D2864 wrote:
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I hold no ill feelings toward gringas, because I know that if I had a daughter, I'd want her to be the most powerful woman on this earth. I can't see cheering for 1 (my daughter) and wanting the rest to be weak pitiful souls.
You may think you hold "no ill feelings" for gringas, but it appears you hold plenty for latinas. "Weak pitiful souls?" Is that how you see foreign women? And are you sure you hold no "ill feelings" for gringas? It sounds to me that you do.
Your basic premise paints a very poor image of women, latinas and gringas. Latinas because they're weak and gringas because they're bitches. Who does that leave standing? If foreign girls are so miserable and weak and the most powerful woman "on earth" are bitches and don't "put out", !'d say that's a problem. You say you hold gringas in high esteem. Really? If your description of gringas is acurate, and you want your daughter to be like them because they're the epitome of strenth, being the most "powerful on earth", have at it. It sounds very sad to me.
Once again the idea that American women are the standard by which all other women on earth are judged, has been raised here. I can only speak for myself, but my reasons for rejecting gringas in favor of latinas has nothing to do with gringa power or latinas being weak, or who "puts out", etc. It's to do with culture and genes, and traditional roles women play versus a style that tries to make women more like men. Being "equal" does not mean women have to drive Mac trucks, though they can if they want. I simply want nothing to do with them. I also don't have interest in my girlfriend or wife putting in longer hours at the office than I do. I'm also not interested in the pool of available women being smaller than that of men. I'm not "threatened", as libbers would hope. I'm a "threat." That's because the more men like me who date abroad, the less men available in the pool gringas draw from.
There's a temptation to paint men who date or marry abroad, or p4p, as fat, old losers, and American women as the standard of perfection. I see this as self-loathing and counter-productive. Sure, some guys are fat, old, and lose. But there are plenty of women in the States who look good, but aren't worth the cost of even one dinner. And there are some 6's and 7's in the States that have trailer mentality, who might otherwise be tolerable. Conversely, I have met some dapper fellows traveling, young, eduated, who want nothing to do with gringas. They've tried them and found them to be greedy, or vain to a fault, or not passionate, self-absorbed, power hungry, moralistic, use sex as a weapon, and the list goes on. Of course, there are exceptions.
Now, what was your question about your daughter? Well, it doesn't matter anyway. She's going to be who she wants to be, thank you very much, Dad.