I have been playing with gringas since about 1970, discounting two short breaks totaling less than three years as I tried matrimony (not for me...).
I think these two quotes are worthwhile:
Haywood Jablommi wrote:
Gringas ARE difficult but they reflect our culture and mindset. We are as much to blame because we have allowed it to reach this point. Part of the reason ( besides money) that foreign women love american men is because the majority are supplicating weaklings who put up with verbal abuse that men from asia, south america, the middle east, eastern europe ect never would. Women everywhere will nag men. The difference is that in most countries guys are man enough to shut it down quickly and decisively. End of story. But not americans guys. I even see it with the chicas in CR.
Right on. The funny thing is that Gringas are really looking for a man who won't put up with a minute of her shit. Most Gringos think that being supplicant is the key when, in fact, the exact opposite is true.
Srilm wrote:
I agree and I'll carry it one step further. American culture has fostered the idea that a woman does not need a man for anything. She can have a career, make her own money, and needs a man for nothing. Her attitude is "what can you do for me." It is only by her choice that she chooses a man. And we men know this and generally have to accept that this is the way gringas think.
Srilm, don't buy into it. What she is doing with her opening act is screening applicants. If you buy into the Gringa mindset you are immediately relegated to the friend/never phuck zone. Instead, flip the table on her immediately. Exude the attitude that you deserve to be with the most beautiful women and
challenge her to qualify to hang with you. As soon as she is giving you reasons why she qualifies you have it won.
The "Bossy Gringa" act is just that. She is sorting the peasants looking for a Knight. They find men who are just beyond their grasp to be attractive, exciting and mysterious. Men who come hat-in-hand bearing gifts are obviously underlyings, not worthy of her attention.
Sick, ain't it!

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"Your love gives me such a thrill
but your love don't pay my bills,
I NEED THE MONEY!" - John Lee Hooker
Disclaimer: The above is merely the opinion of the author unless specific scientific data is included.
Your mileage may vary.
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