www.CostaRicaTicas.com

Marketing my A$$, your just a stud........

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I was looking at Craig's List here in the N. California Bay Area, there are some real BIG ladies on there calling themselves "thick" or "well-built". I don't think 5'5" and over 200 lbs is "well-built". The 5'5" chunker was looking for a surfer, go figure.

I have completely given up on gringas, at this point if one wanted to hook up with me, I'd probably pass because my traveling would be handicapped. The constant bitching would bother me, too.

Mojokpr wrote:



How is that different from the 5'8" bald guy with a 42" waist line looking for a lingerie model?

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You kill me with your posts Irish Drifter. We'll have to get together for a drink sometime when I'm in the city.

Trailer Park - The link to Latinamericanlove
www.latinameridancupid.com works better when the spelling is corrected to
http://www.latinamericanlove.com
Thanks for the post.

Having spent some time now in CR, I am amazed at the great attitude I have recieved from most of the working girls And all of the working staff at the Prez, News Cafe, the SL, as well as the other places I have ventured.

That being said I am EVEN more determined to Not put up with the lousy Gringa attitudes I get back home, Medical clinic, local goverment office, and so on.
I'm shure we all have a familiar story.

They should take a leason from the Ticas about customer service.


Fiedler

Irish Drifter,

Really no difference. I'm not the 5'8" guy but I know for me to get an attractive lady interested in me in the states, its going to cost a lot of big bucks. At least here (CR), it don't cost so much.

The funny part about this lady's ad is that she had a picture in there and she was a big girl all over. No way a surfer guy is going for that, hell, I'm not going for that myself.

All I know is that when I'm in the states, the females are a pain to deal with, at least where I live. When I am in latin america, at least they are much friendlier, and not just in the HDR but in the stores, restaurants, everywhere. I just got back from severl weeks in Buenos Aires, allegedly the "conceit" capital of latin america and I found the females there much friendlier than where I live.

Let me tell you about a typical gringa here in my population 23,000 town.

She's 34, has a teenage son, was once quite hot with a killer body, ice-blue eyes and blonde hair. I've lusted after her for a number of years, and she knows it.

These days, the blush has fully come off the rose. She's allowed her hair to transform into dreadlocks, has gained about 30 pounds, most of it belly.

She has been prick-teasing me for a decade, going so far as to bathe naked in my spa tub after insisting I keep her company, performing mopery (exposing herself to a blind guy by "accidentally" placing her breasts/buns/crotch against my hands etc.

Now, I'm normally much "cooler" than this, but when she encountered financial difficulties, I thought I'd be a good friend and get past her teasing at the same time. No, I didn't solicit prostitution. But, I did offer to help her in a small way ($50.00 or so) to be my 3-D centerfold for an hour. I figured, no big deal; she's already exposed herself to me in a variety of ways, and I know more about the intimate details of her sex life (interesting) than I should, already.
I figured we'd help each other out. She's a fairly free spirit, loves sex, has been involved in swinging, and has even sold porno and sex toys in a store that she until recently owned.

Her response truly surprised me. Of course the answer was "no." Of course, she "accidentally" rubbed her hand across my crotch on her way out the door.

Go figure. Keep in mind that despite my curiosity about "seeing" her naked, most guys around here are telling me that she's not all that attractive these days. We've been friends for nearly a decade, so she knows she can trust me. I've loaned her money (which she has always repaid promptly), helped her with her store, taught her son music and have shared verbal intimacies with her. Still, the possibility of "sexual" contact is out of the question.

I told her that I still miss porn and skin magazines, and suggested that she might find another woman who might help satisfy my need to stroke a little younger skin, until I can return to someplace where the touching is easy and inexpensive. She told me I was nuts. perhaps I am.

In a society where sex is glorified while at the same time repressed, I don't know what I should have expected. Go ahead, flame away my brothers...I probably deserve it. Now pushing fifty myself, i can't tell you how depressing this thread has become. Boo-fooking-hoo.

Man... despite my self-indulgent musings about never returning to Costa Rica...I can't stand much more of this shit.

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While that holds no attraction for me there are web sites all over the net that offer, as they describe themselves, BBW. There are guys who get extremely turned on by large women just as there are guys who like very flaca women.

I am not judgmental as I think everyone should enjoy what turns them on rather than worry what others think. If we did not have diverse tastes we would all lust after a small core of women. What a mess that would be.

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alcohol, caffeine, sugar and fat.
Alex Levine

Perhaps the "thick and well-built" chick was looking for a surfer to slap her thighs and ride in on the first wave....

cowabunga.

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YO my amigo El Cid:
Can we say "Prick Teaser." Her knowing you could not see it I'll bet there was a smirk smile on her bitch face when she "accidently" rubbed her hand on your crotch. It appears to me that she is not only taking advantage of your kindness but also of your blindness......but only you would know that. If you need old Circus to fly over and slap the bitch silly just let me know....I feel extra mean this week.

By the way, since she at least has blue eyes and is only 30 lbs overweight, you wouldn't by chance have her phone number handy would you? Okay, I am just so damn pitiful.

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Damn if I'm going to repeat this shit again. I need a drink.
I've been drinking vodka every day for 45 years and I have certainly never found it to be habit forming.

El Ciego,

Man Join the Prick Teaser club with the rest of us. To me what she did with you she has no human compassion? It is mean spirited period. If she does not want to do anything with you why rub it in your face. This is the big difference between a Latina & a gringa to me. The Latinas remain respectful to men where the gringas like phucking us around with mindless games. When I think back in all the years I can never remember a prick tease Latina but as far back as I can remember there have always been tons of prick tease gringas. Obvious all the Latinas did not go to bed with me but they were always polite & respectful with understanding of our desires but never put themselves in a position where they prick teased.

I am close to several younger Latinas in the USA (only friends or co-workers) & they were born here but have mothers that where not. These Latinas tell me these gringas are very disrespectful & awful to their men. They say they do not know how to take care of their man & make it work & guess what I totally agree!

I don't want to get off on gringa bashing as it never ends & we all have done enough of this, just reporting the facts as I know them.

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Spunk glazed Chicas are the building blocks of the universe!

Update to the prick-teaser story:

Her Daddy is building in Playa Hermosa. Eventually, she will herself travel to costa Rica, possibly with other friends and me as a translator. Circus, if we can both be in SJO at the same time, I'll make the introduction... but I wouldn't be surprised if anyone said "no, thanks" to meeting this funky Jezebel.

Pura frustracion,

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El C. - I don't know how you can remain friends with this woman. It's a hazzard of being "friends" with a woman before doing the wild thing; namely, she sees you in a non-sexual way, and will forever. I wouldn't spend one minute or ounce of energy on her ever again, and certainly never give her the time of day for small talk.

There's a real beauty where I live, 26, Colombiana, and she, too, had regarded me as a friend. That's bullshit if you have romantic (or sexual) interest, and I let her know it. I let 6 months go by without contacting her, and then gave her one more try and took her to see Capote. When she kissed me on the cheek at the end of the night, I realized at that moment I'll resume my previous position of having nothing to do with her.

Women hold the cards but you can maintain your dignity by severing communication and hanging out with women who do return interest, kisses, love, whatever. They're out there, so why waste time with women who have low physical interest in you?

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"...and if men didn't have this unquenchable desire to have sex with women, then they wouldn't have anything to do with women at all. I certainly wouldn't..."

Irish Drifter,

You are absolutely right about the bbw thing, plenty of guys like that and I meant no disrespect to those that do. I don't mind a little meat on the bones, just not 5'4", 250 lbs, not my thang.

I guess my whole point is that where I live it is tough to get the attention of practically any female, not just an attractive one. They don't smile, not very courteous or friendly, just not appealing to me anyway. When I am in a latin american location, I just find that the ladies are generally more friendly, easier to approach, will smile back if you smile at them, what can I say.

I was talking to an older gentleman the other day in a cafe in San Jose about this and we agreed that, in general, the females in the US have lost the passion to be feminine. The idea of being sexy, flirting with guys just for fun, it just doesn't happen around here.

Maybe it's just that the latinas know how to push my buttons, I just love'm.