www.CostaRicaTicas.com

Unplanned births/pregnancies will...ummm....shall we say dent the portfolio....but I expect it's part of "...having game..." in CR?!

The Ch*ld support laws in CR are pretty exact and VERY enforceable in the USA.

Recollect the Eddie Murphy movie wherein the term "I WANT HALF" comes into play....

Good luck to all that dare to "bareback" after innumerable promises of taking the pill, using this...using this....using that...blah, blah, blah. A busted condom is the ONLY excuse a guy can give and even that don't stop the CR laws from taking over.

Irrespective of whether or not the event was planned, a millstone done been placed over the neck of any fool who gets a woman in the family way...she has the Ch*ld....and the rest is pay, pay, pay. That bees one EXPENSIVE piece of tail......

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- Aldous Huxley, Brave New World, Ch. 16

Yet another reason to never give chicas your contact info or last names.

Steven1 - Since you have decided to make my business public: My relationship with my girl and what that entails as far as my "portfolio" is concerned is our business. The pregnancy may have been unplanned but the babe is far from unwanted. But not to worry or let your jealousy get the best of you. We are doing fine, thank you.

Yes, I'm sure the CS laws are great here in CR. I am not worried about that as I intend to provide for my little girl regardless. Since you are airing my laundry, you might compare the law for "residents" as compared to the law for "citizens". My novia is a Nica.

Thanks for your concern and support.

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Pac,
Am I missing something here? I fail to see where he even mentioned your name in his post.
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I don't know whether CR CS laws protect foreign residents or just its own citizens or not. But I would like to respond to your earlier comment comparing CR's "phuck-daddy game" to how the game is played in the US. As stacked as the deck may seem against men in the US, I think it may be worse in CR. You might recall a recent highly publicized case where a dad in the US was awarded LEGAL custody of his Ch*ldren. BTW, how bad a mom do you have to be to have that happen? Anyway, his ex-wife stole the K*ds and fled to CR. So whose side do you think CR took when the US tried to have her extradited back to the US and what does that tell you about which country has gone farthest overboard?

I join Brother Prolijo in "not getting" the Steven1/ Pac55 sniping but do wish Pac55's family especially his new family member all the best.

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I read the entire post, seems like the only one making things public is you.

I believe "having game" was directed at Pac (his standard verbage for why one scores more in CR..... debatable I still thinks its the greenbacks), however I could be mistaken it could go either way, very vague....
regardless congrats Pac and its good to know you are excited to fulfill your obligations which is rare in Tico land.....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xSWM2nVH ... re=related

The majority of these would make good Tica wives (non pros maybe who knows?) ......where are these all found never seen one of these and there must be two hundred hot ticas here

Have to agree with the others. To most of us it did not become public until your post.

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No big deal, ID. It was a thinly veiled cheap shot and I will take it for what it is worth. Nada.

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Those pics look like they were swiped from http://ero-tica.com. And it has long been strongly suspected that most (if not all) of the MODELS that they use on that website are not actually TICAS, but chicas from other countries (even many non-latinas). Whereever they come from, we can all agree that they are extremely hot. Some look like beautiful and wholesome "girl next door" types. Some look more sophisticated. And some look like they could be upscale pro P4P girls. But, personally, I don't think any of them really look like good "wifey" material.

They're all too young and way too good looking. Call me insecure or modest but if an old fart like me had a wife that looked like that and who was also young enough to be my daughter. I'd constantly be thinking why is she with me instead of some much younger stud that could keep up with her or some much wealthier sugardaddy who can provide more of the finer things in life that I could not. I don't worry about that with our usual P4P girls because: a) I only want to "rent" them anyway and don't care what they do when they're not with me and b) they have enough flaws of their own that I figure that I'M the one who could always do better.

A millstone around the neck is a millstone around the neck and not something I couldn't even imagine due to my own selfishness which is coupled with a professional understanding of the "over 50" crowd having Ch*ldren and specificially, Babi*s.

It is simply wrong for parents to be in the "over 50" crowd and think they can provide a "good home". It's not simply the dough, rey, mi: It's the irrefutable reality that the "over 50" parent is not physically or mentally capable of getting the job done and doing right by the newborn into adulthood; and this reality is even more poignoint with the women. The human body, no matter how good of shape it's in simply wasn't built to handle all the stooping, lifting, etc. that an infant requires. Moving from that is the demands the infant places on the lifestyle and lifes of the parents. The "over 50" group have a set way of doing things and it's almost impossible to change it. The sleep pattern WILL change; the life-style WILL change; Life as one knows it ENDS. Every waking moment needs to be dedicated to the newborn and each of those moments require teamwork which is hard enough for the younger parent.

I don't take cheap shots and I don't put people's business in the streets. However, once it's in the streets and they themselves make it fodder for discussion.... *shrug* If the shoe fits wear it. I'm not the one who needs to be studying Central American law relative to Ch*ld support and paternity matters, but, trust me if you dare......they're there and being a gringo don't help the matter one bit. This is not no 10k Colone shake down to get out of it. Nowhere in my post did I even suggest any name or nationality. The seeming fact there was one amongst us who evidently has that millstone hanging is news to me. It was but an observation and more aimed at "barebacking" than anything else.

Further, when the Ch*ld is 10, the parent(s) are over 60? What kind of mental bull roar is that now young adult going to confront when all the other young adults have parents who are in their early 30's (and in CR's part of the world, more like mid 20's)? What happens at age 15 when the parent(s) are now social security age and older? It ain't right is my assertion.....at least for the youngest of the fiasco...and that's what it most typically turns out to be...a freakin' fiasco.

Compounding the issue are the simpletons, mostly couples in the USA...couples over 50....who go all the way to China or Africa to adopt and after but a couple of years, turn the adopted Ch*ld over to the State because they just couldn't do it. Of course, it is the adoptee's fault....or "We weren't told this and that about the Ch*ld...." etc. Having had years in "the business" I saw this trend emerging in the early 1990's and now it's almost a rage.......disgusting. It's the chiild that gets the shaft....

Concluding, and in the most of non PC ways and with the spirit of bringing some humour to a very, very dark topic, I place this link for anyone to click on for a giggle...by Shirley Q. Liquor (have the speakers turned on):
http://mywebpages.comcast.net/axxxtw/b.mp3

oh....and don't forget the lesson(s) to be learned here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5eSflbxXeoo

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- Aldous Huxley, Brave New World, Ch. 16

Steven1,

I sincerely never wanted to create an adversarial post on this board. But, I simply find those remarks not only offensive but to be quite frank horse sh*t! I can say from personal experience in my own family all the way from my father to my cousin and even more immediate that in my opinion Grandparents (at 50+) can make FAR better parents than their mid 20's counterparts.

Experience has been coupled with understanding and tolerance by this point. I am not saying that for other reasons it is for everyone. Or that this is the way it should be. But, to cast such a wide net and make such a point blank statement is irresponsible, a kind of mistake the young would make.

I do agree that you have made some valid points such that money does not make a parent. But, I do think that the qualities of parents can be irrespective of age. The only concerns unique to age should be physical and mental health necessary to getting the job done. In the case of 50 something that is likely to be more of a challenge but, not reason for disqualification.

With respect,
xpatriot

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Understood. But, I'm not referring to "kinship care" which is an entirely different matter, although the physical issues ARE a point blank reality. It's a real shame when grandparents are confronted with cleaning up after the young and supposed to be in their "golden years". Then again, inner-city grandparents have been doing it for ever and a day. It's fastly growing to suburbia, isn't it?

Here are some cogent questions:

Will I live long enough to see my Ch*ldren grown, independent and self-supporting?

Will my Ch*ldren be forced to take care of me in my old age?

Will I be physically able to participate or mentally "connect" with my Ch*ld despite our age difference?

And it's not an "age discrimination" issue, either.....

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"Actual happiness always looks pretty squalid in comparison with the over-compensations for misery. And, of course, stability isn't nearly so spectacular as instability. And being contented has none of the glamour of a good fight against misfortune, none of the picturesqueness of a struggle with temptation, or a fatal overthrow by passion or doubt. Happiness is never grand."
- Aldous Huxley, Brave New World, Ch. 16

Never would have figured that a site about hitting it with hookers could get so complicated or overthought. I think there is lots of talking and not enough phucking or at least not getting phucked right if ya got all this shit to deal with .