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PostPosted: Fri Sep 14, 2007 11:43 am 
Its all good brother.

I am pretty intimate with Seattle. My family has been there for over a 100 years, I went all the way through college there, made my home there for 40 years, I still keep a place there.

There is a perception of safety in Seattle. It is a very nice city. Bell Town is a very trendy area in the heart of the city. It is where the younger set, a lot of Microsoft types congregate. Just because a place looks trendy and nice does not mean it is safe and vice versa.

There a several shootings a year in that area. But people get used to it. It doesn't happen to them, they didn't see it happen, so they ignore.

It is funny too, because the pioneer square area is a party area too, it has a worse reputation because of the homeless population there. But there are more shootings in Bell Town. People excuse it because it is all pretty and nice.


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Kccostarica wrote:
You make good points.

I am just waiting for someone from Brooklyn, Philadelpiha, Baltimore or Miami to tell me that they think that San Jose is dangerous.


I will always error on the side of safety, but I get what you are saying. We have all seen 12 year olds in the states with dead eyes, you know the look of nothing to lose, nothing to look forward to..


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I'm rather young and in my 30s. I go to the gym 5 times a week. I could probably take on some of the travestites walking around if they bothered me. However, I chose to take cabs at night. It's only 1-2 dollars. Hey a cab in nyc costs more than that just to go 4 blocks. These travestites travel in packs and if some of them pick pocket you, I don't think some of you guys would stand a chance. I mean most mongers in CR are in their 50's some in there 60s or even 70s. I've seen a lot of mongers who are out of shape and fat. However, I don't know if these transvestites carry weapons, such as knives or guns? Could any of us handle three knives approaching us?


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I'm rather young and in my 30s. I go to the gym 5 times a week. I could probably take on some of the travestites walking around if they bothered me. However, I chose to take cabs at night. It's only 1-2 dollars. Hey a cab in nyc costs more than that just to go 4 blocks. These travestites travel in packs and if some of them pick pocket you, I don't think some of you guys would stand a chance. I mean most mongers in CR are in their 50's some in there 60s or even 70s. I've seen a lot of mongers who are out of shape and fat. However, I don't know if these transvestites carry weapons, such as knives or guns? Could any of us handle three knives approaching us?


Thats a good point even if you are buffed and huge, why take a chance with a cracked out tico has lost his judgement and they just dont care about odds or circumstance, true some are calculating theives that will choose their prey carefully, women, weak, and older (thats why you hear of so many women getting ripped off), but its all chance anyway totally random crime so the key is just dont put yourself in a position to be vulnerable.
I have lived in NYC, Houston, LA and San Diego and IMHO I would say San Jose has a lot more petty small time crime, but less violent serious crime than Houston, LA or NYC. San Diego is the safest IMO.
Another difference as Kosta pointed out is our hoods would outright flatten their 4 foot ticos, no question about it. But our Hoods mostly infight and kill each other, where as ticos are more laid back about it and go for petty crime on tourists.
Those transvestites are angry people with a few screws loose if you see a pack of them take a cab no matter how buffed or tough you are. They are probably the highest definition of nothing to lose, angry, poor, social rejects pariahs, you can run across.


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Redundant? Redundant? You say Redundant?

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That is redundant.

That's right brother.

We all take our chances stepping out our front door every day. We all live with danger every single day. It is a way of life. You are no different than me.

What is the news in that?
:D more like 16,001 times :lol: its time to shave my balls :D :lol: :lol:


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Smelvis wrote:
Kccostarica wrote:
You make good points.

I am just waiting for someone from Brooklyn, Philadelpiha, Baltimore or Miami to tell me that they think that San Jose is dangerous.


Well, you will not get me to say it, and I grew-up in Philadelphia during the height of the gang wars in the 1980s. I still find myself there rather often. While posting on another board--ISG--I made the statement that based upon my living in Philadelphia, San Jose is far from dangerous. For what it is worth, I believe that living in Philadelphia taught me how to "act" and "travel" when in a foreign place. The things that I was told not to do in Philadelphia, e.g., counting money openly on the streets, served me well when outside our United States.


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The standard MO for the TV's to rob you is not through armed robbery. They're much more into pickpocketing and the way they do it is to look for some inebriated gringo and to swarm all over him under the guise of propositioning him (whether he is interested or not). While one is grabbing them by the arms, another is grabbing him by the balls and yet another is dipping its hands into his pockets. With all that contact, the mark might not even feel his wallet or watch being lifted. But even if he does know what is going on, there isn't a lot that he can do about it. Avoiding being a victim of them has absolutely nothing to being bigger then them, because they aren't strong-arming you. Besides, some of them are pretty big themselves. The way to avoid it is to a) not walk anywhere near them if you're drunk b) not going anywhere near them if they are in a pack and c) giving them a wide berth and a watchful eye if passing anywhere near 1 or 2 of them (if they try to approach you don't let them, cross the road or whatever). Also, as you always should whenever walking out on the streets, never wear any jewelry or expensive watches, don't carry any more than you're willing to lose and keep that in a secure hard to reach place.

I've walked by the TV's on the corners by the Metal Building opposite Espana Park many many times late at night and have never had any problems, but I'm always obviously sober and walking with a determined stride right past them and a watchful and discouraging eye. Most of the times they ignore me as much as I ignore them. Other times they might make the standard streetwalker pitch (Oye, babee!), which I also ignore. And just one time, one of them pulled down her blouse and flashed me her tit (which was actually surprising big - hormones or silicone?)


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I think some of you guys that think you are 8' tall and 200lb+ are fooling yourselves--as you can be had by 3/4 little wolfpack ticos in less than a minute. After 20+ years in the bar business, and growing up in Detroit, I have seen many variations of confrontations where the supposedly big guy took a fall, especially if guns, knives, or multiple aggressors are involved. For you clowns that are advising newbies that there is nothing to be really concerned with at night if you carry yourself well--you are doing them a great disservice. My most vivid recollection is in a crowd at Puntarenas for a Don Omar concert where a big tico was taken down by ONE tico grabbing him around the neck from behind, thereby cutting off his oxygen, while four other ticos stripped him of anything he had of value on him before he even hit the ground--and all of this happened in less than 30 seconds and they dispersed into the crowd. All that I can say is " Tiene cuidado"


Exactly. I always take the conservative approach even if I'm a little larger/stronger. No amount of stength can take over a well placed knife thrust or gunshot. None. Have to always constantly assess the situation. If I see even 4 midgets coming at me with baggy clothing on my ass is in the most closest safe haven.


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I am 6'4" 280 and street smart. I am still vulnerable to knives and guns. Guys who run a sixty dollar bar tab and pay 80-100 for a hooker but will not pay two bucks for a gulch taxi are not being very smart. Why take the chance? SJO is more dangerous than most think.

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I am not the guy they are looking for. They have no interest in me. I am not carrying anything and I have a bad attitude. They are looking for easy targets.

San Jose is not as tough Atlanta, Baltimore, Cleveland, Pittsburg or scores of other cities? It just isn't, not even close in fact.

There is nothing even close to the Gang Banger element in san Jose like we have EVERYWHERE in the US.

For some, taking a taxi everywhere is the right choice. I would never discourage anyone from doing that. If you are a city guy, like me, used to being in big cities at night, then San Jose is not that bad.

But to make a blanket statement that everyone should do so no matter what is just not right.

And I am not saying that there is no danger. My point is that it is not any more dangerous than what we have come to accept as a normal level of crime in US cities..


Is true. We've had 3 (three) cops shot and two killed in the last two months here in South Florida. COPS, REPEAT COPS with weapons. The COPS here are now buying assault rifles on their own dime to counter the frieks with steel piercing AK-47s. SJO can be real bad but USA much worse.


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Prolijo wrote:
Looks like kc was right others objecting to his post. Look, guys, the "always take a cab everywhere" point of view has already been widely posted on this board and others. No need for guy after guy to jump on someone who does not completely agree with you on that (usually with the essentially the same arguments restated in various ways). KC, myself et al were just presenting an alternate point of view.

And you didn't even really listen to what we said. KC never said crime did not exist in CR. What he said was simply that it still paled in comparison to many other places back in the old US of A that we take for granted. So you can cite all the anecdotal examples you want but it still doesn't address the question of relativity.

And if you re-read what I said I think you'll see that some of your complaints don't really hold up either. I said that I was somewhat smaller than KC BUT said that size was "only a part of that". I should have said small part of that. It CAN have some DISSUADING effect (crooks naturally go after the easiest looking targets first) but I NEVER said that being big and imposing by ITSELF was enough to stop bullets. So for Diablo to twist our words that way is very unfair. I also said that when I do walk I take other precautions. One of those was not letting "anyone get too close to me". That would be especially true of any "3/4 little wolfpack ticos", who I'd give a particularly wide berth to. And if threatening looking "multiple aggressors" ever started to approach me I'd quickly move off in the opposite direction. However, in all my evening strolls, I've only had to do that once.

I'll admit Diablo's example of the tico who got chokeholded at a crowded concert was a perfect example of why size ALONE is not enough protection, But look more closely at the example and you'll see that example also illustrated the importance of several other elements that I mentioned: a) avoiding close proximity to others (something that simply can't be done at a crowded concert) b) glancing around and even looking over your shoulder so you are aware of your surroundings and no one can sneak up on you and c) knowing "the city, your way around, which places are safe, which places to put up your extra guard and which places to avoid altogether." So Diablo's example in a way really just proves my point.

And those are just some of the measures I suggested be practiced. I said those were "among several other things" I did. However with all of those, I've never said that one will always be 100% safe from crime, but they will reduce your risk and improve your odds. We all take risks all the time in many things we do. Flying to CR itself carries some risk, even with FAA aircraft maintenance regulations and TSA screenings, but we all seem willing to accept that. Once we arrive in CR, most of us seem very willing to get BBBJ's even though that carries some risk. A few or even surprising many will even go for bareback F/S, which is riskier still. I wouldn't but many do. We can debate how wise any of that really is but it all really comes down to each of us assessing the risks and benefits (hopefully based on fair and objective information) and deciding individually where our own personal comfort level is in balancing the two. In the case of walking around after dark, I think your best argument wouldn't be that the risk is so high but rather that the benefit of walking is so little. In most instances, its not really worth it just to save a buck, however there are times when the risk is really so low and the distance so short that I prefer to simply hoof it.

One last point, this "clown" NEVER advised "newbies that there is nothing to be really concerned with at night if you carry yourself well." But again, reread my post which I concluded with "The only real problem I might have with your post is that firsttime CR visitors reading might think this means they can put down their guard or that it is completely safe. I think it probably is a good idea to err on the side of caution and take cabs until one has a better sense of how things are on their own." They don't really know enough to make their own assessment of risk and reward. I've been going there for years, have been out on the streets after dark and am willing to take the risk in SOME but certainly not every situation. But that is my own personal decision. Others can and will do whatever they want.


I'm sorry I'm not familiar with the acronym F/S??

So much easier for a woman to catch HIV on the receving end than the man giving it out. It's just the physical mechanics of it all (pecker to pu*sy good, pecker to ahole not). Not saying unprotected is Ok but just that some higher power says less risk on the man to a woman. The men in turn are responsible to ensure that they do not transmit.


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I have worked in almost every major US city. I am a city guy. My advice still stands, Why take a chance. These idiots doing the mugging certainly are looking for drunk and easy targets, but they are also looking for gringos. There is a crack epidemic here simialr to the US in the early 90s where crime is getting increasingly violent. Obviously you can do what you want and be as Macho as you want, but the risk reward of a 2buck cab ride at night is a pretty good bet.

Yes most all US cities are dangerous and most of us are smart enough to avoid the bad sections. Well here we monger in the middle of the bad area where we stand out, typically do not speak the language and the police will probably jack you instead of helping you.

I would think most should err on the side of caution. Not to mention if you get accosted and hurt a Tico you are typically going to have a shitstorm to deal with.


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The attackers are also very drunk and/or on drugs and if so need to completely avoid them. If they were sober less risk but the drugs make them slip and do very bad things. I intentionally stay away from drunks and druggies. Had a very scary experience in Madrid Spain in daylight (7:30P) in a very public area that is very safe overall.

Was practicing Spanish with this motherfokker in a very nice barra cerca de Puerto del Sol when all of the sudden he starts talking about when men pass away their dreams are all about all the women they've ever foked which I totally agreed with then he wanted to be my blood brother and shattered a full wine glass in his hand badly cutting it then tryed to shake hands with me. Sorry out of that place faster than a Spanish orgasmo. Too strange.

Also read last month that Spain was the leading user of cocaine just behind the US. Those party mofros!!!!!!!


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The standard MO for the TV's to rob you is not through armed robbery. They're much more into pickpocketing and the way they do it is to look for some inebriated gringo and to swarm all over him under the guise of propositioning him (whether he is interested or not). While one is grabbing them by the arms, another is grabbing him by the balls and yet another is dipping its hands into his pockets. With all that contact, the mark might not even feel his wallet or watch being lifted. But even if he does know what is going on, there isn't a lot that he can do about it. Avoiding being a victim of them has absolutely nothing to being bigger then them, because they aren't strong-arming you. Besides, some of them are pretty big themselves. The way to avoid it is to a) not walk anywhere near them if you're drunk b) not going anywhere near them if they are in a pack and c) giving them a wide berth and a watchful eye if passing anywhere near 1 or 2 of them (if they try to approach you don't let them, cross the road or whatever). Also, as you always should whenever walking out on the streets, never wear any jewelry or expensive watches, don't carry any more than you're willing to lose and keep that in a secure hard to reach place.

I've walked by the TV's on the corners by the Metal Building opposite Espana Park many many times late at night and have never had any problems, but I'm always obviously sober and walking with a determined stride right past them and a watchful and discouraging eye. Most of the times they ignore me as much as I ignore them. Other times they might make the standard streetwalker pitch (Oye, babee!), which I also ignore. And just one time, one of them pulled down her blouse and flashed me her tit (which was actually surprising big - hormones or silicone?)


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You make good points.

I am just waiting for someone from Brooklyn, Philadelpiha, Baltimore or Miami to tell me that they think that San Jose is dangerous.


I will always error on the side of safety, but I get what you are saying. We have all seen 12 year olds in the states with dead eyes, you know the look of nothing to lose, nothing to look forward to..


I guess my point is where do you draw the line on that? You can say that every time you walk out the door. US Freeways are very dangerous, are you going to stop using them too? The US has a very high murder rate, so why not take a taxi eveywhere you go in the US too.

I respect people that feel San Jose is dangerous. For those that want to take a taxi everywhere, if that makes you feel more safe and secure, fine.

I live here in Costa Rica, and I am in San Jose all the time. I just don't see the danger. Like I said, the most sketchy area I have walked is right out the door of the Del Rey. I know my way around the city pretty well at this point and I feel pretty comforatble moving around in it.

I do not argue with those that want to take a $2 cab everywhere, that is right for them. I just don't want to live that way. It has nothing to do with being Macho. That is just me. I am not going to live in fear unless I preceive a significant threat.

We are not all going to agree on this topic. That is fine, I do not expect to chance anyones mind. Many here think it is dangerous, I feel many are exaggerating the threat. We are all intitled to our own opinion

That said, so far, only ONE CRT member has come forward with a first hand account of street violence. That was a situation where he admitted that he had been drinking, he wasn't paying attention to his surroundings and he was in an area he should not have been.

Jester, welcome to the board, but please go through and edit your posts, at least the part in quotations!!! Your posts make more sense if we know what part of the quote you are referring to. Thanks


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There are many other past posts on assaults: (Calling archivists Paco)
Don Gordo was robbed at gunpoint. Zigmonger I think has been mugged twice. A guest of the SL or Castillo was beat all to hell a couple of months ago. He was watching one of our poker games but I don't know his name. several board members have watched guys get jumped across from the NYB. There was a rash of this 6 months ago. Then there is the famous 63 yo gringo found passed out, naked and beaten in park Morazon of a Sat morning.

I live here and do not live in fear, jus carefully. My objective was to make sure that less experienced or less frequent visitors understand the very real issues in SJO so they can make their own decisions.

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PostPosted: Sat Sep 15, 2007 9:12 am 
I think that is all fair and good. Reasonable people can have different opinions on this subject and new comers should have all the information so that they can make up their own mind as to what is right for them.

It is good to know about specific instances rather than stories of what people have heard from someone else. I think that is a lot more helpful to those new and old than a lot of speculation and second, third and forth hand info that is typically presented.

I have never said that there is no danger. I pick my spots as far as walking around and I am not advocating it for everyone. You really have to keep an awareness of what is going on around you. I am deliberate with the routes I choose so that I am not in closed-in and and isolated situations. I pick out routes during the day, then I test them at night. You know there are people that live in this city. There are other people that are out and about. I try to stay out of places where I am going to be isolated.

I know a lot a stuff goes down in front of the New York bar. That is one of the areas that I avoid at night. Like every city, San Jose has its bad areas where you can get in trouble. I feel like this sort of specific information is a lot more valuable than making blanket statements like "you should take a cab everywhere you go". What I don't agree with is the approach of some that want to create a overall climate of fear. I feel that is unnecessary and over the top.

How you dress makes a differnce: The other thing that is not mentioned is how you dress. I typically wear long pants and regular collared shirts. I am as caucasian as you get (Irish/Sweede), yet I am frequently mistaken as Lantino. If you are walking around in resort wear and flip flops, you might as well put a sign on you back that says HIT ME!

We all know people in the States that have had bad things happen to them as well. My sister was robbed at gun point in our store (in an upscale community I might add). I had a classmate that was rapped and murdered. I had one buddy that was beaten up really bad in the party section of Seattle. I know 3 or 4 that have died on the highway. We all live with risk everyday and we all go on with our lives. Those that say "why take the risk?" are taking risks every time they walk out their door back in the States. That is just an unfortunate reality of the world we live in today.


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