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North American society today has evolved to the point where women have demanded to have equal access to traditional male dominated professions and institutions. The result of this aggressive forceful and demanding attitude is that women effectively want and expect to be more equal than men and as a result the doors have blown open to the point where it is not uncommon to see females in traditional male dominated jobs such as police, airline pilots, firefighters even CEO's. These gains have not been gained without a cost and women are in denial.

The cost to women has been the loss of their feminity, the very thing that attracts men to them. Women have reached the point where they want it all and without a cost. Women expect to be provided for in addition to being entertained by the men in their lives; that is the mans' burden. Many women have the attitude that a man is fortunate just to have a women in his life.

Men more and more are frustrated and find it more and more difficult to relate to women in a way that our parents were able to interact. The man and women's roles used to compliment one another NOT COMPETE with one another. Whether it be the workplace, the court system or even a recreational environment, North American women have the upper hand. Women view the stereotype domestic role with contempt or an inoffensive beauty pageant with disgust. Men are often criticized for not committing to women but fail to consider the downside to committing to a relationship that has only a 50% chance for success. Women are the ones who prevail in sexual harassment cases and this is convenient weapon in the arsenal women can use to gain advantage in the office. In today's corporate world often the most convenient route for a male employee accused of inappropriate is to discharge immediately and ask questions later.

In many 3rd world countries the traditional roles still exist. A man is respected, not held in contempt. Women are happy to fulfill a domestic role without complaint and in return are happy to have a man that is faithful and not a deadbeat. Today single male travel to 3rd world countries is at record levels.

Yes, many if not most men on vacation have several partners. Most guys however have been burned in marriages and love relationships in 3rd world countries and are cynical about relationships with women. I am as guilty as the next guy and have nothing but positive things to say about my relationships in 3rd world countries. I and all of my friends have treated the women we have met with dignity and respect. Feminists accuse us of exploiting women and I am still confused about the feminist definition of exploitation. In such relations I have always shown the greatest respect to the women I have been with and they for the most part have reciprocated. Yes most are commercial transactions but I have always viewed each one as a possible romantic relationship if the chemistry was right. It just happens that most 3rd world countries are populated by none white women. In my case I am able to look beyond the color and see the person inside. I do not feel that I am acting out some subconscious fantasy.

The feminists have chosen to enter and try to dominate the male arena. They have made great strides in the business world and have lost something in the process. Rather than look inside at what is wrong it is easier to blame men for the shortcomings in their lives. My visits to C.R. have changed my thinking about marriage and relations with women in a profound and powerful way. It made me realize how exploited I was, by North American women. The lengths that I used to go to simply to maintain and preserve a relationship now make my stomach turn. True it was give and take; usually 90% give and 10% take.

Today I have no desire even to consider a relationship with a North American woman. They can all read their Cosmopolitan Magazine's and make other poor unenlightened souls miserable. For me C.R. has affected my life in a very positive way. If anyone has the feminist definition of exploitation please pass it on.

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Una mas cerveza por favor!

A truly excellent post, I could not have said it nearly as good myself. And another thing is the majority of american women have dildos, they don't even need us and they consider their behavior to be normal???? Hell, we just go to other countries where the women like to be treated as ladies instead of business partners. I too feel that they have been exploiting us. You bring up a great question, what is the american feminazi definition of exploitation. I would only guess that it is anything that we do that does not have there express, written authorization.

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pacatelo

Pardon me for going against the grain. Not every gringa is a total and hateful bitch. I hobby in the Houston area and we have a site called www.aspd.net that I post on religiously. I have met some very good gringas through this site and we review the ladies that we see. It is a great site, especially if you are either in the Houston or Dallas areas.

The Houston area is ripe with some really good places to see some hot latina ladies. The price is around 150 for a hour, which by CR standards is above high, but if you need pu*sy between trips it is better than most indy providers which charge between 250-300 an hour. Most spas, massage parlors in the Houston area charge around 175-240 for a full hour.

I agree that I like the CR ladies (Nicas are my fave), but the hatred toward the gringas on this thread is, pardon me, a little over the top. If I were a football official I would throw a flag for piling on.

Dear_John,
With all due respect I don't think gringa "Providers" is what these guys are referring to.

I believe they are talking about the average gringa that MIGHT be a potential date or girlfriend.

How many of these gringa providers have you had real relationships with? You might find that once the business aspect as been taken out of the equation that they are just as bad as the rest.

But then there are exceptions to everything so what do I know?

As for myself. I first 'tasted' the world of Latin ladies in 1997. In the fall of '98 I had the opportunity to date an American woman for about 5 months. While it was interesting and overall she was fun (and swallowed) she was looking for something other than me.

One of her last comments was "give American woman a chance". Sorry, babe, but thanks for proving my point.

I had a couple more dates with American women after that but not one since the Spring of 1999. I find it rare that one even catches my eye. If she does she's usually under 25 yrs old (half my age).

I wonder why that is?

no tengo dos centavos on this one

I am close friends with many American born and raised women. I just know better than to fall in love with them. Women here just seem screwed in the head when it comes to sexual relationships.

Those rare women who manage to stay sane, feminine, fascinating, etc, and sexual, are so sought after it doesn't seem worth the effort to chase them even for a second. You know they are going to put you through the ringer before you get close, then you'll be watching your back the whole time you are with her because of all the other wolves circling around, until finally the shit you know is going to happen, happens.

The only attractive women I've met here who I've felt reasonably "safe" with in terms of trust and possible long term relationship, invariably turn out to be hardcore bible bangers. And with them it isn't you they are with. You are just a stand in for their fantasy of God's choice for them. And let me tell you IT, as the song says, ain't me, babe.

But I too have been lost in that fantasy world were it seems like nothing could ever break the power of "our" immortal love. Seems pathetic when you look back on it, doesn't it? I'm just lucky so far it always fell apart before any legal documents were signed.

Maybe 3rd world women have simply never been sheltered and "protected" from reality the way our girls have been. Then they don't have to go to counseling just to learn how to enjoy an orgasm as adults.

I don't "hate" gringas, but it seems that I have little use for their mind games. I am not one who believes that ALL latinas have a heart of gold, nor do I believe that all gringas are useless money hungry golddiggers. But it seems that I personally have a much better time with latinas in this country and abroad. I have met some awesome gringas, but they all seem to be married.

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Tunaman

DEAR_JOHN,

You are correct not ALL Gringas are hateful bitches. Only 9 out of 10!!!

Also Witling is correct. Don't confuse our bitterness of gringas with gringa sex providers. Please! You can't even compare them. Forget about $40 vs. $200. The passion and desire to please is night & day.

Hey guys, try to imagine this -

Next time you are at the Del Rey restaurant imagine if you took a regular non-pro latin women there to eat. She probably would not be very happy with all the chicas around. OK. Now imagine bringing a gringa there! LOL.

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G-Man:

Your post is totally hysterical.. I'm still busting my gut... What a great visual.... I wish you had a video of it...

What the hell is this girl thinking... that her PERSONALITY is so damn nice that you will overlook her "little" weight problem or that Gman is really the Bman (Blindman).

That is a tough position to be in... I guess that will be your last blind date.

KC

Hey Gman! That last post was your funniest yet... I think the guys and
myself are going to buy you a belated Christmas gift. An authentic
whaling harpoon, use by the old salts of Mystic Seaport. We
recommend you take it with on all important impromtu client meetings
and all future gringa dates. Ya never know what you're gonna get!



Did your client get a kickback for taking out this girl? ROLFLMAO!

Good story... great summary at the end too.

Regards and great New Year to you and your family!

CK

Gman;
Having been to south beach in the past, I guess one of the hardest parts of your ordeal was watching some of the best eye candy in the world while sitting in the back with that gringa. My heart goes out to you.
tuteman

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Just an old horney, fat gambler.

Geeezzzz,

Gman, why didn't you dip her in a bag of flour and go for the 'wet spot'.

I am buying you a harpoon for Christmas to use on your future dates.

Admin 3

Hey G:
I'm still friggin laughing.. You did forget to mention some other out of pocket costs involved in this date.

(1) New shocks for your car
(2) Extra cost of liquor for the evening to try to forget the experience
(3) Cost of anti depressants
(4) Cost for Counselling and why you went through with the date
and long term mental health effects.
(5) Cost to detail the car clean out the whale smell

YO Picky Puckers:

Gamblingm...... you never did say if she had a pleasant face, personality and large rack. You probably did not like her because whe was too tall. Hell with the 200 lbs, she could have passed for a fox here in the pits of Jax. The last time I had a young blue eyed pu*sy kissing and rubbing me was when the persian cat accross the street wondered into my yard. Hope you still have her phone #. Ask her if she interested in a poor old fart 2-1/2 times her age and sexually misguided. Since I swore off ever going to Miami again.....ask her to meet me half way.....say St Augustine. That's only three vodka sunrises from my abode. I have not been so excided since the pigs ate my ugly sister.

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Damn if I'm going to repeat this shit again. I need a drink.
I've been drinking vodka every day for 45 years and I have certainly never found it to be habit forming.