www.CostaRicaTicas.com

Color me guilty as well. How does that old rap song go? "You gotta lick it before you stick it.." I'm with you Ye Old Man. If you are going to do it then do it right.

dapanz1

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Paradise= Sitting outside the Bodega in Panama City about 1 am. Drinking cool Balboas with cool friends and blazin' hot Colombianas. I want to be there..RIGHT NOW!

I say pack a lunch and enjoy!

Yup .. I do have a red nose .. actually looks like I drink too much ...

I didnt get the nickname Sr Lengua for nothing

To me sex without DATY is like an ice cream cone without chocolate sprinkles. It is good without but so much better with.

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Only Irish coffee provides in a single glass all four
essential food groups:
alcohol, caffeine, sugar and fat.
Alex Levine

OK, flame away, but i did daty in CR covered. yes, covered. Check it out: On comdomania.com, before I headed down, I bought dental dams, or some such name. Little pink squares of latex you put over the pu*sy. With my chica, I did DATY plus 69, covered at both ends. She got off, I got safe. Got the feel of daty and 69...made her happy...got into it...was safe for me...tasted like plastic. That's fine with me cause I catch nada. The Bat.

Does that come in banana flavor.

Dude, check out codomania. No banana. the ones I bought were strawberry. I could have used more flavoring because it still tasted like plastic. However, with a buzz on, and a chica moaning away, the result is the same. Peace out. Bat.

During my first trip I had unprotected blow job, intercourse,
and DATY. If disease is spawning in the CR sex worker
population, I'm probably a dead man. I didn't really intend
to go in her unprotected. She was rubbing her pu*sy over
my member and just kind of popped him in somehow. It
didn't stay in unwrapped for long though.

I use mouthwash. I would never brush my teeth right before
kissing or DATY as the tiny cuts inside the mouth make
it easier for disease to establish. A dental dam is good, but
I've never really found a good way to break one out. I guess
if I end up in the San Jose paper you'll know unprotected sex
with a hooker was a bad idea.

Mainman,
Unprotected sex with anyone who you are not with in a very monogamous relationship is ALWAYS a bad idea. There are numerous accounts of it on this board, and it is unanimously a BAD idea. I hope nothing bad becomes of it my friend, and your p*cker doesn't rot off or you die in less than 5 years. Yes it feels much better without, but sayin I shoulda listened to the big head won't be much consolation.

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CR LOS or PI Come horny, Leave Happy
Being 'over the hill' is damn sure better than being under it!
I was always taught to respect my elders, but it keeps getting harder to find one.

Between the guys admiting to unprotected sex and the guys worried about Ch*ld support, I wonder how many of us are doing it BB?

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Why Chicas Come to CostaRica:

"Predators gather where prey abounds"

There seems to be several recurring themes I have been observing.
BB if you know her, and she lets you.
BB if she is new at it, and doesn't know better.
BB if she is really hot
BB if it's an old guy, and he can talk her in to it.
BBBJ or DATY whenever you can.

Texas,

You're right about the recurring themes, and I know where you are coming from as you got flamed left and right for your "getting-tested-before-going-bareback" approach.

I didn't want to get into that discussion. Why, you ask?? Well, because I thought your approach was dumb. And Texas, hear me out, because I do not mean that in an offensive way...

The truth is that we are ALL dumb in terms of taking risks. Look at me, for example, I used the thickest condoms I could find, thinking it would be "safe", and a condom broke on me inside one of the most popular ho's in the city... Am i clean? I don't know, and I won't know for another couple of weeks. We ALL are not being smart, or are ALL taking a big risk, or being dumb as I put it... we qualify for ALL of those by the mere fact that we MONGER!! If you want to eat box, you take a risk, if you use a condom that has a chance of breaking, you take a risk. WE ALL TAKE A RISK IN THIS HOBBY.

So as u can see, what I'm saying is I had no reason to flame you when I am dumb myself...

Now, there is such thing as a more calculated risk, but that to me, to some degree does not hold water. If you DATY or have sex without a condom, you play russian roullette. If you monger and do everything with protection, you are still playing russian roullette, just with less bullets in the chamber... And anyone who plays russian roullette, in my book, has no concept of what safety REALLY is. So what if you have only one bullet as opposed to ten bullets in a twenty-round chamber (I know that a 20-round chamber doesn't exist... just go with it and don't break my balls)... you're still being an idiot by playing the game.

That doesn't mean that I throw caution to the wind and be completely careless... don't misunderstand me, I NEVER have sex without condom, but man, I sure love bbbj's!!! I am as safe as my personal preference and my own conscience allows me to be. If I am up at night stressing about what I did, then that's the perfect litmus test to know that I probably crossed my own internal line of comfort

Bottom line, abstinence is the only 100 percent sure way of being safe in it's truest form. Even monogamy is unsafe, as you have to trust another human being into being honest too... I've gotten one STD in my life, the clap, and I got it from one of two girls in my life that I was truly monogamous with... go figure, eh? Someone stand and clap for monogamy (um, no pun intended).

So let's all "be safe" in however you personally see that to mean to you.

But trust me, to some degree (some more than others, some less) all the "recurring themes" noted by Texas belong nowhere in the vicinity of the word "safe".

Not playing high and mighty here, my friends, that behavior does not exist in me. Just thought to type out some thoughts that ran through my head as I was reading this thread.

I'll be the first to say...

I'm guilty as charged your honor, I... am dumb.

Ruffnutz

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"Just when I thought I was out... They pull me back in." -- Ruffnutz on trying to quit CRT

Ruffnutz;
That is a well thought out post.
I agree with everything you say.
In reference to my being flamed; my response is to just stay low profile.
In terms of my comfort/risk level, Same girl, we both still test negative, and boy does she try to please.
It will be interesting to see how hard she tries to stay.

Maybe all this Homeland Security stuff has made me a bit paranoid but I would be VERY careful about what I post on an internet group. You never know who is watching and if those types are watching they have the means to find you.

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Only Irish coffee provides in a single glass all four
essential food groups:
alcohol, caffeine, sugar and fat.
Alex Levine

She is a legitimate Cost Rican contractor to my company, coming to the States to receive company training.
She has earned the right to have the opportunity for a good income, regardless of how long I am with her. She is pretty sharp, actually.

If you have sex, you take a risk. (As you mentioned).

Personally, I never have unprotected sex... even with girlfriends here in the States. (Of course, I've got a new one, every two weeks).

However, I think that the AIDS scare is WAY OVERBLOWN.

I mean... does anybody on the board know of anyone who has died of AIDS and WASN'T a homo or a drug addict?

I don't. And I know a lot of people. I think it's kind of suspicious that none of the people I've know who have died, died from AIDS or HIV related illnesses.

But I know a lot of people who've died in car accidents.