Srilm wrote:
Most people that I have met in my line of work, who have actually gotten married, have been divorced at least once. Few if any of them got married with intent to cheat, but a few years after marriage changes in lifestyle and personality, broken promises and unmet needs -- assuming that attempts have been made to fix the marriage and have failed -- lead to four basic choices:
1. Initiate a divorce that could end up wreaking havoc on your life financially and emotionally (K*ds involved, etc.)
2. Cheat and find some satisfaction in life while gambling that it doesn't cost you a particularly nasty version of #1
3. Continue with the status quo, live for decades, and finally die having lived a life of misery
4. Broach the subject of having consensual extramarital sex -- very unlikely to succeed, but it has been done, and you're still married to someone who cannot meet your needs
I don't believe that #2 is clearly the right choice, but I don't judge anyone for choosing it in this situation.
SR
I tried 3 and then 4 and ended up with number one.... cost me 7 figures.... but hey the last 2 years I have gotten more sex and women than maybe the rest of my life combined !
I have some money left after my darling ex wife took a chunk , some game (not much), and no baggage.
So it's not all doom and gloom. Divorce sucks but so do young girls who like a mature guy with a few bucks who treats them right vs some punk K*D.
I highly recommend sugardaddyforme.com It's a GOLDMINE ! I get laid 4 or 5 times a week off that site and it's a real GFE.