Kccostarica wrote:
That is a fact. My point is that attraction comes into play in when you are talking price. Money trumps all. No Question.
However this thread is about getting a better price, and if they like you and like the way you look that is factored in when they decide on what price they are willing to settle for.
Well said. As we see oftentimes,
money definitely trumps all.
But........ we ARE dealing with living, breathing women. Yes, they're P4P, but they're also
human. A guy's looks, smell, fresh breath, general hygiene, wardrobe, sense of humor, initial chemistry, communication skills, demeanor and overall appearance can (and definitely does) become a factor when she's deciding just how low she'll go, or who she’ll go with for that matter! Granted, not in all cases, but it can certainly swing the odds in your favor - to look, smell and/or act like a gentleman, regardless of how much $$$ you have in your wallet. I know that there will be guys who will disagree with me on this one, but many of us have seen or proven this theory, time after time!
This reminds me of an incident that happened to me:
During one of my trips last year, I was sitting in the lobby bar of the HDR on a Thursday night, watching one of the games on the TV over the bar, minding my own business, while my wingman went to the bathroom. Out of nowhere, an average looking Tica (6.5 or 7) came over to my table and sat down next to me, grabbed my hands and started looking into my eyes and smiling. She was cute, she had a nice body, pretty face, but real small t*ts. And anyone who knows me, knows that I love t*ts!!!!
I politely said hello, and asked her why she sat down, and why was she holding my hands and smiling. She told me that she had saw me earlier, talking with my wingman and laughing, and that she liked my smile, but she was too shy to come over and sit down. But when she went into the BM, some big, hairy, drunk, loud & obnoxious gringo (typical ugly-American) wouldn’t leave her alone. He told her that he’d gladly give her $100 por hora, plus propina. But she said that she was totally turned off by his had bad breath, un-shaven face and aggressive attitude. And she asked me if I’d
pretend that her and I were “togetherâ€, in case he walked over from the bar. So I decided… ok, I’ll play along for a little bit.
Sure enough, about 10 minutes later, the guy walked out of the BM, and stood by the money-exchange window, looking over at us. And he looked
exactly as she had described him! When he saw that she was “with†me, he quickly set his sights on someone else, and he was gone. She commented to me, that she would rather go home broke, than to spend an hour with that idiot.
We started talking, and she was (surprisingly) very pleasant to talk to. She was very relaxed and in no hurry to leave. Around midnight, things had progressed into that very “hot-n-heavy†stage, but I was starting to get a little tired, and I asked her if she wanted to spend the night with me, to which she quickly responded “yesâ€. I let her know that I was not like that other guy (the ugly-American from earlier), but I’m not a “cien-por-uno-hora†kind of guy either. I asked her how much $$$ she wanted, and she told me to simply pay her whatever I felt was fair.
She turned out to be a total GFE en la cama. Foreplay went on forever, and the sexo was fantastic. The next morning, I asked her if she wanted to go to the beach with me for the weekend. We ended up spending 3 days together, and it was awesome. Throughout the weekend, a couple of our conversations got into the “ugly-American†type of guy. She made it very clear, that she would rather take less money to be with a “nice†guy, than to take top dollar, and be subjected to being with a dis-respectful jerk, who treats you like a piece of meat, and doesn’t shower after sex!
She also said that many of her friends felt the same way. It was kind of refreshing to hear this.
Basically, I know that everyone says that “it’s always about the moneyâ€, and I whole-heartedly agree. But “
how much†money is the ever-changing variable to the equation. I’m certainly no “Brad Pittâ€, and I’m not as “young and fit†as I once was. But when it comes to the game of P4P, I will always do my best to look and smell good, and be respectful towards the chica’s. And I would expect them to do the same. And I can honestly say, that by using this game-plan, I can count the “bad†or “mediocre†experiences that I’ve had on one hand. Plus, I’ve always been satisfied with the price I’ve paid for play. But as always……… YMMV!
Respectfully,
Mucho Gusto
