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PostPosted: Thu Dec 04, 2008 11:06 pm 
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:D The first question posed was a good one and reading the thread terms like 'sure thing' and 'I don't want to hurt her feelings but...' seem to all smack of role reversal :lol: and that is what makes CR so great :!: Of course it is business for them, but after you have treated a chica well and had a mutually agreeable transaction (even if only from her point of view) the idea of a 'sure thing' or an easy repeat sale is always there. In my younger days when I still had game I would think in terms of she's a sure thing. Now its refreshing even if it does require a degree of dipolomacy to be considered a 'sure thing' :lol: Going with a chica because you feel obligated...is that like a charity... :?:

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its seems like the key largo girls are more prone to try to make me the catch of the night...about 3 trips ago I had 3 girls fighting almost to the point where it was going to be a real fight !!! for those of you that go to key largo your paths must have crossed Luci she is there everynight drinks like a fish ....wears 2 foot heels ...i made the mistake of taking her one night met her next door at the casino, we went to the royal dutch a gave her 20 bucks to gamble with, told her if she wins give it back...if she loses its a present...she won 150.00 (didnt give the 20 back)anyway seemed sweet did everything in the sack .
Anyway the next night i see her in key largo and at that point had no ideal she is there everynight...i take her again but start to see she is a drunk and always "i am ready for a drink' then the next night comes and its the night the 3 girls are fighting over me ...luci thinks i am hers and tells the first girl ..hands off i am hers (this girl tells me that) i said screw her ...well when those 2 are yelling back and forth i start playing with a new one ....buying her drinks which send Luci into a rage ..guess she thinks this girl is spending her money...it had to be the day before rent was due as it was a crazy sceen....anyway i didnt go with any of them ...and from that day on ...it has pretty much ruined key largo for me as i know she will be there everynight and is always eyeballing me and says some bullshit stuff in spanish to me ...wish i never would of went with her as I love key largo but its a different group that hangs in there


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Chi_trekker wrote:

I would say - No estoy interesado ahora mismo. Punto. She's a big girl and will likely be totally cool about it.
They are used to being turned down so if you turn them down as a caballero then there should not be any hard feelings.


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PostPosted: Fri Dec 05, 2008 1:28 am 
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These comments and suggestions got me thinking.

I laugh it off if a Key Largo chica whose body has been pressed against
mine all night suddenly drops me because she sees a more
likely prospect or because she gets a better offer. I remember one time
I made a very good bargain to leave with a chica for $50 but she
decided to go off with her friends for an orgy with three guys who
were tossing their money around. Good for her. As you guys all say,
I have lots of options, so why should I stoop to jealousy?

Still, I continue to believe that the chicas are very vulnerable to
rejection, both as earnest salespersons doing their best and as women
who naturally want to be admired and desired. Every woman wants
to be "special."

Not recently, but I have actually tried the suggested tactic: "No tengo
dinero." Whether the chica stayed or left (it has gone both ways), the
chica did not believe me. Call it being over-sensitive, but I don't like to
lie, especially when the chica knows damn well I'm lying.

I have also told the earnest chica that she was my chica de agosto or
my chica de lunes, and that I want a new chica for every month, and
for every day. Honestly, the response has been for her to call me
hombre malo and to wrap herself around me all the more. When I
tried this, the chicas did not get the hint. If she was good enough to
be the chica de lunes, in her mind she was good enought to be the
chica de martes. I had to escape by leaving the Key Largo (or I guess
I could have been much more direct in saying no, no way, not today).
But then I would have been back in the situation of hurting a hopeful's
feelings. The gentle approach does not work with the determined
salesperson who is focused on those dollars in my pocket.

How do I deal with it in the States? I frequently say no to salespersons.
Yes, their feelings are sometimes hurt. But that does not bother me.
At no point in the past was I gleefully into the body of one of these
stateside salesperson, with the person moaning or screaming or clinging
or begging for mas duro or calling me papi. Part of what the chica does
is an act, and part of what she does is just real human flesh responding
as she is built to respond, with natural passion. The relationship between
monger and chica is a special relation that is not just a matter of
sales of services. Don't get me wrong. It has nothing to do with
love or enduring affection. But it can be powerful in the moment.
And the rejected chica does feel hurt; it is a matter of female pride.

Anyway, thanks for the advice. I like to hear that other guys on this
Board want to buy the chica a drink and somehow help her save face.
This is not all about hating women.

The chica in the Key Largo needs a firm but gentle hand, and I can get
better at it. More Spanish will help, no doubt.

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PostPosted: Fri Dec 05, 2008 1:35 am 
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More Spanish will help, no doubt.


Atta boy :wink:

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I don't think Rio has a "problem" at all, he's just a considerate guy. :)

I echo the strong suggestion to learn some Spanish. This has allowed me to use humor, for instance. A girl who is real trouble, who is banned from the SL (thief) and who probably powders her nose more than is required danced up to me in the KL and said, "que bonito la cara..." (what a beautiful face). I laughed and made a pun. "Mi cara puede ser bonita, pero mi cartera (wallet), no." She laughed and told me that she likes my sincerity. :roll: :lol: Another repeat lady from the past four trips simply asked, "When are we going to get together again?" My answer was to kiss her on the cheek and reply "alguna noche." She accepted this, albeit unhappily.

It's also really fun when the shoe is on the other foot. A small Panamanian turned me down in August 2006 for a date, and sort of freaked out about it at the time. I encountered her last Labor Day at the SL, and she made a point of coming up to me at the bar just to inform me that she still wouldn't go with me. :roll: I laughed and replied that here are many cute little fishies in this particular sea, and that I wasn't worried. She pouted as she walked away; perhaps she expected me to try to win her over? As she's gained at least 20 pounds since I last saw her, it wasn't hard to send her little ass away. :lol:

The psychology of these women is complicated at best. Just be polite and honest, and as diplomatic as you can be, but as Paco Loco reminds us above...you're the one with the control, the cash. It's your time and money. :D

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Thirdworld wrote:
Act very excited to see her, give her a hug... Then work into the conversation how you are absolutely broke right now and how good it is to see a friend... Most will be gone before you finish the sentence...


Awesome, remember gentlemen it's all a GAME! Thats what I love about this comment Thirdworld wrote. Just make sure you stress how broke you are. Hell worse thing that can happen is you get it for free and what's wrong with that....

Hasta luego............

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I agree Josie and Cujo that spanish is a good way to wind you way through the many venues for P4P women in CR. I have to disagree with the many guys seeming to be little more sensitive these days about women of ill repute in a thied world foreign country.

I want to give all of you guys a little tip. Live youe sensitivity at the airport.
I know many of you will say" She really cares for me. She likes me. She said I have a big C*ck. What ever they say or do to you. It is a script. And as we all know. A good actor or actress must have a good script.

You are and always will be a walking talking Benjamin Franklin bill.

Second: Leave your watch, wallet, camera, money, nike tennis shoes, reebok T shirt, mini bar unattended with the average chica and she will show you excactly how sensitive that she feels about you.

Third: As soon as you are out of her sight ( sometimes in her sight) chicas are working on their next client. Trust me. I have seen it.

How sensitive is that?

I have seen girls with guys and they are in the negotiation process. The girls will be flirting with everyone in the casino or bar areas during the negotiations setting up a possible future client!

Keep being sensitive. They are laughing at you the next day while standing in line with their girlfriends at Banco Nacional cambiando dolares por colons!

And their nonworking boyfriends at home with the K*ds waiting to count the colons and give her her cut!

I love the rules of this game. Suckers lose!

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If I want to lose a chica that I have had before. It is very easy.

An extreme lack of interest will do it. These girls are working. Waisting time with an uninterested client is not conducive to their lucrative business.

I dont show any interest or I negotiate with another chica or chicas in their prescence. They can not handle this type of rejection. Be prepared for scolded looks.

Some of the high end chicas with breast implant and ass injections do 4 or 5 guys a night at $100.00 cien a pop 1 hour. Four of five days a week. I am not good at math but it looks like a earning a pretty good living to me. Top it off with a good nut every now and again.

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You can always tell her "No mas leche!" they all understand that. :wink:

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PacoLoco wrote:
You can always tell her "No mas leche!" they all understand that. :wink:


That is my favorite one Paco! They lose interest as fast as no mas dinero. Karen is the only one that won't work on. :lol: :lol:


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50 strokers....

Man! :roll: A lot of what you write is spot-on, especially the part about safeguarding your valua bles.

However, the "leave your sensitivity at the airport" line is IMHO pure bullsh*t, unless of course you yourself are an emotionless piece of near-humanity who doesn't give a Phlying Philadelphia Phuck about your fellow human kind.

Okay, they're whores in a third world (technically incorrect term, BTW) country...they're still human beings. It has been proven to me 400 times, by my own experiences and by those of others that treating the girls as beloved lady friends reaps immense benefits for the monger.

Oh sure, we all know it's a game... but wouldn't you rather conduct yourself in a sportsmanlike way? Yeah, the little b*tches are all lying little c*nts...yeah, they're clap merchants, yeah they're just c*m-dumpsters. Right? WWell, some of that may be true, but if you treat them like civilian girlfriends and show a little respect, love and consideration, it will all come back to you threefold.

"Treat a lady like a whore and a whore like a lady..." as the old saying goes.

Being sensitive doesn't mean you allow yourself to be manipulated or walked-upon. I admire Rio M.'s concern for the chicas' feelings, whether they are from professional or personal bases.

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Eloquent as always El C, and on point as well.

Phlying Phildelphia Phuck :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: I'm still laughing! Gotta love some well placed alliteration!!


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One evening when I was staying at the Del Rey I walked my 2nd Chica of the day over to the New York bar because she had never been in the Del Rey before and asked me if I would walk her over there where her girl friends were waiting for her. On the way back, in front of the elevator a chica grabbed my hand and said she wanted to talk to me. I laughed and told her she did not want to talk to me, that it was late (1AM), I had been with two girls today and I was an old man and not capable of doing three. She insisted that we just talk and I told her that was about all I was capable of and let her pull me over to the reception area. We sat down and she spoke excellent English and had a great personality and was fun to talk to and I offered her a drink, but told her again that it was just not going to happen. She started sucking on my fingers and said if we go up to the room and nothing happens you don't have to pay me and I promise no drama and we will still be friends. So I finally gave in and it was up to the room. I have to admit she had talent and when she finally swung her leg over and climbed on she seemed pleased with herself and I laughed and told her that she was too optimistic and not to expect anything to happen. And sure enough; nothing did. She did keep her word and left with no problem and being the nice guy I am I also felt that, after the free sample, I should patronize her services and did so a day or two later. After that whenever I would run in to her the 'sure thing' attitude would be there to some degree, but it was easily dealt with simply by saying after talking for a few minutes, "Well I know your working and I don't want to waste your time". And, although to some of the hard bitten it may seem naive, I actually believe that a friendship has been established between us. I think it all depends on the quality of the woman more than anything. There are working girls that are difficult to deal with and full of drama and there are those that are easy to deal with and not full of drama and I am sure that in their everyday life the difficult ones are difficult people and the nice ones are nice people.

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Lots of good advice here.I believe in telling them the truth weather its i just finished with someone,i'm not interested,waiting,or just no.These girls are used to rejection.Rejecting them and not being rude,ignorant or the ugly american is the key.


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