Once again, Pacifica55 is correct.
Not only does she know, but she's figuring out how to use that knowledge.
Here's a novel idea: Marry a woman with whom you can be completely honest.
I will be married 21 years this coming August 20, four days before I leave for C.R. Mrs. Ciego knows where I stay, has the phone numbers, knows my itinerary and the names of my closest friends in CRT. She also knows why I make my annual pilgramage to the land of leche y miel.

it is something we have honestly negotiated.
I lie badly. Another thing: Lying is too much damn work.
I'll be making my sixth trip in five years this coming August. I'll have over 180 days in country at the end of this trip. Mrs. Ciego knows all; bless her for her kindness and patience with her whoremongering hubby.
