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I'm not sure I really get the "excuse" that they do it 100 times more to us.Does this make it OK to no-show a chica? Also I think it's different when you ask a chica to meet you somewhere other than the DR assuming she is a DR chica. To tell a chica that you will meet her tomorrow at the DR at a certain time,and not be there,is not the worst scenario because she can get someone else once she realizes that you aren't coming.However to ask her to come to the SL or another hotel to see you,and you aren't even there and don't show her the courtesy of either calling her,or waiting for her and telling her you changed your mind,is being a pu*sy as far as I am concerned. This is the chcas way of supporting herself.Those of you who are in business should think about the similarities to your own business.

Respectfully I don't see the difference. The chicas make five sets of plans during the day and end up going with the best option. Most of the guys are on vacation and don't want to waste their time getting stood up. So may be some of them are starting to line up more than one too. This is not from personal experience, the chicas I choose I really want to see and have come to expect the flakiness. Let's be respectful but let's don't be so pro chica in every matter. It's a game.

TW...I don't think I am being pro-chica on every single matter. I really try to be balanced in my opinions. Yes,you are right that it is a game,and I have certainly been known to have back-up plans. Since you live here,as I do,I'm sure you believe that you get better service from the chicas by NOT phucking with their heads. I see nothing wrong with treating them with enough respect to cancel a date that the chica is going out of her way for,if I don't want to see her. Just my opinion,but I will respect yours if different.

I agree with VB.... two wrongs don't make a right.

Standing up a chica that plays games and has stood up many guys is one thing. The problem is not all chicas fit that stereotype. I find that many of these ladies are really sweet and do not deserved to be screwed out of their time, especially considering that time is their most valuable asset.

I am not deep into the karma stuff, but a part of me does believe that how we treat others will come back to us, for better or worse.

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Most of what we talk about on here when it comes to chicas is their cheating and conniving and lying ways so for those of us that don't live there and have been stood up just once, it is difficult to take what the chicas say seriously.

Who on here recently said, "How can you tell when a chica is lying?" Anwser: When she moves her lips.

I suspect lots of guys that come to CR on vacation don't come thinking that they'll treat chicas (the hooker type) the same way they would women in the USA. The relationship between mongers and chicas in CR is way less serious.

I don't think we are any better than them in this game and they should know this and we should know this so BOTH sides should do their best to confirm an appointment before showing up and waiting..... waiting..... waiting.

I treat people the way I expect to be treated......whether puta or priest. Many times others have not passed muster but that never changes my actions.....ever.

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Without getting into the discussion of the right or wrong of either standing up the other we should also remember that most guys who are in San Jose patronizing these chica's are here for a limited time. Their time is certainly just a valuable as the chica's and they do not deserved to be screwed out of it.

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VB, you are very right. And personally I never stand them up if we have plans. Because usually the ones I've made plans with I'm set on and don't want a substitute. And as a point of record the young lady I'm looking for in the other post commented on how much of a gentleman I was, opening doors, etc. I just think the post is ironic as this is probably the number one issue of complaint with guys down here about chicas. To settle once and for all, yes, I would agree if you have a date set at least make some effort to cancel. I just don't think the guy is a bad guy for missing a date. IMHO

Irish Drifter,

Agree 100% that it is not right for a guy to be stood up and that their time is valuable. I have been stood up for a dinner and for a trip to the shore, so I know that end too well. Never meant to give the impression that our time is not important (and sometimes the pain of a no show is more than just the time lost), every second in paradise is important. I was just taking exception to the idea it was ok to no show the ladies, because we get no showed so often.

I also have to admit that I live in a glass house on this issue. I have told ladies (after the thrill of victory) that I would see them the next night at the HDR, but never made it. The way I justified my behaivior is that they were working there either way, and not waiting for me. If I had the impression they were making a special trip in just to hook up with me I would either show or cancel.

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Any man that stands up a chica should be hanged! It just isn't very nice... how dare these bastards!

Never mind the married guys and guys with girlfriends going to CR to Phuck around on the woman back home... this is so wrong* so why question what is right and wrong with regard to actions toward chicas yet we pass no judgement on the cheaters? Just an example that behavior and moral issues shouldn't be discussed here. Too many of us have no room to judge others no matter what they do (aside from violence).

Sorry guys, I just see too much fought in us and the chicas to take this issue too seriously.

*Generally accepted as wrong around the world not to mention the fact that one could bring disease back to the innocent in the USA. I've had a cough that I can't shake since leaving CR... wondering if it is something more than a cold?

The rest of the story:

I did not read this whole thing it is long. Do we know the entire story? I agree 100 percent it is not polite to make a date and not show up. But there could be circumstances we do not know about. The guy could be laying in an alley somewhere with the imprint of a machete in the back his head. He could be sitting on the side of the road in a broken down tour bus waiting for a tow truck.

He could have been talking about Tuesday night and she could have been talking about Wednesday night. ( Head that one happen to me).
I'm not that good with Spanish days of the week. There's always two sides to a story. He said she said he understood she understood he misinterpreted she misinterpreted and so on. Now with all of the that out of the way. I cannot believe you guys used all this time discussing whether it's OK to miss a date.
Lee

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True, I afgree totally that it is bad for anyone to stand anyone up. I just find it interesting this thread that this is one case out of a million chica standups that we are talking about.

What I find interesting is that the consensus is if you can not make it let the other person know.

Sounds reasonable.

Most chicas have cell phones

Most monger visitors do not have a cell phone

So why are mongers held to the same standard of contacting the Chica as the chica is held to notifying the monger?

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Irish Drifter:


In your hotel room there is a nightstand next to the bed on that nightstand is a thing that looks like a telephone it looks like a telephone because it is a telephone. Yes it is a landline but you are able to talk to cell phones. Sorry sorry sorry I just had to do that. One more time I'm sorry please forgive me.

Lee

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