Okay I give up:
http://www.sugardaddyforme.com.
You're right PacoLoco it's no big secret. A little research would fine that back in January of 2009 I posted the name of the site and pretty much the same story to finish off my January trip report. The confusing factor is that there are literally dozens of sites using a variation of the phrase sugar daddy. Virtually all of them or some form of ripoff. I do not want to be seen as promoting this particular one although obviously I am. I'm a very easy going person not easily offended and deftly not give in to being defensive. What I'm trying to relay here is I'm very comfortable with pursuing something that doesn't work out. My logic is I had a little adventure it's nice if it succeeds but at least I can say I was participating if it doesn't. Part goes back to that old saying better to have tried and failed and not to have tried at all.
Pacologo is right it is a lot of work if you want to consider it work. I consider it devoting time to my favorite hobby. Of course I could say that our boy Pacoloco has just gotten lazy and only picks the low hanging fruit. But he's a nice guy and I respect that not everyone enjoys the hobby in the same way.
One of our members suggested that I go into more detail. You know put some numbers to it. Gives some details about strategy. So here goes: remember I tend to ramble.
Late each evening usually just prior to going to bed I log onto the website and do a search. 80 miles out from my home the only criteria for the search is that they log on that day. If you put too many details in your search like age, height, and so on your going to filter out some very promising finds. Most of these ladies are very nervous about what they're doing and put in minimal information on their profile.
Will get a list of the ladies that logged in in your search area that day. I immediately reject those with professional photographs, sexually explicit photographs, age requirement for her SugarDaddy 18 to 90 ( bet money she's a professional ), says she's looking for the love of her life ( some just don't get it it's not a dating site ) and anyone who says they're over 5 foot eight. I'm not a big guy don't like big women. Do not shy away from those without a photograph. Remember you're looking for a nonprofessional whose definitely not interested in being identified by her friends. Do not shy away from one that says she has an ample figure. At least in my mind and I would think it most of your ample would imply heavy. The site has giving me a little insight into how women think about their bodies too thim ample is a reference to their breast.
When you join you will be required to fill out a profile. What you put on that profile is your business all I can tell you is what I put online and why. A photograph I would suggest not one of you posing with a bartender from the DelRey. Something your mother would be proud of. You will be asked your financial status in very broad terms. Be honest as the more you suggest the more they will expect. What you're looking for. Be as vague as you can about that to give yourself plenty room to play. Although let them know in definite terms you are not looking for a relationship. And discretion on both sides would be appreciated. Tell them you're not married that is very important to most of them. In the vaguest possible terms tell them what kind of relationship you're looking for. I say I'm looking for a companion to spend a couple of weekends with me a month. And specify that I have no interest in a long-term relationship. I strongly suggest you leave out such things as bbbj required. As stated before they know what's expected of them.
You found someone who interest you are someone has contacted you. If I find one that seems interesting I send a PM to her stating that I'm interested and would appreciate it if she would look at my profile and if also interested contact me. " Hey babe I've got a big one want some" not recommended. In response you will get everything from a very short reply saying "yes I'm interested" to a 200 word dialogue about what she expect you to do for her. Respond to the first delete the other. Anything in between your choice.
Highly recommend you require a photograph before agreeing to meet. Tell her you completely understand her desire for privacy so you're including your e-mail address for her to send the photograph to. Request a full-length photograph nothing explicit just a photograph you would show anyone. You will impress her that you're not a sex addict looking for nude photographs of young women but a gentleman who respects her and her privacy. Got to tell you guys that sh-- works.
Your identity is protected at all times. So if you give the lady and e-mail address create a fake one to use. Until you know you're dealing with a rational person do not reveal your name a telephone number or address. In one of the PM I received a member made the statement that most of the younger good-looking girls say in their profile that they're looking for a man only a few years older than them. I am 63 in no way I consider myself a young girl's dream man. That said I am 5'9" slender build with a full head of hair. Put me in some decent clothes and most young women would not be ashamed to be seen talking to me in a bar. The point I'm making is what they stayed in their profile and what they're willing to accept to get what they want is usually not the same thing. That's why you should somewhere along in the respondents include a decent photograph of yourself. That way if your appearance is an issue you won't Be wasting time.