PB, go for whatever you are comfortable with. Remember that dating is just dating and you should not eliminate a potential partner just because she has K*ds. You are not auditioning to become "Daddy",
you are auditioning her for a potential sex partner.
I dated hot gringas under 40 until well into my 50s mainly because I raised my sights, not because I lowered them. One of the smartest moves I made was to stop dating blue-collar clericals and admins and hit the professional women. Professional women have their own money and are not real interested in harvesting yours. They are busy and are used to making decisions quickly. They want hot sex, now, see you later and don't try to clutter up her life. Perfect.
Don't "settle" for a "BBW" (big bovine woman).
Srilm - You don't win because you don't play. You have everything you could possible need to bang hot chics in the USA. I understand you are not lamenting but I hate to see such potential unused.
The way women sees you has a lot to do with how you see yourself. Just because you are not Brad Pitt does not mean you don't have what it takes to bed the ladies. Fact is, they are more turned on by self confidence, and interesting mind and a sense of humor than they are by mere physical attributes. And don't take that the wrong way: I know you and you are not Quasimodo!
You work at the airport, one of the easiest pick-up spots on the planet! Drop by an airport hotel bar at happy hour. Most of the women you see there will be from out of town and what happens in Tenn stays in Tenn. Be whoever and whatever you want! When you start the conversation and she asks what you do, ask her if she wants "the truth or an interesting lie", then no matter what she sez, tell her a big whopper. Then admit that it is a big whopper and tell her another. Eventually include the truth and make her guess which is correct. See? You are an interesting guy who can make "what do you do" funny and exciting!
They are all third graders: Tell interesting stories, show just enough interest in her, make her laugh, phuck her. It is that simple.
Can't make it happen? Embrace failure and rejection. Soon, you will become immune to it! You are sorting them, remember? The sooner the wrong one rejects your advance, the sooner you can be on to the next one. Learn from your errors and have fun.
Killers: Lack of self confidence (solved in the para above!). Taking yourself and the situation too seriously. Putting her on a pedestal (when she really wants to be on her knees or bent over the coffee table). Failure to engage. Desperation.
She wants to phuck as much or more than you do and is just as nervous. She is afraid of making the wrong choice and just needs a little help determining that you are not an axe murderer. It really is easy. Just look at some of the bozos out there with good looking girls. You are smarter, funnier, richer and more experienced than he is, so what is the problem.
Engage, Number One!

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"Your love gives me such a thrill
but your love don't pay my bills,
I NEED THE MONEY!" - John Lee Hooker
Disclaimer: The above is merely the opinion of the author unless specific scientific data is included.
Your mileage may vary.
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