Jazz Musician wrote:
What kills me is when they flirt with you, touch you, make it clear they're attracted, and then hesitate to take it to the next level. There's always a reason it seems; the K*ds, the EX who she's not entirely done dealing with, worries about the appearance of hanging out (if you know her from work), and it goes on, and on, and on... There's a slick Dominican I work with, 38, slim, killer bod, personality, likes to laugh, who hesitated with me after coming into my office numerous times over several weeks and months. She had to "think about" giving me her number. I only asked once. I'm not into getting on my knees, no matter the knockers. I never asked again, but she's still asking me how I am in the hallways, touching me when she walks by, etc. She's through. It's over before it started. Gringa. And she's sorry...
And I'm on my way to Rio...
Had a similar one happen to me. Ex-coworker. The chick is legally married but separated. When I left that job for another, she confesses that she has always liked me. So this goes on for months, telling me what she wants to do in bed to me, she loves me, all this and that. Finally I take her up on her offer. We get to the hotel, I go for a kiss and she's not responding. I go for another one and I feel like she's not into it. I lay down...and reach for her shoes, to take them off. She pulls away and says.."I don't like anyone touching my feet"....I'm speechless! I'm a foot man and that's a deal breaker. I asked her..."why..do they stink?" She actually said "YES".....
So what do I do? Get up, take a cold azz shower...get dressed up..and tell her that we should get out.
The chick was all talk but hesitated at the plate. I wasted a perfectly great saturday night on that.