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I need a bit of advice...

I have received a few PM's from other CRT brothers for contact info on some of the girls I've met in SJ.
The only problem is that I don't personnally know these guys.
I asked one amiga if she was cool with meeting someone that I refered to her...she said only if I knew the guy.

I did get a bit of knowledge of the brothers unknown by checking out past posts of theirs...
And they seem like normal decent (for this board) guys.
But the comment from the Tica still makes me reluctant to give out phone numbers.
So, I thought I'd ask how others here have handled that situation

I feel bad for not responding to the PM's.
I mean no disrespect to those who have contacted me...just want to figure out how to best handle this to the benefit of everyone.

Truly appreciate any advice...
Prost!
-sport

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Just opens the door for potential problems for you. Nothing bad ever happens from not saying something...

Your amiga is giving you good advice; and, if the unknown brothers are truly decent guys, they'll understand where she and you are coming from when you say you can't accommodate them.

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I wouldn't just ignore the PM's, it makes you look like a dick. I would reply back, sorry but my amigas don't want their info given out to strangers.

I agree with Orange. You don't have to ignore them, just politely inform them that you're unable to give out any personal details, unless someone has specifically asked you to share their info.

Very good advice.

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Amen,
If I don't personally know them, well, I don't provide intros.
Regards, 911 driver

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Thanks for the advice...seems to be unanimous. I'll reply to those PMs, and explain the decision not to provide names and contact info. I would like to meet a few more brothers so I could pass along a referral or two. Maybe next visit for Labor Day. Thanks again for the help.
A la Votre!
-sport

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I am a citizen of the World...
All mankind are my brethren...
To do good is my religion.
(Thomas Paine)

What's the old saying, "No good deed goes unpunished"...

If it were me, I would politely reply to the PM's, declining contact info for the reasons you have stated... No more, no less...

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I do know and have met a very large number of guys on CRT over the years (I live here). I receive requests for contact info almost daily. I am even asked to arrange meetings between guys and some of my regulars. Even with guys I have known very well and for a long time, I DO NOT GIVE OUT A CHICA'S PERSONAL CONTACT INFO WITHOUT ASKING HER FIRST. I simply explain this to guys and have never had one that did not understand. In fact if I did have one that did not understand, I would not give him the chica's info even with her permission. My recomendation to most guys is "find out where she works, meet her, get to know her, then get her contact info directly from her". Works a whole lot better in the long run!! If it is someone the guy already knows (maybe even has sessioned with her) and he failed to get her contact info or lost it, or she has changed her phone # (this happens ALL THE TIME) that is a different story, but I still check with the chica first!!

Expanding on this subject a little:

The other thing that gets me is guys wanting to know how a certain chica is in bed!! Yes I can describe what she does and does not do WITH ME! Does she do the same things with every guy?-hell no!! almost never! Is there a connection between every chica and every guy? hell no!! Does every guy like the same things? hell no! Does even a picture EVER truely depict what a chica looks like? Hell no!! Does she know him as well as she knows me? Hell no! and getting to know each other DOES MAKE A DIFFERENCE IN THE QUALITY OF THE SESSION!!

Yes, there are chicas who are going to do just about everything with every guy, but does that mean every guy is going to LIKE THE WAY she does these things? not likely!! Yes, when I know a chica that has a reputation for being exceptionally good at what she does and who is liked by a lot of guys, I will recomend her, BUT even then I try to make it very clear YMWV!! Yes "your millaga WILL vary", not "your millage MAY vary"! There is no MAY about it!! Guys that go into a session thinking it is going to be everything their buddy said it would be are going to be dissapointed 95% of the time!

Sure chicas like Karen, Pamela, Laren, Jenny, Jimena, Anna, Yakie, and a very few others who are notoriously famous for their skills and service are a different matter! But I do know guys who sessioned with, and did not like even these 'stars"!

Sorry if I got a little off subject but the point is: Giving out info about a chica is something you need to be very careful doing, whether it be contact info or quality of service info.

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I know this turns this Thread wrong-way around but have you ever/ how often have you been asked by a Chica to recommend her to your friends (no, I wouldn't do that either)?

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"Amen, brother"-ED

No, but I have turned this around another way. I tell some chicas that I have a lot of amigos around & if she shows me a good time/does the things that I like, then I will reccommend her to my amigos & she will get a lot more business, = much more dinero for her! It seems to help when negotiating for cim/besos negros/anal action!

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Damn, there's some snakey shit in in lieu of real game. Why guys feel they have to resort to this kind of sexual blackmail/ extortion to find fulfillment is a mystery to me--one I do not wish to solve.

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"Amen, brother"-ED

OR, he really does have a lot of amigos and is just "enticing" her with future business. Great idea Sin!

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