JP99 wrote:
I find it difficult to get passionate about a woman when I first have to run down a list of what the does and does not do behind closed doors. I do understand the necessity of doing it, but I personally just find it difficult.
Thanks for your comments. Over time on this board and in CR I've always thought most gringo's (for the lack of a better term) feel this way.
This may be the impetus to my preaching of learning Spanish. In CR it's different then getting girls off the web. I'm not familiar with mongering in the states, but from what you described it seems less "professional" since you don't need to go over bit by bit what she will do. And I agree..
CR and especially the SL affords you time to flirt and shoot the shit with a chica. Through this banter you can playful go through what you like and she may do the same.
I will say to you specifically JP99, start taking steps to learn Spanish. I can appreciate your view and it's guys like you I want to hear stories from once you visit CR and able to freely speak to the chicas.
Good luck amigo
Cujo
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