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Plan for the worst hope for the best...

I have to confess I quit reading this thread after about page 1. But, this whole idea is just ph*cked up. (At least it was until I quit reading the thread) I lived the lie for some time while married. It is miserable and not worth it. If I want to travel to wherever and bang whomever, it was just easier to cut the cord. No games, no touchy feely BS, no more guilt, no more worrying, no nothing. Did I ever come clean about my trips? No. Why should I?
I will say that if you are a married monger and you are afraid of your wife/significant other finding out, you should just cut the cord now if you don't plan on stopping. It is a train wreck waiting to happen. And, for the love of God, do some preplanning before the big D. I did and it was the smartest (one of the few smart things I've done) thing I ever did. In fact, after some time, I even got my daughter back living with me (yes, this does put a crimp in mongering activity and one day she will ask me why I always go out of town)...all without any attorneys, or fees, or courts or any of that other horsecrap.
Another word, just from personal experience. You bring up that type of conversation with an women (remember they all have a 6th sense) and they will mentally call bullshit on you in a minute. They may not say it but, por favor, they know it. I just don't see it working. Just MHO.

dapanz1

For the record I am not married to her or any other... Built in happiness by design

Ditto what Dapanz1 said too

PAC55, with due respect, you are missing the point completely. Go for the really nice sweet honey I love you but...so much is missing conversation.

JUST PLEASE HIDE SOME PHUCKING MONEY, assets, ruduce your risk, minimize the liabilities, do some advance damage control, have a back up plan in case before you have the conversation.

I surrender

Thank you, you might even say "anyone in a contractual relationship" because that is what a marriage is.

Hope you all have a great conversation. I wish everyone only good. And I will sleep better knowing the finance exposure has been covered and there are a few acorns safely hidden in the forest.

Too much of a roll of the dice. The only way it works is if the woman is more hung up on her way of life than her pride or she has secretly always wanted to partake in woman too.

Your logical premise is based on women thinking like you. Sorry doe not happen.

Now if you know your wife is too happy with her life to leave then roll the dice.

By the way I am divorced

After reading this thread i am glad that i am not married. I am sure that there are some open minded women out there that might take the news without a meltdown.ONOH there will be many that will want to put the screws to you if you bring them the news that you are a monger.Proceed with extreme caution in matters of the heart and wallet.If you feel that your wife is the kind that can't take it don't bring it up!