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PostPosted: Sun Jan 18, 2009 4:33 pm 
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I think we all (or most of us), admittedly or not, partake in BB with a gf or wife etc. It would just be nice to know the pregnancy issue is off the table. Not promoting it, but it certainly is a permanent solution to any further support payments. :lol:

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I have no intention of barebacking any pros but I now have complete peace of mind and a sort-of liberating feeling knowing that fatherhood will never become an issue. :D

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Woo Hoo :shock: :D 8) :shock: :D


I have just made my last Ch*ld support payment. It seems crazy I have an 18 yr old boy at my age (it was a high school thing).

But finally the time has come when I no longer have to see that Ch*ld suppoprt coming out of my check. It's not like the money stops or I wouldn't continue to help him out, but like with most guys who pay support; I'm glad she doesn't get the checks anymore.

Not for nothing, but it's no joke having a payment like that every month for 18 years.....

So now more money means more good times. This feels like a raise...ok, one more yell "HELL YEA" 8)


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This episode explains everything. I will never again question your conversion to the culo. :wink: :lol:

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Ba ha ha ha :lol:

Yea, no surprises coming from there. It's either that, or start making some throat Babi*s. :lol:


Btw, after reading those Rio reports of yours, isn't this a "calling the kettle black" type of thing? :wink:


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Congrads amigo. I am waiting for the day myself when i can spend the money on my K*ds and not just give it away to thier moms. 13 more years( +/- college) of making 1300$ a month payments so thier mom can stay home and not work. i would come buy u a drink but shit i got K*ds to feed. lmao :lol:
enjoy the extra colones and spen it wisely!!

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42 months to go on "maintenance" payments......and the b*tch has a $70,000/yr job......what's wrong with this picture.......


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Hi Guys,
I had the duty for some time, too. But I got a good Attn. twice, but it has cost me!!! And that's in the states, not CR.
Hope the best for you and there is always light at the end of the tunnel!
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Been there, done that....The bitch is on her 5th husband. She drains their bank accounts, then divorces them taking everything. I was the 1st one, and only one, who had a son.
It was a glories day when I wrote the last check, she made sure she took me back to court everytime I got a raise during those years.
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court date set to vacate order on jun 10. havent been since this happy since my first dupla. for 15 yrs whenever i would recieve a letter from 34 s. 11 st i'd want to punch something this last time the clerk had to ask me what i was so happy about.

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Congrats, Cujo's, you're a good man!!!! Now go out and party and tag a hot chic, con condom, :lol: :lol: :!:

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 10, 2010 11:30 pm 
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but like with most guys who pay support; I'm glad she doesn't get the checks anymore.


I never will understand this. What do guys that don't live with their K*ds want from their ex, for her to manage the life of their K*ds for free?

Ch*ld support is less about clothing, food and shelter and so much more about "TIME." The TIME men have to be out doing whatever they want should come at a cost.

I always wondered why nightclubs were basically dude ranches... fuccking overrun with dudes everywhere. 10 men to 1 woman ratio. Then it dawned on me, moms are stuck at home with his K*ds.

Just remember that pretty much anything you pay someone else to do whether it is to wash your car, clean your house, mow your lawn, LABOR is the biggest cost so no wonder Ch*ld support is beyond what clothing, food and shelter costs.

Oh and same applies when K*ds live with their father full time... the ex should pay just the same so I'm not picking on men.


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I never will understand this. What do guys that don't live with their K*ds want from their ex, for her to manage the life of their K*ds for free?

Ch*ld support is less about clothing, food and shelter and so much more about "TIME." The TIME men have to be out doing whatever they want should come at a cost.



I hear what you're saying but I lived just 9 miles away from my K*D, not to mention there isn't so much "mommy" time once a Ch*ld gets older.. But I'm not going to spend much time defending non-custodial parents, honestly its not even a fair fight the way even if you do the right thing, the sense of being screwed looms.

I find it interesting you feel there should be a fee paid to a parent to babysit... I'm hoping this doesn't sound combative, because I truly do find that amazing. To that end, I currently pay %75 of my sons college, so did the Ch*ld support stop? Not really it seems, but I say again..at least SHE isn't getting the checks... :|


Question of the day.. Who paid your parents labor for raising you? :? :roll:


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I never will understand this. What do guys that don't live with their K*ds want from their ex, for her to manage the life of their K*ds for free?

Ch*ld support is less about clothing, food and shelter and so much more about "TIME." The TIME men have to be out doing whatever they want should come at a cost.



I hear what you're saying but I lived just 9 miles away from my K*D, not to mention there isn't so much "mommy" time once a Ch*ld gets older.. But I'm not going to spend much time defending non-custodial parents, honestly its not even a fair fight the way even if you do the right thing, the sense of being screwed looms.

I find it interesting you feel there should be a fee paid to a parent to babysit... I'm hoping this doesn't sound combative, because I truly do find that amazing. To that end, I currently pay %75 of my sons college, so did the Ch*ld support stop? Not really it seems, but I say again..at least SHE isn't getting the checks... :|


Question of the day.. Who paid your parents labor for raising you? :? :roll:
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My parents did it together. They have been married for nearly 49 years. They were made for each other - both of them are very selfish. Although they raised us (3 of us), it was as if "they" couldn't wait until we got 18! :)

To me, if one parent is putting the K*D to bed, getting the K*D up everyday for school, keeping the K*D clean and in clean clothes, seeing that the K*D is doing homework, taking the K*D to school, picking up the K*D, making meals, taking the K*D to K*D activities, planning birthday parties....etc. and the other parent isn't around but every other weekend (typical), then he or she should pay for babysitting (labor). The mostly absent parent should not get all his or her free time at no cost.

There are unique situation out there, but mostly from what I've seen, men are around every other weekend. Oh and there is a stress factor too, the parent that has the K*D is likely under way more stress than the mostly absent parent so I'd tack on a stress payment too (kind of act the courts do in lawsuits when someone gets hurt).

I really have no sympathy for the mostly absent parent with regards to Ch*ld support... writing a check is way easier than being there 24/7.... it is money well spent.... K*ds are a pain in the ass really... it is one of the reasons I had none.


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I can only speak for myself and my biggest issue was how much say i could have in my K*ds future. the first mistake i made was having K*ds with someone who i knew was as flakey as i was, but with no goals. if i ever donate sperm again the interview process will be a lot longer than yes

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PostPosted: Tue Apr 13, 2010 9:49 am 
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Hey, what is wrong with being an asshole baby????? I always figured I was one, my mom telling me all the time I was a pain in her ass.

Mine left me with the K*ds. You do what you have too.

It reminds me of a story when a judge gave a guy 20 years. He said your honor I can't do 20 years. The judge was aparently simpithedic and told him just do as much as you can son.

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