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PostPosted: Wed Jan 28, 2009 12:11 am 
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A lot lot of it really does depend where you live too. SOFLA very materialistic and as much as I love the climate, fun stuff and proximity to C.R. and Latin Am. it is a tough dating scene again unless you have that flash and looks they are looking for. Have been thinking about relocating to Texas but in this economy don't want to be the new man on the totem pole.

Maybe some of you more successful with Gringas have better looks and/or financial situations? Me, I'm average but balding and greying since in my 20s so definetely know that hasn't helped but I'm not overly concerned about it. I have been to many socials and get the attention of nice pretty ladies because I dress nice, stay in shape and can carry on good conversation but as soon as they find out what I do (Engineer) is like an instant turn off. Although a good paying occupation in demand still in certain sectors of this economy they want one of the 3:

1) Doctor
2) Lawyer
3) Business Tycoon/very wealthy

And this is from just average looking Gringas too believe me I can judge beauty after traveling all over Latin. And I will only lie and bullshit them so much about what I do and I'm damn proud of what I do. Civil works is what helped pull us out of the Great D. and maybe this one too.

Also I not too picky but don't like ugs or fattys or. And I don't wanna hear "Oh being bald doesn't have anything to do with it you just gotta have game or BS them" esp. from someone with nice full thick head of hair. Do agree need to BS them some though.

Granted I would be happier with my current looks being slim over nice chia pet head and overweight. And then even people with perfect looks have challenges also. Nobody perfect but to bed pretty women really does help.


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A lot lot of it really does depend where you live too. SOFLA very materialistic and as much as I love the climate, fun stuff and proximity to C.R. and Latin Am. it is a tough dating scene again unless you have that flash and looks they are looking for. Have been thinking about relocating to Texas but in this economy don't want to be the new man on the totem pole.

Maybe some of you more successful with Gringas have better looks and/or financial situations? Me, I'm average but balding and greying since in my 20s so definetely know that hasn't helped but I'm not overly concerned about it. I have been to many socials and get the attention of nice pretty ladies because I dress nice, stay in shape and can carry on good conversation but as soon as they find out what I do (Engineer) is like an instant turn off. and I not too picky either but don't like ugs or fattys. And I don;t wanna hear "Oh being bald doesn't have anythgin to do with" you gotta have game esp. from someone with nice full thick head of hair.

Granted I would be happier with my current looks over nice chia pet head if I was overweight.


Thanks for the chuckles :lol: . It can depend on where you live but ultimately just like in CR it's up to you how a chica/gringa will percieve you.

Maybe going to Texas wouldn't be a bad thing even if you are the new man on the scrotum poll.
I'm curious as to why your vocation is a turn off, I feel you being an engineer would be a turn on of sorts. But you are right, the reality is, it's either the bling, good looks and personality or game that will keep you alive in the SOFla scene.
I think the earlier in life you develop your game the better. You just have to alter a few things as you age.

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A lot lot of it really does depend where you live too. SOFLA very materialistic and as much as I love the climate, fun stuff and proximity to C.R. and Latin Am. it is a tough dating scene again unless you have that flash and looks they are looking for. Have been thinking about relocating to Texas but in this economy don't want to be the new man on the totem pole.

Maybe some of you more successful with Gringas have better looks and/or financial situations? Me, I'm average but balding and greying since in my 20s so definetely know that hasn't helped but I'm not overly concerned about it. I have been to many socials and get the attention of nice pretty ladies because I dress nice, stay in shape and can carry on good conversation but as soon as they find out what I do (Engineer) is like an instant turn off. and I not too picky either but don't like ugs or fattys. And I don;t wanna hear "Oh being bald doesn't have anythgin to do with" you gotta have game esp. from someone with nice full thick head of hair.

Granted I would be happier with my current looks over nice chia pet head if I was overweight.


Thanks for the chuckles :lol: . It can depend on where you live but ultimately just like in CR it's up to you how a chica/gringa will percieve you.

Maybe going to Texas wouldn't be a bad thing even if you are the new man on the scrotum poll.
I'm curious as to why your vocation is a turn off, I feel you being an engineer would be a turn on of sorts. But you are right, the reality is, it's either the bling, good looks and personality or game that will keep you alive in the SOFla scene.
I think the earlier in life you develop your game the better. You just have to alter a few things as you age.

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Gotcha. Well I happen to think answering a girl that you are an engineer is a good thing. :wink:

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Thanks Jad. Developing my game and some of the lack I also believe is that I live in a semi bedroom community/family area without as many singles and further from the social activities I like. But not as far away as say Jupiter or Stuart. I love Miami and Lauderdale better for social scene. Palm Beach County does have some good social scene though (Clematis now has lots of good clubs and I go as often as I can and see more down to earth people). Palm Beach Gardens and Wellington nice but kinda stuffy for me. I wish I had small condo. in South Beach. I'm working on it.


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No worries.

By us agreeing that looks take you far with women; would you also agree why YMMV is so prominant in CR?

Yes they are working girls, but doesn't it stand to reason that price and performance would also vary based on this? If you agree, that's why you will see so many conflicting stories on chicas, prices, services etc..

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Yes I agree YMMV. But to compare how plastic SOFLA can be even in CR or Peru or Colombia even if I don't get laid I can talk with pretty women in many places on extended basis (30 min./1 hour) in my semi-partial Spanish and get digits!!! Also when I went back San Antonio last summer definetely noticed women were friendlier.

Is so hard. I would move down to Miami and like living there but commute range too long. I do get nice hotels sometimes and go party but I think I just need to be consistent and go to places regularly. However when I throw in all the M-ger trips takes 2 months to get back on a sched. again.

Living back in a neighborhood is nice but somewhat isolated.


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I found that discussions of occupation were for her benefit, not mine, and the conversation is always boring unless you are a fighter pilot or something equally adrenalized.

Try "entrepreneur" and move the conversation along. A little mystery is a lot sexier than just about any occupation. If she just wants to dig into how much you make, NEXT. It is a sorting process. I never take a gringa to my house and never give a home phone number.

With gringas, the farther you get from the financially needy, the less of this crap you put up with. Fifteen years ago I quit doing "clericals" and "admins". I found a much better time with women who have their own money and are not interested in mine. You find them at the galleries and the wine tasting and the club house (and the grocery store in the right neighborhoods). Bars are full of ego problems and alcoholics. Just my experience.

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It occurred to me that just as globalization has forced the unskilled woker in the US compete with lower paid workers in the Third World, globalization has forced the gringa to compete with cheaper/prettier/less bitchy chicas in the Third World.

Just as companies began a "race to the bottom" of the labor market, mongers have raced to bottom of the companionship market.

Why would a hospital in the US pay a radiologist $300k a year to look at X-rays, when they can send the X-ray images via satellite to a $50k a year radiologist in India?

Gentlemen, if you live in SOFLA and can buy a plane ticket to a capital in latin america for the price of what you would spend to on a couple of dates to impress a gringa (or a gringa-fied latina), why would you bother.

Just think of all the accoutraments our SOFLA member has to invest in to impress these women he is a potential future ATM? The "right" clothes, watch, car, cologne. Just the cost of a car that is is fancy enough to go into the gringa's "fuckworthy matrix" costs more than ten trips to SJO.

My brother is a doctor. His ex-wife took him for $250k after 250 weeks (five years) of marriage. Plus, he had to pay 3 years of support payments at about $50k a year. The $250k comes out to $1,000 a week when they were together! If I gave you a $1,000 a week for a "p@ssy budget", wouldn't you be pretty happy? And if you had to pay $1,000 a week for three years for a "no p@ssy" tax, wouldn't you feel pretty angry?

If you do this mongering thing right, you will be able to unplug your need for sex from your relationships with the opposite sex. If you are getting a steady diet of gourmet meals, you will never even want to step into the office cafeteria to see the slop they are ladeling out.

And that is the trick to creating the "invisible woman". For about a month after a good trip, I am kinda immune to the gringa's "charms". They aren't registering as potential sex partners, so I can relate to them as I would guys. Their bullshit doesn't work on me, I don't have to impress them, and I don't have to put myself into debt in order to be considered worthy of an occassional "bone". I don't have to be the dog in the "Beggin Strips" commercial.

The prettiest girl at the high school dance quickly realizes, that in that context, she has power. But it is fleeting. She will eventually grow old, get fat, get wrinkled and lose that power. If she is smart she will leverage it into something lasting: a good marriage, a modeling/acting/TV newscaster career, a short cut or two up the business ladder. But that window is short.

If we mongers stop spending to either impress, maintain a relationship with, or divorce these gringas, we can make ourselves financially viable enough to be like a multinational corporation that can have its choice of labor markets to exploit.

Its a new world. Since the 1970's, the American man's earning power has been shrinking. A great deal of it was the feminist push to bring women into the work force. What a great arrangement for women! They lower our wages, force us to compete harder for our jobs, make their own money, but still expect us to pay for everything out of a quaint 1940's sense of "chivalry?"

Gone are the days when the GI's returned from WWII and reclaimed their jobs from on the assembly line. Nowadays, not only is "Rosie the Riveter" not giving you your job back, but while you were at war, the wench was getting more training so that even if you do get "a" job when you come back, it will be working for her.


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I still feel that's a jaded, over the top, synopsis of the gringa scene. The idea with the right group of gringas is to network. More and more gringas (particularly younger ones) are starting to move away from looking for relatioships. Does this last forever, no but it does exist.


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Not to get too hokey, but there is also the belief that you actually find a woman you like. Call me crazy, but there are marriages that work.

BTW, this is coming from someone that is a cynic. I believe that out of 100 marriages, half succeed. Of that half, 50% are cheating without getting caught. So you have actually 25% of marriages actually working the way they should.

Incredible couples do exist. I think being overly cynical can be a little unhealthy. But I do think that coming back from CR DEFINATELY cleared my head and made me a better hunter.

And by the way, Cujo, in one of your messages you said that after your first trip, CR only gets better...If it gets better than the first time, I can't wait!!!!

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And by the way, Cujo, in one of your messages you said that after your first trip, CR only gets better...If it gets better than the first time, I can't wait!!!!

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Absolutely. Don't you agree that each trip should get incrementaly better?

The more you are able to filter the advice given on this board as well as take care of yourself, each trip should get better. I would say it takes a long time to plateau. One can always push the envelope farther.. :idea:


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It has been several years, gents. Has anyone changed their minds?


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JTF-Bravo wrote:
It has been several years, gents. Has anyone changed their minds?


In fairness, I didn't participate in this thread back in the day....but I will say that attractive gringas, are bitchier than ever, especially in the midst of this "me too" bullshit.


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Tony Camonte wrote:
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It has been several years, gents. Has anyone changed their minds?


In fairness, I didn't participate in this thread back in the day....but I will say that attractive gringas, are bitchier than ever, especially in the midst of this "me too" bullshit.


Would you say that the hobby has gotten better/worse in the last 9 years or that dating gringas has gotten better/worse?


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