Mr. Sunshine,
I feel your pain, or, felt.. First, I would not judge the Latina population by gulch girls. The girls you so aptly describe are prostitutes who phuck multiple times per day if they're lucky. I'm certain the guys who live there have a whole other population of girls they choose from, and use the gulch as a "yuk-it-up" place, a place to gamble, drink, and meet other guys, and occasionally get lucky.
Second, I find a distinct difference between pro's, semi's, and of course, non's. I favor non's over semi's, and pro's last - with the occasional exception. My experiences with extended stays in Colombia and Rio were exceptional, finding girl-next-door types with regularity. It's impossible to generalize, but if you keep active and aren't excessively heavy, brush your teeth, and have more positives than negatives in the eyes of sweet Latinas, they'll find you. Money is the great equalizer in terms of opening doors. But as you know, it's what comes next that often differentiates memorable sex (and possibly love, or at least lust) from ho-hum sex.
Third, in my estimation, the only way to peg untapped treasures is to be creative and not always go to the same, path-worn locales. There are so many options, it boggles the mind. Once I got away from the Help district of Copacabana, not particularly looking for steaming, wet meat. Not even a pretty face. I found both when I bought some mints at a street-side stand. This girl, 25, slender, in heels, and wearing a professional looking outfit, was buying a newspaper. Most of the girls you described don't read newspapers. We talked small talk, I got her number, and called her 3 days later. (Never call on the first day.) Turns out she was a non with a day job, traveled between Rio, Buzios, and Cabo Frio, and was recently out of a relationship. The upshot? She was an animal beyond the hot phucking and ass-sucking nirvana girls at the termas. She did those things, too, but this was a dish who never had to turn tricks, and was clearly not jaded with sex. I saw her 3 times at the Vanity Motel on N.S. Copacabana, after an initial "check me out" daytime session at the lake, and lunch. Never would have met her in the "phuck zone" of Copa.
I always look for non-conventional ways to meet girls, girls who may think about the program, but are still working at the local food market. One such experience involved a girl walking out of a market at 5 pm, and as it turned out, was just getting off of her shift. We talked, one thing led to another, and I wound up seeing this girl every time I went to Rio. She didn't hook overtly, and from her experience level and what she accepted from me (50 reais), I doubt she worked at all. She was never at Help, never saw her at an MP or terma - but was just a 21 y.o. girl with a mom and baby at home, entertaining doing something like this in the right situation. Turned out to be my good fortune.
You can always go to the "tried-and-true" locations, but think outside the box on your next trip, and you may be surprised. It helps if you have a little more time than the average six-day monger getaway, but some percentage of your leisure should be directed to semi's and non's, no matter the length of your stay.
Good luck.
_________________ "Don't never trust a woman, till she's dead and deep....One day she'll say she loves you, next day she'll throw you on the street."
"...and if men didn't have this unquenchable desire to have sex with women, then they wouldn't have anything to do with women at all. I certainly wouldn't..."
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