www.CostaRicaTicas.com

One thing we all know is HOW THESE LATINAS LOVE TO TALK!!! CR was a cell phone salesman’s paradise! Years ago there was a never ending line at all the pay phones. Now that has thinned out which is nice but will these chicas lips ever stop flapping??? Well oral sex does slow them down!

It is a constant with all of them. I go to any regular gathering at a Ticos house & of course these are just total civilians there. Doesn’t take long & a big circle has formed with all 20 to 30 people in it. Now they start pumping up the volume talking not only with lips but fingers, arms or anything else they can get to move. Really very cute to me. They talk through each other, around & over each other. What a free for all!

The Chicas at HDR are this way. This is why I don’t mine buying drinks to practice Spanish with them. Hey it is really cheaper than some of my classes & far more interesting. They wear EVERYTHING ON THEIR sleeves. So much emotional energy is released it isn’t funny when you get them rolling. I really learn much more this way than one on one.

There maybe an ugly gorda at the table but I don’t forget them either. I always offer to by them a drink also & talk to them. Believe me this comes back to you in other ways. Funny it isn’t long once they realize you are a decent human also they switch to econo mode saying lets go where it is cheaper to drink. They know.

Networking is so important there. It is a much smaller place than we realize & THEY TALK LIKE CRAZY! I am surprised at how many remember so much detail about me from years past & I just spent 1 or 2 times with them. I am happy they have a smile about it all.

One thing that has always stuck out in my mind as I listen to these circles of friends whether it be civilians at their home or a group of ladies of the night is they will emphasize what a good person so & so is. This seems to take much more priority to them than what I hear in the states like the gringas saying “he lives in that big house & drives the BIG BMW”. Like I said these Latinas are simple with better values so you don’t have to up sale yourself AT ALL!!

Funny that when I find a new Chica I have never seen before & talk for a while some tell me everyone here says you are a very good person. Boy do they talk but in this case it helps me. I think this is why they did not ask for money up front. Only one Colombiana asked for this & that was I believe because I was in a hurry to squeeze one more in right before I left & didn’t have anytime to talk long.

I don’t see how they really think I am a good person by what all I do but then again sex is something that isn’t a big deal at all to them. I am always amazed at how quickly they can normalize with a man too the point true orgasm isn’t that difficult for them. This culture too me is far more natural than ours with ours being the truly perverted marketed twisted unnatural way.

To be honest the regular Ticas are harder to get to know because many are quite shy. I never had much trouble getting to know Ticas where ever I went but sex is not easy with the good girls that is for sure. If they have had a Ch*ld or divorced then the whole equation has drastically changed & it is much easier. What I have found is you might as well go after the hot civilians because many of them can be quite shy also.

I never take a NO personally from anybody. What’s the point of that?

I see all these gringos that say I don’t have to fit in!



Now this was quoted in another thread & I do understand his point but if one wants to broaden horizons I would recommend a different approach. No way will this get you in some of the circles I have been in but maybe these men are fine boxing themselves into a corner. Just don’t be unhappy when you fine yourself where you put yourself.

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I agree. I noticed that a lot of the gringos who live in CR aren't successful retirees, they more often than not appear to be successful collectors of SSI benefits for mental issues. They get to CR and like nothing other than drinking while complaining about anything and everything.

Not that there is anything wrong with taping two or three foreign women in a day. As a matter of fact it is one of my favorite things to do.



Catch ya next time around!

Chi_trekker,

Boy I wanted to say most of all what you have posted. I don’t want to be overly negative but the truth tends to be. This is the best board I have ever seen on CR & hope it always is. Nice to see some of this come out & to see others that see the same thing.

What I have done down there I find to be very rare but was very easy because it was fun to do. Maybe it was pure luck for me ?

You are right about so many bad Gringos. There are many very good men but the # of real problem Childs amazes me. Many have become very desperate in a foreign land. This is not good for anyone.

It is harder to meet higher class Ticas but well worth every bit of effort just like learning the language & culture. It is all like a big ball rolling down a mountain. It just keeps getting better faster!

Your analogy of things in CR is 100% correct of the way it is too me & this is why I stay off the radar screen. I am at peace & don’t need to be bothered with problematic people.



So true & I believe men that show confidence with total control over their life minus the arrogance are noticed more. Like I mentioned you don’t have to work hard at much other than being in good control over yourself. They will do the rest opening many more doors.

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This was an excellent post thanks guys

Chi_Trekker would you happen to be from Chicago?

Yes he is, There are a lot of us around Chicagoland......

really, thats cool, I will just have to spend my time in the Chitown section of the board

Zippy, this thread just keeps getting better!!! some really good thoughts and comments here.

And I agree with you--Chi_trekker laid it on the line just as I feel about a lot of it. Wish I had said it like he did.

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Many good points on this thread.

Yes, there are all types of Gringos just as there are all types of Ticas in Costa Rica. Some are good, some are bad and some fit somewhere in between. You can't put everyone into 1 or 2 or 3 easily defined boxes. There are just too many different types of people from different backgrounds.

As for Gringos who travel looking for love "in all the wrong places" let's explore this a little.

Picture a guy over 40 who is or was married. Worked hard to support the wife and 3 little ones since he was a young man. He didn't grow up with the internet. He hasn't traveled "for fun" because his life was on a different track. Have some of you forgotten that that guy was you at one time?

So now this guy finds himself no longer married, for whatever reason. The K*ds are grown and maybe they or he have moved apart. He is alone, maybe for the first time in his life. He is lonely but still wants a "companion".

He hasn't "dated" in years. He's put on 20 or 30 or more pounds since his college days. He's also lost a lot of hair and probably wears glasses now.

His self-confidence is at an alltime low. How does he "get back out there"?

Where is his social network? The women at work are either married or bitches. He tries the online dating thing and that sucks. The world has changed and he feels like it has left him behind.

Someone tells him or he read it somewhere that you can travel to Costa Rica. With all the hype he's seen from land developers in magazines and on TV he begins to think that Costa Rica is just like the good old USA but only warmer, cheaper and is just overrun with sweet, poor, young, beautiful and uneducated women that would just love to spend time with him.

Maybe some guy he knows talks about his fishing trip where he and his buddies found this bar that is just full of hot, young women. It could be JACO or it could be the Del Rey but he knows it's in Costa Rica and it's "paradise"!

He gets a passport (maybe his first) and sets off to find this place he's heard about. He stumbles into the Del Rey all wide-eyed and optimistic. He might have never paid for sex in his life but he's open to anything. Of course he doesn't speak the language but his buddies told him that wasn't important as long as he has money.

So now he's entered a world he has only fantasized about. Oh sure, he's been to strip clubs in the US and went to Vegas once for a business convention but he's never seen anything like this. It is wall to wall. They are young, they are HOT and they are looking at HIM!

They grab his butt. They call him Papi Rico. They want to know if he wants company? The girl can tell by the look in his eye that he's a new fish in town. The price? "For you, mi Amor, only cien". He may or may know that cien is roughly $100 and he's thinking, "Hell, I blew that last week for drinks and a few lap dances where I had to sit on my hands. Now this little beauty is going to make all my fantazies come true for that same $100??? I'M IN HEAVEN!"

He isn't a bad guy. He isn't trying to throw his money around. He isn't trying to distort the "going rate" or economy of a third-world nation. He is just a lonely guy who is new in town and thinks he has truly died and gone to heaven.

Of course she treats him like a king. This guy doesn't want the fantasy to end so he makes a date for the next night. Now remember this guy has been born, raised and brain-washed to think like an American male.

For the "date" he takes her to dinner. He thinks, "Hey, I have to eat and I don't like to eat alone. I'm sure she would love to go somewhere nice for dinner."

As the week goes on they are seen together each night. He has taken her out each night and maybe made a trip or two to the mall. "She has nothing and is so grateful for all that I buy for her. Of course she looked really hot just for me".

He doesn't want his new found love to leave him and he sure doesn't want to think about her being with someone else. He occupies all of her time and it's obvious to him that she really cares for him.

So what is the next logical step (in his mind)? Gotta make a serious move. Make the offer to support her if she promises to not "work" anymore. Of course there is a good chance that she has already mentioned this arrangement.

He returns back to his boring life in the USA with all that has transpired in the last week swirling around in his head. He's thinking about getting her a visa to join him. He's thinking about taking an early retirement and moving to his new found paradise.

And so it goes on and on. Another love-sick and soon to be broken-hearted (and maybe broke) Gringo who just got in over his head.

Let's not be so quick to judge. I have a feeling many of us have been in that same boat to some degree at one time or another.

What sort of comment is this???????

Clearly, you(MrLV) have a page to yourself.

Pulled any wings off flies lately?

Damn, Witling, I met that guy last night in the Rey, he had gray hair!! AND, I met him yesterday afternoon in ZB- and he had NO hair! AND, I met him the day before in the NYB--and he was an old fat guy! AND, I met him that night at Idem--and he was old but thin! etc! etc!!

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaRIGHT ON Witling There seems to be a lot of guys that fit your mold

AND, I am old, fat, gray and balding And I just dumped my tica "LOVE" but not till after she got a lot of my money ( but I got a lot of pleasurable, exciting plucks); and I STILL GET TO LIVE HERE IN PUSSYLAND

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What Witling posted is what I would guess to be the general situation. It is easy to visualize all that has happened to so many men. This is where I hope many men read this early in their life & get out seeing the world as soon as they can. I pushed myself to start in my 20s & was this ever a great move on my part.

I don’t mean to be so judgmental but just stating what I see & experience. I do feel for these men that fall into these difficult situations. I hope they explore sites like this so they can be better prepared for a new & better life. At least it does exist for those that can put it together. Sites like this have tremendous value for those that use it wisely. The men Witling refers to have less time & can ill afford to make big mistakes that can be so costly at this stage of the game.

Actually I can see where good men that have a solid religious value background maybe better off than us mongers (BORING TO ME ). This type of guy might be able to stay away from the possible confusion of what we do allowing him to settle into a real life situation with regular Tico families where he can learn the true culture & the value of their simple lives. Anything is possible down there from what I have seen.

I guess I was lucky to put myself down both sides of the street early on where it allows me to enjoy the good of both while forgetting the rest.

It is very sad to see these old broken men (many hardcore alcoholics) stupor around in a very lost state only to have their bones be further picked over by the vultures in HDR. This is the hardest thing for me to watch in HDR & is why I can only take small doses before I vanish.

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Witling...

You didn't finish the story...

Your subject indeed goes home with thoughts of "visa" for his new love...and, in with his enchantment with all things Costa Rica, stumbles upon a website called....

Costaricaticas.com

WOW! He is not alone! Others are traveling the same path! He spends hours and hours reading the sages of the board. He learns the lingo...BBBJ, DATY. CIEN, RFM. He learns the cardinal rules, he reads the horror stories, he recognizes his novia in the VIP gallery...

and then his novia sends him a request for a "regalito" and the he is crushed. But....

He reads more. He learns the game. He returns to CR. He learns a little Spanish. Some of the sages take him under the wing. He begin to monger with confidence. He develops his own unique style that suits him. He learns to discriminate and develops an intuition on who will give him the best value and best experience. He will pass though the fires of initiation and become the self-actualized monger! Free, feliz and in command....

OR

He'll go the financial/psychological ruin route...

PHX

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Yes, we can only hope that he "sees the light" but there are many who never do.
Many don't even know where to look.

If you see someone who fits the mold of a guy like I've described above take them under your wing. They might not want or heed your warnings or advice but at the very least take a napkin and write the name of this website down for him.

Hopefully when he gets home he'll pull it out and actually look into it.

You can guide a man to CRT but you can't make him think.
Wit

lol this has been good lol