Let me tell you about a typical gringa here in my population 23,000 town.
She's 34, has a teenage son, was once quite hot with a killer body, ice-blue eyes and blonde hair. I've lusted after her for a number of years, and she knows it.
These days, the blush has fully come off the rose. She's allowed her hair to transform into dreadlocks, has gained about 30 pounds, most of it belly.
She has been prick-teasing me for a decade, going so far as to bathe naked in my spa tub after insisting I keep her company, performing mopery (exposing herself to a blind guy by "accidentally" placing her breasts/buns/crotch against my hands etc.
Now, I'm normally much "cooler" than this, but when she encountered financial difficulties, I thought I'd be a good friend and get past her teasing at the same time. No, I didn't solicit prostitution. But, I did offer to help her in a small way ($50.00 or so) to be my 3-D centerfold for an hour. I figured, no big deal; she's already exposed herself to me in a variety of ways, and I know more about the intimate details of her sex life (interesting) than I should, already.
I figured we'd help each other out. She's a fairly free spirit, loves sex, has been involved in swinging, and has even sold porno and sex toys in a store that she until recently owned.
Her response truly surprised me. Of course the answer was "no." Of course, she "accidentally" rubbed her hand across my crotch on her way out the door.
Go figure. Keep in mind that despite my curiosity about "seeing" her naked, most guys around here are telling me that she's not all that attractive these days. We've been friends for nearly a decade, so she knows she can trust me. I've loaned her money (which she has always repaid promptly), helped her with her store, taught her son music and have shared verbal intimacies with her. Still, the possibility of "sexual" contact is out of the question.
I told her that I still miss porn and skin magazines, and suggested that she might find another woman who might help satisfy my need to stroke a little younger skin, until I can return to someplace where the touching is easy and inexpensive. She told me I was nuts. perhaps I am.
In a society where sex is glorified while at the same time repressed, I don't know what I should have expected. Go ahead, flame away my brothers...I probably deserve it. Now pushing fifty myself, i can't tell you how depressing this thread has become. Boo-fooking-hoo.
Man... despite my self-indulgent musings about never returning to Costa Rica...I can't stand much more of this shit.