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I don't understand what the big deal is regarding dressing nice in CR. Twice my "novia" and I went out to dinner and we both dressed up for the occasion. She loved the way I looked and she couldn't stop complimenting me on my shoes, $200. My look didn't say, "look at me I'm rich" it just made it look like I have good taste in clothes. Saw a lot of ticos dressed up here and there. When we went to the Mall de San Pedro I wore my dress shoes with a pair of jeans and a tshirt and as we walked around we got lots of smiles from families shopping. We held hands most of the time and maybe we looked like a married couple in love, and the Ticos seemed to approve. Im 37 she's 29 so I didn't look like an old pervert. Not that there's anything wrong with that. It felt good dressing up a bit. I'm going to be in CR for Xmas and NY's Eve and plan on bringing more dress clothes this time, for all the parties. 11 days.

Also, when I snuck to the DR, all the chicas loved the way I was dressed. And I don't think any of them thought "oh this guys got money, and I'm going to get as much as I can from him." In fact some of the chicas I was with in the past asked my how come I didn't dress that nice for them. I told them that my "novia" and I went out to dinner, and they said lucky her. Some guys dress like slobs in the DR. As long as they're comfortable, I guess.

The shoeshine boy looked down at my shoes and asked if I wanted a shine, I told him they didn't need a shine just yet, I just took them out of the box, and he laughed at that and walked a way with a big smile.


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My Mom told me to always dress my best. I try to listen to that advice, even in C.R.

My last trip, I brought nice dress shoes, a silk shirt and really nice khakis...and the ladies seemed to approve. It wasn't so much that I looked rich...but I feel that I did look respectable.

I know it's cool to wear T-shirts and jeans almost anywhere in C.R., but I also tried to mix in polo skirts...er, shirts, a couple nice long-sleeved dress shirts for going out to El Monasterio and the like, and a nice pair of trousers or two. Hey, when you're blind, you have to try harder.

I got a fresh haircut, manicure and pedicure just prior to leaving for Costa Rica.

I also had my nipples waxed and shaved my sac...er, maybe too much information?
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I have found that a lot of the chicas really like it if you dress up a bit-and not just because they think you have more money. I think a casual shirt and a pair of Dockers as opposed to just Tee/Jeans is appropriate just about everywhere.

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we're going off on a bit of a tangent here. Yes, clearly if you dress nicely women will like it better than if you dress badly. That's a no-brainer, and that's true of all places, I think.

BUT, that's not what I'm asking, exactly. I want to pack light. I WILL bring clean, presentable casual clothes. I have nicer clothes, which I could bring, but would rather not if I don't have to. The question is, do I NEED to for some functions/New years parties, etc., which would normally require something a bit more upscale. If I should have them for some things then I will bring them, otherwise I will leave the nice clothes,shoes, shirts etc at home and get by with my presentable casuals, and my lighter travel bag. :D


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I think this a question only you can answer. How do want to dress? You don't NEED to dress one way or the other... whatever makes you feel comfortable. I also don't like to pack much, but I've come to learn that it's better to be prepared for everything. I only brought one long sleeve dress shirt and went out to dinner with my "novia" twice and had to wear the same shirt. She didn't mind and as long as she didn't mind, neither did I. But it would have been nicer if I had another shirt.


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If you wear $50 to $100 it usually works I have found! :D I dress like the Ticos & it makes me happy when I see guys dress in expensive clothes & wear ROLEX watches then I know my odds have gone way up that I will not be a target! :wink:


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PostPosted: Sun Nov 27, 2005 8:06 pm 
The liberty stuff and freedom stuff.

Some rules/laws are based on safety - your safety and others. 65mph on our highways is for your safety - does it affecting your liberty, affecting your freedom? You can still get to where you want to go, just safer than without the law. Driving isn't a right, it is a privledge. Flying isn't a right, it is a privledge. You are welcome to drive to Costa Rica or walk or take a bus.

TSA is acting on behalf of the airline. If a carrier doesn't protect you and the other passengers, they'll get sued. You are flying on someone else's property.

Let's say a certain passenger refused to let the airport folks search his bags, they tell everyone on the plane to get off or fly at their own risk, if everyone got off the plane what are the chances that Delta will take only you to Costa Rica?

Mixing constutional arguments with TSA's right to search your bags for the safety of others and on the behalf of Delta and Delta's stockholders is next to insane.

I don't know of anywhere in the world where they put your rights above the safety of the other passengers. A lot of people might say, well if you don't like it, you should move out of the USA (childish sort of stmt), but in this case, where is there to go? Where you can fly and not have your bags searched?


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You must forgive them they do like to talk. What to put on your body and where you go looking like that is pretty much a personal decision. And as with all decisions you must live with it. My personal experiences is that from time to time I like to look a little better than the average guy at the Blue Marlin. So I bring along a couple of pair of dockers and nice looking long sleeved shirt or two. I cannot say that I pack light ever since 911 and all the baggage checks I do not carry on luggage so space is not a problem. One thing you should take into consideration is that most hotel's have laundry service so you do not have to take along that much to have clean wearables each day.

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yeah, woud think a bit differently if I were staying in a hotel as well, since laundry service is usually convenient, and available, but I won't be staying in a hotel, so that rules that out. I tend to prefer renting private spaces when possible, and that's what I'll be doing on this trip(pluses and minuses to that). I know everyone says a CR newbie shud stay at the DR, but frankly I'm not so inept that I need the crutch of being there, or the extra charges that go with it (convenience aside) Doesn't mean I won't be visiting the BM though. lol.

That aside, since nobody seems to be pointing out any particular need for anything really upscale, I do believe I'll stick to dockers, jeans, and half decent shirts. 8)


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 28, 2005 12:41 am 
Curious, what falls in the category of private space? Is this an apt that you find in the paper or a house for rent?

I would never suggest anyone stay at the HDR, by the way. The prez or the SL or so many others that don't charge a chica fee would always be my suggestion.

Dockers and reasonably good shirt - sounds like a winner. I don't really credit the chicas ability to think "wow, this guy is dressed rich.... money, money, money." They'll try to get a cien from everyone so if you aren't a fool (you don't sound like one), you'll do fine getting the right price no matter how you are dressed.


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The liberty stuff and freedom stuff.

Some rules/laws are based on safety - your safety and others. 65mph on our highways is for your safety - does it affecting your liberty, affecting your freedom? You can still get to where you want to go, just safer than without the law. Driving isn't a right, it is a privledge. Flying isn't a right, it is a privledge. You are welcome to drive to Costa Rica or walk or take a bus.


Your ignorance of Constitutional law is only matched by your blatant disregard for the dignity of the working girls. Yes, travel is indeed a Constitutional right. Go back to school.

TSA is acting on behalf of the airline. If a carrier doesn't protect you and the other passengers, they'll get sued. You are flying on someone else's property.

The airlines are subsidized by the government, and therefore act on its behalf. And BTW, the airlines still get sued a bunch. Suggesting that the TSA exists to prevent the airlines from being sued is ludicrous.

Let's say a certain passenger refused to let the airport folks search his bags, they tell everyone on the plane to get off or fly at their own risk, if everyone got off the plane what are the chances that Delta will take only you to Costa Rica?

I've never seen this happen. The passenger whose rights (4th Amendment) have been violated is simply detained. Again, Dewey, you need to go back to school.

Mixing constutional arguments with TSA's right to search your bags for the safety of others and on the behalf of Delta and Delta's stockholders is next to insane.

TSA does not have the "right" to do anything. The citizen, under our laws has the rights, not governmental institutions. Again, go back to school.

I don't know of anywhere in the world where they put your rights above the safety of the other passengers. A lot of people might say, well if you don't like it, you should move out of the USA (childish sort of stmt), but in this case, where is there to go? Where you can fly and not have your bags searched?


The U.S.A. is supposed to be the one country where the rights of the citizen are held above the rights of the government. Again, go back to school. You're uninformed, undereducated, and clueless, and it's your type of sheep-like herd behavior that endangers democracy and human rights. You're too willing to follow the leader, take the word of the neo-fascists that your loss of liberty means that you will be safer. Again...and I don't mind repeating this...get back to school, but study this time.

If there was any prooff that loss of liberties guaranteed safety, I still wouldn't want to be less free.

The TSA sucks at its job. You're no safer than you were before 9-11.

Now, the rules of this Forum say we can't talk politics, and we're getting very close to violating the Forum rules. I don't want to be banned for simply trying to re-educate an ignorant person, but rules are rules.
Let's table this discussion.

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I wore a coat and tie on the flight in and out.....it saves having to pack a suit and you present a more professional image for the custums agents on both ends...

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....I also had my nipples waxed and shaved my sac...er, maybe too much information?

WAY too much info !!!!!!!!!!! LOL

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Yes of course EC - right after you've had the last word we'll stop the political debate.

You try to make the USA look bad - just list all the places in the world where they will let you board an airplane without searching. You are so eager to jump on me, you ignored much of what I said in my post. You aren't jumping on your own personal plane to go to CR so you are subject to search like it or not. Flying is a privlegde, it isn't a right.

You are right from this point of view ONLY - you have every right not to allow you bags to be searched.... every right in the world and there is absolutely NO doubt about this. You can exit the airport NO questions asked after refusing because once you invoke this right, you absolutely have no right to fly. I've never ever ever heard (and I'm a news junkie) anyone question searches by the TSA except to say they need to do better searches.

Strictly speaking, you are right. Trouble is, you won't be flying anywhere if you invoke your right. If you invoke your right, no one, is going to the supreme court with you over this one.

Watch out though, exiting the airport after saying you won't allow a search, you've just given them cause. Strange guy in the airport of all places invoking his constutional rights... what's up with this guy? hmmmmm....


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Yes of course EC - right after you've had the last word we'll stop the political debate.

You try to make the USA look bad - just list all the places in the world where they will let you board an airplane without searching. You are so eager to jump on me, you ignored much of what I said in my post. You aren't jumping on your own personal plane to go to CR so you are subject to search like it or not. Flying is a privlegde, it isn't a right.


Wrong! interstate travel without government interference is guaranteed by the Constitution, whether you fly, drive, walk, bicycle or crawl. The mode of travel does not matter.

You are right from this point of view ONLY - you have every right not to allow you bags to be searched.... every right in the world and there is absolutely NO doubt about this. You can exit the airport NO questions asked after refusing because once you invoke this right, you absolutely have no right to fly. I've never ever ever heard (and I'm a news junkie) anyone question searches by the TSA except to say they need to do better searches.

In principle, I have no problem with searches. i really don't. It's just that the American people have been misled into believing that these searches make them safer. They might or might not; my point is, does the loss of liberty/privacy make anyone safer? Nope. A trained fighter with or without weapons can take a plane.

The Constitution was enacted in part to protect the rights of people to assemble, travel, worship, be free from governmental abuses. If we start ignoring the Constitution, we will lose other rights as well.

Strictly speaking, you are right. Trouble is, you won't be flying anywhere if you invoke your right. If you invoke your right, no one, is going to the supreme court with you over this one.

Don't be surprised. There are numerous people who are not afraid to be men, rather than being sheep.

Watch out though, exiting the airport after saying you won't allow a search, you've just given them cause. Strange guy in the airport of all places invoking his constutional rights... what's up with this guy? hmmmmm....


Ah yes, the much-abused probable cause. TThis is a problem with all types of law enforcement; simply standing up for your legal rights makes you a target for legalized persecution and violation of your lawful rights. Out of the scope of this Forum and this discussion.

Back to laundry... :lol:

Forget the hotel laundries; there are several good fluff n' fold places who will do a kilo of laundry for around $1.60. :idea:

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