Again everyone makes their good points & really have too dido Shawn again here as I have found this to be very accurate in my life. D2864 if I had a daughter I would raise her as much of a Latina as I could because I see them more settled & content with life but in the USA it would be hard because of all the peer pressure at school but I would want her to be independent & not have to put up with some ass hole guy that is a true jerk but I am of the old school & believe the man is the stronger of the two & should shoulder more of the stress & BS in life while the woman takes care of the home & little ones & of course her man. As long as both are giving & loving without abuse would thing this would lead to happiness with longevity. I find it easy for Latinas to be givers compared to gringas which so many seem to be takers & confused about what they really want from day to day but maybe I have just had this luck of life & it is really not true.
D2864 women are women like all of us we are made up of pretty much the same genetic material but how we are raised is pretty much what molds us into the people we are. Look at the Middle East & you get my drift!! Anyway Latinas are raised different so they do have a different nature to them. After you live there a while & I want to really here your take on this because I know you will learn much more & see this difference. Gringas have been taught to compete which my hat is off to them but I don't like to do battle with them all day & at night in bed when they can not seem to turn this off.
Like Shawn points out right, wrong or indifferent it is what it is & we will go after what we see as the right thing for us & I never said life is fair anywhere I can remember.

I just think Latinas generally are simple & happy compared to the complex issues Gringas have to deal with & this changes their nature & really lets them be the loving creatures & good mothers we have come to know & experience & the guys that just like sport phucking this means nothing at all & I do respect their way as much as the M-men.

There are many good points to the different styles of life we choose to live & they all have their advantages. For the most part I can say that all my friends that married Gingas are either miserable or divorced but I can not say this about my friends that married women from other common sense cultures, they seem to be quite happy both the man & the woman. Go figure right??

Maybe this does mean something or it could be a quinkydink??
VB good points about YMMV. Women get involved with men one way or the other for a trade or hope of trade of things & if a guy doesn't eventually help them in someway they will soon be gone looking for some one that will help them. Good looks & great charm can only mesmerize them for so long but if you are a love them & leave them guy this can work well. Also VB I have never heard a Chica say you were fat or ugly where on earth did you come up with this??

Then again maybe you pay them so well like me that they over look these minor flaws we have??
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Would you tell your daughter's bf or husband to be, you can probably find something better in Central or South America?
Well if I had a daughter & didn't like this young Gringo that was after her you bet I would perfect way to get rid of him. If I liked him a lot & thought he was a perfect young guy I would tell him never go below our border as those women do strange wicked things to your heart & soul so never do what I have done!
I agree D2864 that this comparison of Latinas too gringas is not apples to apples at all but more like the little loving purring puddy cat compared to a dangerous unstable bob cat that you can not trust from day to day.

But then again YMMV & life is not fair & there will always be double standards whether we like them our not but since this life is so short one better find what he wants & happiness as soon as he can so he has some time to enjoy it all.
