Estebanh wrote:
I hate to throw rocks at your elegant dissertation, but I call B.S. here. This lady is making money off of you by sexually stimulating you. You are afraid of losing her "friendship", but she should be more concerned with losing your business. You are the prize, my friend. She she should be grateful to get dick from you. She should be the one worrying about losing a valued client. I think sex should be on the table when and if you should demand it. You are a man and deserve to Phuck the hot women you want. Our feminized culture has taught us that we should suppress our natural desire to Phuck beautiful women because it objectifies them. The more a man believes this bullshit, the less pu*sy he gets. Most women will Phuck the man who asserts his right to insert his penis.
She's not a hooker, and I respect that. Very much. Like i said, I've known her for over ten years and she's probably the only stripper I have ever known who has managed to stay away from the drugs, the hooking and the string of idiot boyfriends who leech off their dancing money. Back when I first met her, I playfully pushed a little to see if she would do some after-work extras and she was always firm in saying no. Over the years, I've gotten to know many of her coworkers at the same club and she honestly has never crossed that line. And, really, why should she? She's 33 years old and owns her own home and her car. She also works part time as a personal trainer during the days. She has her shit together better then I do, lol. Over the last couple of years, I know that I could probably take it to the next level with her... not professionally, but actually a relationship, but I don't want to. As much as I respect her, she's still a stripper and still moves in circles of people that I really don't want to get close with again. I've already had one relationship with an ex-hooker that turned out to be a huge mistake. I'm not eager to repeat that.
As for all the macho alpha male BS.... LOL! It's easy to play alpha male when you pay for sex. I'm perfectly content and secure in my male identity and place in this world, thank you very much

Lesbian Stripper/Business women/Salesman with good customer skills generating a good return for her time on a continuing repeat business basis. If you don't want to Phuck her go in the club a few times and only buy a drink for yourself and tell her you are a little light. Be sure to check your purse in before you sit down.