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I try to keep things simple...no chica gets access to my notebook computer.

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And deep too!!!

Let me get this straight. We should be careful what we send to these chicas, not because of what THEY might do with the information, but because of the far more likely event that they may let it slip into the hands of some unscrupulous fellow monger? You can't be serious.

I don't know if this girl really IS "completely 100% trustworthy and doesn't lie to anyone about any intentions or anything" or not. Or whether you can really tell that from just reading her e-mails. Or whether, at some future point after she has been in the business longer and hanging out with other chicas who aren't so trustworthy, she'll learn from them the RFM scams. But I'm willing to allow that this one might be completely 100% trustworthy now and forever more into the future because she has such good character . However, that doesn't change anything about the many other chicas that we've all come to know are NOT so completely trustworthy. I have no idea what percentage falls into each camp and doubt there is even that fine a line between the two. Unfortunately, there are enough of the untrustworthy type and little enough possibility of normally gaining the type of access to their private activities that you got (assuming even that is enough to allow you to know for sure), that for most of us most of the time, we'd be much better advised to keep up our guard against THEM, rather than worry about it because some fellow monger will use it to take advantage of us. IMHO, your warning is absurd and completely misses what is the larger threat and greater reason for being careful what private information we share with any working girl.

This is also a little messed-up. You'd appreciate it if they'd be very selective of what they share from this site with the girls. I'd appreciate it if they didn't share anything with any working girl at all (like you said "better yet, not share anything at all"). I don't post anything on this site that I'd really care that much if a working girl found out, because I also operate on the principle that, like it or not, there ARE those who will share information from this site or even provide access to this site to a chica. But that doesn't mean that I'll share that info of others myself or make those decisions of what is or is not appropriate to share myself. I understand your admonition is recognition that unfortunately there will always be guys who are less discreet than others and who will take it upon themselves to decide what is appropriate to share with the chicas. You're saying to them "At least try not to let ALL the cats out of the bag." However, I wouldn't have put it as nicely as you just did. I would say "If you're going to be an asshole (by breaking the confidentiality code of this site), then at least don't be a complete flaming asshole".

that even nice girls make mistakes and could put your information into ANYONE's hands, not just mongers. So keep your exposure to a minimum, and keep others' exposure to a minimum too.

Many people think it couldn't happen to them, and yet, it just happened to a bunch of the people on here, and not because of anything that was done intentionally.

Mysnoatb,
I understood what you were actually saying. Okay, you're worried about their putting your info into ANYONE else's hands, monger, fellow chica or whatever who will then do something bad with it. It doesn't make that huge a difference. You don't seem to understand what I was saying.

Sure there might be some risk that IF you give risky personal info to a chica and IF she shares that info with someone else and IF that other person is unscrupulous they MIGHT use that info to your detriment. But what I was trying to explain is that is a long chain of IFS and MIGHTS. In fact, it DIDN'T just happen to anyone on here because it only made it as far as that second IF. A much more direct IF is that the chica that you give the info will misuse that info HERSELF and that HAS happened for a fact (e.g. a married friend of mine was getting unwanted e-mails and phone calls from a Colombiana he met in CR and his wife intercepted them). You said this chica is 100% honest, and maybe she is, but you didn't know that for sure BEFORE you had the chance to read her private e-mail (and I'm still not sure you know that for sure now). Most of us never get to read all the personal e-mails of the chicas we meet and most of us really just know what the chicas choose to tell us and reveal. For all we know the chicas we tell things too can do things with that info themselves. Even this chica, who you think you now know so well, maybe her more nefarious actions are done directly rather than through e-mails. Maybe she's honest now but will learn tricky ways next month from one of her less than honest friends. Maybe she'll do something she wouldn't normally consider doing if she feels somehow cheated or spurned by you. OR maybe she'll use the info in a harmful way without even meaning to cause any harm. Any and all of these things are possible with any chica without her even passing any info to someone else to use.

And that's just the chica. We've also been talking here about fellow mongers revealing things they shouldn't. Forget about telling a chica something who tells someone else who then uses that info against you. It may have occasionally happened, but I haven't heard of it. However, we've ALL heard of guys telling things to fellow mongers who then use that info against them. What is more likely, you're telling a chica something and using that info against you with someone you know back in the states or you're posting info on this site that some unknown monger uses against you with a chica you know in CR.

What I've been saying is, sure, what you describe represents SOME risk, but there are ALREADY much more DIRECT and PROBABLE risks associated with indiscriminate sharing of personal info to warrant all of us being very careful of what we post on-line or share with the chicas. And in the scheme of things what you're talking about is probably the least of what we have to worry about.

LOL @ a "genuine" prostitute! and wouldn't it be against 'bro code' to bust a married guy? I'm gonna have to watch my azz next time, there are potential snitches around!

And a NOVIO is born!!! :(

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[quote="J0sie"][quote="Mysnoatb"]I'd love to post her name but can't. She's completely 100% genuine.

I've known other girls and they've shared their emails and stories with me, and yes, they really string guys along, but this one is a keeper.

JUST BOOKED MY RETURN TRIP TO SJ!

I thought I would be going to Colombia next, but I have to tell you, having met the quality of Ticas this last trip, I think they are on par with Brazil and Colombia. YES, I SAID IT![/quote]

[b]And a NOVIO is born!!! [/b]:( [/quote]

No, I'm not going to return session with her when I go back... I've got two others I've been staying in touch with... could get messy - (cue the Offspring music...) Gotta keep 'em separated.

There are two part time girls over at SL who were just dynamite... so I want to hook up with them again, but don't know how to keep the drama to a minimum. Do I not stay at the SL?

Avoiding drama is simple, don't put up with it.

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Dear Miss Lonely Nations--I trust the leadership of Syria/North Korea/Iran/Pakistan implicitly. Should I give them all my NBC information 'cuz they're sure to only use it for peaceful purposes and get democratic real soon?

<signed> The Money Man

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