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Yes, I think it would be rather easy to have a non pro that is willing to see you with the understanding that you are going to give a her a some money with the understanding that the relationship is not exclusive.

I think the key to it is being able to give them some money without making them feel like a whore. You have to handle it a certain way.
You have to make sure she knows that you like and respect her as a person and the money is just a way to say "here is a little something to help you with your bills". I also think it is important that she has fun being with you. This might include taking her dancing or to activities that are to her liking, not necessarily yours. As long as she enjoys your company and considers you a friend she shouldn't feel like a puta.

A lot of the Latinas really enjoy sex and don't see it like the gringas.
If they like you and they enjoy your company, generally you can expect sex at the right time.


You are correct, with a semi pro, you really don't have to go out of your way at all. She expects the money and you are going to have to pay.

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KC...your advice reminds me of a real life story in a past relationship. I was dating a hot Mexicana who I was totally in love with...a 2 yr on/off again crazy affair. Because her family couldnt accept her seeing me, an older divorced gringo, most of our relationship was "on the sly", which is difficult to do in their culture and in the end was the death of that relationship.

One day she calls to say she wants to see me, and also could I loan her some money for some bill she had. I said sure...and we met at a hotel. After a hot "afternoon delight", we are getting dressed and I hand her some money for her request. She immediately throws the money on the floor and SLAPS me! I had never been hit by a woman before and I was stunned. THen she goes off on me saying "how can you give me money like that right after making love?". I told her I was just giving her the loan she had asked for. Shes says "you dont have to treat me like a "puta"...you could have just put it on the counter or given it to me later. This ways it looks like it's associated with sex."

Needless to say, I went away shaking my head, but at the same time learned a valuable cultural lesson. A latina GF does NOT want money for sex or the appearance of it. They desire a distinct difference in how you treat them versus how they perceive "putas" are treated. There is protocol to everything it seems. Hope none of you guys have to be slapped into this reality .

You are right on Tman. You learned a valuable lesson and this is all part of how many Gringos blow their opportunities by mishandling the money issue.

Let's take another example.... You want to tip the maid.. Dumb Gringo..
Gives her $10,000 colones and tells her to leave extra towels.
Smart Gringo leaves $2,000 colones, remembers her name, gives her a little cheap nothing gift like chocolates or cheap perfumes. Which one will get the better service?

It's not how much you give them, but the thought behind it.

I once brought a Tico worker a super cheap Timex watch ($8) he had asked me to bring him from the U.S. It wasn't the value of the watch that earned his friendship, it was the fact that I thought about him while I was in the U.S. The guy really came through for me big time when I asked him for a favor later.

Another thing i might ad speaking as a latino who has had many latina girlfriends in the past. Dont expect action on the first date. I would say about 60% of all latinas like to wait a little bit before getting physicall. Now you might be saying those odds arent that bad.

But if you really want to romance a latina i would wait till about the 3rd date before trying anything. This shows them that you respect them (RESPECT is huge with latinas) and truely want to get to know them. Not to mention latinas love things that are not easy to get (hence why all the jerk boyfriends).

These are just my observations in the dating scene. Remember nothing is 100% sure.

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We are here to talk about getting laid while getting treated like a girl might treat her boyfriend.

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Junfan....I have been reading all these posts just this month and just LMAO because so many of them went so far off topic that you just can't help but shake your head. Just to let you know it happens alot here and some time it takes the person who started the thread to bring it back to the original topic. Just watch out when Hand-Solo, Pacoloco and Latinoheat69 get ahold of your thread...it's over.

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had same experience from bm she would knock on my door at 3 or 4 am ask to spend the night sex for free....even wanted me to stay an extra week she would trick for our cash........too bad I didn't take her up on her offer