interest of the Ch*ldren as for as custody goes. with your Ch**drens age they can also have a say.

If the husband stays in the house with the K*ds right from the beginning (meaning she left), then more often than not, he will keep the house and the K*ds. The courts do not want to disrupt how and where the K*ds live.

It just so happens that men complain about the court decision when it was them that left the house and the K*ds. You leave the house and the K*ds and it won't be easy, more like impossible, to return to get anything. Never leave the house! If you don't want her in your life, do all that you can without violence of any kind to get her to leave the house and the K*ds, if you want custody of the K*ds.

Nothing is impossible. I am here in Michigan and in '92, after 8 years of marriage, I ended up with my house, business, apartments, and most importantly, my son. Initially, I moved out to avoid the drama, fought a vicious fight for over year with 3 different lawyers, and walked away with everything I valued---except $$$$$. You can always make more $$.
Every state is different, every case is different....but anything is possible
Altho this case reeks of irony, buena suerte
P.S my son has been to C.R. twice with me now

Diablo,

Congrats on coming out of your divoce well also. When you say your son has been to CR twice with you can I assume just for the touristy type activities. If you married in 02 Im guessing youe son can be no more than 15-16 years old. My son is 14 and is a big good looking K*D who is girl crazy and dying to travel to C & S America with me. Im not sure if when he turns 18 if it would be a blessing or a curse for me to expose him to P4P.

_________________
Rainman3