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Witling,

I did not know that you had a Colombiana wife in the past, and yes I know the importance of having Ch*ldren for these ladies. I have worked in Colombia for over twenty years, and been seriously involved with three women from Bogota. One really wanted a Ch*ld, in fact it became an obsession; and I ran.

Currently, I have been hanging around Lima, Peru and met a wonderful lady there that does not want to have any more Ch*ldren. Already has two that are attending college in Miami, and she will be moving to Denver to be with me in the very near future.

While I like Colombian women very much, the lady from Lima is much
better.

Denver

Whitling... I talked with you at the rail a few months ago and you gave me some advice about my Columbian nobia currently in Panama..remember, I had the paper work for her maybe to come to Calif...I have backed off but we are talking again...I'm coming to SJ this week and am thinking of going to Panama to see her but........ Thinking of this Nica 22 who is hot and another Tica I want to see and others...Why in the hell am I trying to be this nice guy and can't say"""I can't do it!!!
My last two trips have been to SJ and not to Panama...It's been almost 6 months since Ive seen her... she is older 39 and not a payfpay gal but These younger ticas/nicas etc... have got my attention......Any more advice??????

Well guys, I'm in love with my dog so much that the thought of her dying breaks me up in a big way.... so even though she is just a dog, she allows me to imagine the love one can have for ones offspring. The feelings have to be incredibly deep.

I'm really not into having my own offspring because I think life is very tough and so I'd feel very guilty being responsible for being someone into this (in my opinion) screwed up world (life gets tougher and tougher).

What I advocate is adoption - taking on the Ch*ldren that are already here and who haven't a caring parent. It is one hell of a chance to take, but probably not much more than having your own K*ds.

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JM - you don't have to be married to have K*ds, however the traditional family, even in this weird world, is still the favored environment in which to raise K*ds.

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Ticas finding it more difficult to marry. My take is that many in the 3rd world do not officially marry because they can't afford it. The common law marriage is more the norm from what I hear. This article is probably geared more toward the upper middle class, wealthy and educated.

Zapato,
Yes, I remember quite well the transformation you made from "over the top" in love with this girl to "horn-dog monger" in the course of a week.

As I recall there was a lot of baggage with this girl (ie. K*D(s), mother, etc).

I doubt if anything has changed since we spoke. If you're still having fun chasing the girls in San Jose you might not be ready to stop just yet.

If, on the otherhand, you have grown weary of the travel and dealing with the "negotiations" and the youngsters, plus you get lonely at home and desire a full-time arrangement, then maybe it's time to settle down (again).

Of course the decision is yours but be true to yourself. You gave both of you time for this to cool down (a good move on your part) but if you want to see her again that's fine, just don't get sucked back into the same situation unless you really want it.

I know how it is being home and alone. I find myself trying to make something fit even when I know it's probably fruitless. But what can we do? It's just the romantic in us.

Keep me posted.

Wit

Double post. Sure wish I could get my "delete" button back.