You KNOW she's not working the HDR/BM and so a) does not have a source of income that should obviate the need for asking for extra cash from you and b) is probably not "playing" some other gringa while she's "playing" you. You have to respect the fact that she's trying to support her family by working so hard for so little when she could easily have taken the "easy" route that the HDR/BM girls have.
How can you call what these beautiful girls in CR do as they easy way out? In the states these girls would be fighting off guys every day. Some of us, if not all, should be considered lucky. You know what I'm saying?
Anyways, here's and ancedote that I experience on my first trip, lat week.
I met this great Tica at BM, after making my rounds around the place more than ten times, well we got to talking over a few beers and in the process I found myself enjoying the conversation, nothing to do with s*x, everthing to do with getting to know someone better. After talking for hours, I asked her if she would like to accompany me to my hotel, she agreed. As we walked to El Presidente, a homeless K*D walked up and asked for change, I replied that I didn't have any and he continued, after some time I had enough, thinking I was macho and protecting this girl, I sorta got rude and told the K*D to bug off. The K*D said a few words ans scampered off. Afterwards, I got the sense that the girl I was with was uncomfortable with my behavior. The next night we're walking together and another K*D approaches us, this time she took charge and told the K*D (en Espanol) "No. My love, we don't have any change. But if I see you tomorrow, I might. Okay my love?" and with that the K*D wished us both a good night and walked away smiling. I learned something about how to treat people from this Tica, who I believe to be special. I talked to her about what the whole situation and she was surprised that I felt the need to talk about it. This girl never asked me for money, even after hooking up for TLN, twice. We've spoken on the phone three times since I've returned and the last time she asked me how I felt about spending my xmas vacation with her and her family. I'll be in CR for Turkey and now for Xmas. I treated all the girls I met with respect, regardless of their profession, and that in turn has paid off in tenfold. Again, some of you ph*ckers should consider yourelves lucky these beautiful women give you the time a day, even if you're still paying them. I saw a guy get shot down by one of these Ticas and I felt bad for him.
Anyways, Did I mention I love CR?!!
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